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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Gan-


Isn't that the crux of the tale that Ishita fought so much for her kids ( their relationship started with her fighting for Ruhi) ... Is not fighting for her own biological one... And looks 'content' in her life? Does he know that she has rejected Mani's proposal or has told him how much she still cares for him... All he sees is her silence to his taunts .. Sans today... When she protested about Adi and proclaimed him as her son.. Look at his conflicting behavior.. He says he doesn't want her around .. Yet he's the one who goes to pick on a fight with her every single time... Ishita was reluctant to do ad shoot with him.. He taunted her and rather got the confirmation from her that she would complete it... When he was having allergic reaction, do you see his anger anywhere .. In that moment Ishita completely was engrossed in taking care of him and he forgot their bitterness ... It's only when Aliya pointed out did he go back to his hulk mode .. And one rebuke from Ishita ... He stopped slapping Adi...[/DIV]

That Ishita is not fighting back, is interpreted by Raman as her indifference...he can't take her indifference as he's hurting and he feels she's not.

The opposite of love is not hatred but indifference( I read it somewhere) ... Raman would rather take Ishita's hatred but her apparent indifference towards him and the kids is pushing him over the edge.



Word!!
I jst love ur take on everything b it a scene,character or anything...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#32
Raman's constant words v/s expressions fight reminds me of the song from rockstar movie

Jo bhi main Kehna chahun barbad kare alfaaz merešŸ˜†

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Posted: 9 years ago
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No Gan thats not the crux of their relationship if u ask me..its not ishita fighting for her kids.its ishita only fighting or standing up whenever there is injustice happening with her kids..and as of now pihu seems happy to her she has a doting family, a father who loves her more than himself and a mother who looked after her when she was away..and thats what ishita wanted for ruhi and adi as well and thats the crux of the story. If u look from ishita's parspective pihu has secured childhood and perfect family and by no means she would want to snatch that away from her even if that means giving up on her right and thats what ishita stood for whenever she fought for ru and adi so ishita's behaviour is still in character she has witnessed how kids suffer due to parents and she would never want that to happen with pihu so she wouldnt claim her right over pihu or stand up for her unless the situation is such where she has to...so its definitely not her indifference to her biological child whats stopping her is her perfect childhood and secured environment which she always wanted all her kids to have., and raman needs to understand this from her vintage point..he would never get a reaction from ishita..ishita is not Shagun...raman climbed the heights of success to show shagun her place and get reactions out of her back then and he succeeded to great extent and now also he is trying the same by different means but what he is overlooking is he is dealing with ishita this time who is very stubbern and mentally very strong; once she decides something she wont budge...he needs to change his tactics if at all he wants reaction out of her..,he needs to reach out to her because he is the one who pushed her away..for once i m liking ishita's stand; she is treating herself as a woman for once..she has taken a decision not to go back to his life and she is standing by it becase she feels even if he needs her he doesn't want her back in his life..and his words arent helping either..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Gan i love your posts. Thanks šŸ‘
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Count on them to portray the emotions so brilliantly that words are never needed for these 2
KP was just too good
Apt description and lovely collages
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Posted: 9 years ago
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In Love with your collages and your write up. What a man RKB is... What a loverboy Raman Bhalla is... He just couldn't let his Ishita go... Be it hate or love or guilt, it is always Ishita in his head and heart... I am really loving the fact that this hate is for his wife and not Ruhi 's mom whom once he got married to. This transformation in their relationship which was never shown clearly before leap is making me happy. Waiting for them to fight their way back to their own paradise.
The collages speak a story Gan... They are lovely.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dmug

No Gan thats not the crux of their relationship if u ask me..its not ishita fighting for her kids.its ishita only fighting or standing up whenever there is injustice happening with her kids..and as of now pihu seems happy to her she has a doting family, a father who loves her more than himself and a mother who looked after her when she was away..and thats what ishita wanted for ruhi and adi as well and thats the crux of the story. If u look from ishita's parspective pihu has secured childhood and perfect family and by no means she would want to snatch that away from her even if that means giving up on her right and thats what ishita stood for whenever she fought for ru and adi so ishita's behaviour is still in character she has witnessed how kids suffer due to parents and she would never want that to happen with pihu so she wouldnt claim her right over pihu or stand up for her unless the situation is such where she has to...so its definitely not her indifference to her biological child whats stopping her is her perfect childhood and secured environment which she always wanted all her kids to have., and raman needs to understand this from her vintage point..he would never get a reaction from ishita..ishita is not Shagun...raman climbed the heights of success to show shagun her place and get reactions out of her back then and he succeeded to great extent and now also he is trying the same by different means but what he is overlooking is he is dealing with ishita this time who is very stubbern and mentally very strong; once she decides something she wont budge...he needs to change his tactics if at all he wants reaction out of her..,he needs to reach out to her because he is the one who pushed her away..for once i m liking ishita's stand; she is treating herself as a woman for once..she has taken a decision not to go back to his life and she is standing by it becase she feels even if he needs her he doesn't want her back in his life..and his words arent helping either..


Amazing view that! And that is why she wants to set things right for Adi coz she feels Raman is doing injustice to him, time and again she has witnessed him slapping Adi. In a way Adi had parents with him but it was no different than Ruhi in terms of real love...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: Dmug

No Gan thats not the crux of their relationship if u ask me..its not ishita fighting for her kids.its ishita only fighting or standing up whenever there is injustice happening with her kids..and as of now pihu seems happy to her she has a doting family, a father who loves her more than himself and a mother who looked after her when she was away..and thats what ishita wanted for ruhi and adi as well and thats the crux of the story. If u look from ishita's parspective pihu has secured childhood and perfect family and by no means she would want to snatch that away from her even if that means giving up on her right and thats what ishita stood for whenever she fought for ru and adi so ishita's behaviour is still in character she has witnessed how kids suffer due to parents and she would never want that to happen with pihu so she wouldnt claim her right over pihu or stand up for her unless the situation is such where she has to...so its definitely not her indifference to her biological child whats stopping her is her perfect childhood and secured environment which she always wanted all her kids to have., and raman needs to understand this from her vintage point..he would never get a reaction from ishita..ishita is not Shagun...raman climbed the heights of success to show shagun her place and get reactions out of her back then and he succeeded to great extent and now also he is trying the same by different means but what he is overlooking is he is dealing with ishita this time who is very stubbern and mentally very strong; once she decides something she wont budge...he needs to change his tactics if at all he wants reaction out of her..,he needs to reach out to her because he is the one who pushed her away..for once i m liking ishita's stand; she is treating herself as a woman for once..she has taken a decision not to go back to his life and she is standing by it becase she feels even if he needs her he doesn't want her back in his life..and his words arent helping either..


I agree with what you said about Ishita ..no disagreement there...

But .. What I wrote was completely from how it looks from Raman's perspective.. And you're trying to put across from Ishita's perspective.. I was explaining why Raman is behaving the way he is.. And you're putting across how Raman should behave to win Ishita back. If Raman understood Ishita's point of view, then we wouldn't witness this behavior from him..


We're witnessing this behaviour because there is a huge gap in reality vs his perception. Raman after Shagun's betrayal vs Raman now are different persons if you ask me. In Shagun's case he changed himself to achieve 'success' as Shagun made him feel inferior because of his monetary situation .. He shunned away from his role as a father to Ruhi as Ruhi reminded him of Shagun. It's not the same now. Look at what he's done with Pihu.. He's been a doting father to Ishita's only legacy: her biological child. So that Raman and this Raman is different .and if you think Raman is saying all these to just put Ishita down ... We have to agree to disagree as I had explained clearly my pov about Raman's behavior in the main post and the other post already.

Edited by -Gan- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Loved your POV.. šŸ‘

And this part is just.. 🤣

On a lighter note...Shagun is having her own 'conflict' to marry or not to marry Raman for ...preventing global warming..ermm ...Ishita's good as Raman hates Ishita these days...tissues anyone ?

Oh god... 🤣
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Brilliant Work Gan. Your collage captures the emotional battle within Raman very clearly. Lovely.

I agree with your POV with respect to his feelings. Very Clearly written..

But again Raman has spoken so bad about Ishita, in the name of his attempt to pull out a reaction from Ishita and bcos of his hurt and jealousy. Infact he has said more than enough. I just wish CVs don't go beyond a point after which redemption and apologies don't convince the viewers yet again, as history goes.

I still want a proper confrontation and apologies for actions and words from both Raman and Ishita, rather than a "for the sake of saving Ruhi" patch up. Since CV's are very much interested in recycling and recreating the same scenes, I fear they might spoil their reunion. This reunion should be for Raman-Ishita as a couple, and not a reunion of Ruhi's parents. Let us see, how CV's take it forward.

Nice to see your posts frequently in this forum.

Cheers
Priya

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