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Posted: 9 years ago
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I would request bashers to plz stay away from this topic.
This is the story of IshRa so at the end of the day we all know that they will get together but in all this I can't help but feel sorry for the lady, Shagun who has really done so much for Bhalla's but in return is not getting anything.

I know many of you will say, it was her decision to forsake a beautiful life with Manoj and stick with Bhalla's but then again the way every member of Bhalla and Iyer family including Neelu is ready to dump her off from their life even without second thought is way too unfair, specially when the dreams of this life has been sown im her by them only.


This nature of theirs makes me think whether Shagun was indeed wrong if she left Raman for her happiness without thinking about anybody coz they are also same. In front of their own happiness they do not think twice about anybody and does what they feel like so then why blame Shagun if she did the same in her life prior and now after the Earthquake scene when she has turned into a new leaf, she does deserve respect and acknowledged rather than being admonished from their lives as if she never existed and snatching away everything from her (like Pihu) as everybody does deserve a second chance in life.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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no sympathy is there fr shagun
she has always been delusional
raman asked her to marry and she didn't said no
she thinks raman hates ishita
she knows raman since 23 years
bt still she is so full of herself that she choses to ignore the reality
that raman still loves ishita and wl never love her
when she ws with ashok,she used to think that raman still loves her when raman loved ishita back then

if she were a women of self respect and dignity, she would never be thinking of agreeing to the marriage which raman is clearly doing out of revenge and it is evident to everyone except shagun,who wants to live in her fairy tale delusional world
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivanIshraru

no sympathy is there fr shagun
she has always been delusional
raman asked her to marry and she didn't said no
she thinks raman hates ishita
she knows raman since 23 years
bt still she is so full of herself that she choses to ignore the reality
that raman still loves ishita and wl never love her
when she ws with ashok,she used to think that raman still loves her when raman loved ishita back then

if she were a women of self respect and dignity, she would never be thinking of agreeing to the marriage which raman is clearly doing out of revenge and it is evident to everyone except shagun,who wants to live in her fairy tale delusional world


She isn't in any delusional world , she is very well about the facts that Raman is doing all this out of hatred but she still wants to go ahead with this marriage , the reason being getting a family whose value she learnt after earthquake. She knows nothing will change after the marriage, everybody's life will go in the same way as it was going from past 7 years but with a little transformation that she will get authority to call them their own now and I don't think it's wrong
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Posted: 9 years ago
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no sympathy but using her as a pawn by raman is not correct if at all he is doing it intentionally
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream



She isn't in any delusional world , she is very well about the facts that Raman is doing all this out of hatred but she still wants to go ahead with this marriage , the reason being getting a family whose value she learnt after earthquake. She knows nothing will change after the marriage, everybody's life will go in the same way as it was going from past 7 years but with a little transformation that she will get authority to call them their own now and I don't think it's wrong

that is the thing
her world revolves around "me" only
she never thinks of othrs
she wl never change also
and she is nt a women of self respect and dignity also
else raman ko muh pe mana karti shaadi karne se
being selfish is what mani and aliya are being
bt shagun here is thinking that once raman marries her,he wl stop spewing hatred at ishita
usse aisa kyu lagta hai????
wo soch rahi hai ki shaadi k baad raman uske aage peeche mandraane lagega aur ishita ko bhool jaayega
this is what i call delusional
she knows raman very well
she knows raman won't even stop aftr marrying her.
he wl keep on spewing hatred on ishita
bt apne baat ko sahi proof karne k liye ye sab explanations.
she has nt chaged in all these years
the shagun we saw in December 2013
is the same we are seeing nw
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream


She isn't in any delusional world , she is very well about the facts that Raman is doing all this out of hatred but she still wants to go ahead with this marriage , the reason being getting a family whose value she learnt after earthquake. She knows nothing will change after the marriage, everybody's life will go in the same way as it was going from past 7 years but with a little transformation that she will get authority to call them their own now and I don't think it's wrong


yes shagun has spent 7 years in bhalla house.she may be longing for a family but that doesn't let you to lose your self respect. Raman rejected her proposal only few days back and he even gave her name in marriage bureau so it categorically proves that he is not love with her.why does she want to marry a person who is in love with someone else or who doesnt have any love for her. she too must have some self respect for herself and should have rejected his proposal.As a woman she would have gained respect if she had done that.

Also everyone cannot have everything.if she is being selfish she should at least accept that but she conveniently said that she is doing the marriage for the sake of ishitha. this is the point at which she irks. she is not able to mend raman also in 7 years then wat is the use of marrying him?

in my pov she is totally loosing her self respect by not denying to raman for the marriage.also if she gets hurt in the end she herself will be one of the reason for it becoz she s allowing raman to use her as a pawn to hurt ishitha.

so for me she is loosing her self respect here.


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