How is Ishita different from Shagun as a Mother ?DT NT Pg4

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Posted: 9 years ago
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This topic is not to criticize Ishita or praise Shagun. I have just made a small observation and so putting it forth. You are free to agree and disagree but in a respectful way. No bashing please.


CV's have brought down Ishita and Shagun to the same level.

Shagun

Ishita

1) She left her baby when she was 6 months old.

She left her baby who was in the incubator fighting for her life.

3) She left Ruhi for her selfish reasons (materialistic wealth)

She left Pihu and Adi for her selfish reasons too (unable to deal with her own emotions)

5) She never looked back for 7 years to see how her child did after she left her

She also never looked back to see how her child was doing after she left them.

I know many of you will argue over the difference between materialistc things and emotions but then its said that a mother is so strong that she fights all the obstacles which comes her way. She is their shield and she definitely bears all the pain and lives only for the kids in which Ishita failed.


Secondly, Ruhi had her first brush of mother's love from ishita so she is her mother. Similarly, Pihu had her first brush of mother's love from Shagun so she should be called as Shagun's daughter but ironically she is still termed as Ishita's and everybody wants Pihu to learn about her real mother. In fact am sure everybody would want to give away Pihu at the first instance when they would learn about Ishita being alive which is going to be unjust to Shagun for sure.


Not only Pihu, Ishita was not right with Adi also. She did give him a good upbringing but only for a few months and later on left him to sulk and deal with his wounds on his own just how Shagun had left him. So Adi adoring her so much that too without a complain is completely not believable.


I think CV's have dug a grave for themselves by making Shagun so white. Now the only way to show Ishita great again is by making Shagun black which is not fair and even if Shagun turns black and fights for her rights then she is not wrong this time as it should be rightfully her's.

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3fra thumbnail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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get well soon , not over from beskett madness other started
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Posted: 9 years ago
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No difference.
Read this article "Ishita too turned out to be another Shagun!!", written by Vijitha Rajan, one of the most brilliant analysts of YHM, more than a month ago just after the leap.
http://www.spamdomain.net/review-ishita-too-turned-out-to-be-another-shagun-in-yeh-hai-mohabbatein/
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ur points r valid to an extent..

shagun wich ws before cannot b compared to ishita..
she ws nt ridiculed insulted n blamed n even said dat she is reason for her daughter's death.. she ws pointed out as a mother nt fit for anyone..
i dnt find ishita staying away wrng as she totally believes dat she is nt deserved to b a mother.. she is nt a gud mother.. n dats y she dosnt watn adi n pihu to b brought up n live wid a mother who killed her daughter..


no doubt dat shagun gv mother love to pihu n has rights over her.. though nt legal or biological... bt by nurture...n asking pihu al of a sudden to forget shagun n accept ishita is wrng..n shagun is bound to feel insecure for pihu... n dats d reason nw ishita nt dosnt want to cum back in dere lives.. she presumes shguann raman married n nw adi n pihu hv mother.. n she had seen dat shagun is chnged n can take care of pihu n adi well n can love dem too..

pihu shud love both her moms.. shagun who loved her n took care of her n ishita too.. pihu vl also bond well wid ishita..

After said al ds, for me ishtia wud always b better dn shagun... no matter ws happens.. bt facts vl remain facts..

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: swatica

Ur points r valid to an extent..


shagun wich ws before cannot b compared to ishita..
she ws nt ridiculed insulted n blamed n even said dat she is reason for her daughter's death.. she ws pointed out as a mother nt fit for anyone..
i dnt find ishita staying away wrng as she totally believes dat she is nt deserved to b a mother.. she is nt a gud mother.. n dats y she dosnt watn adi n pihu to b brought up n live wid a mother who killed her daughter..


no doubt dat shagun gv mother love to pihu n has rights over her.. though nt legal or biological... bt by nurture...n asking pihu al of a sudden to forget shagun n accept ishita is wrng..n shagun is bound to feel insecure for pihu... n dats d reason nw ishita nt dosnt want to cum back in dere lives.. she presumes shguann raman married n nw adi n pihu hv mother.. n she had seen dat shagun is chnged n can take care of pihu n adi well n can love dem too..

pihu shud love both her moms.. shagun who loved her n took care of her n ishita too.. pihu vl also bond well wid ishita..

After said al ds, for me ishtia wud always b better dn shagun... no matter ws happens.. bt facts vl remain facts..



love your last line 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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In place of spamdomain, type telly.tadka with no dot in between. That's a rival site of IF, that's why it's replacing the name with spamdomain. 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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My reply is so simple
I DON'T AGREE
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: swatica


shagun wich ws before cannot b compared to ishita..
she ws nt ridiculed insulted n blamed n even said dat she is reason for her daughter's death.. she ws pointed out as a mother nt fit for anyone..
i dnt find ishita staying away wrng as she totally believes dat she is nt deserved to b a mother.. she is nt a gud mother.. n dats y she dosnt watn adi n pihu to b brought up n live wid a mother who killed her daughter..


That is exactly why show's main characters falter as a parent. It's always "Me, me and me" about Shagun, Raman and Ishita. My life, my choice, my pain, my sorrow, my guilt, my believe...Every time it's always about "me". But when you are a parent, that can't be a case, you need to think about children's situation too, specially when they are vulnerable. But they didn't and because of their self-centered attitude and decisions, Ruhi, Adi and Pihu have to suffer the most from time to time.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -MS-


That is exactly why show's main characters falter as a parent. It's always "Me, me and me" about Shagun, Raman and Ishita. My life, my choice, my pain, my sorrow, my guilt, my believe...Every time it's always about "me". But when you are a parent, that can't be a case, you need to think about children's situation too, specially when they are vulnerable. But they didn't and because of their self-centered attitude and decisions, Ruhi, Adi and Pihu have to suffer the most from time to time.


True, but can Ishita really move on and raise Pihu in front of the overwhelming guilt she has..can she bear to look at Pihu and not remember the daughter who she killed accidentally..this is a hell that no mother has to face..and she didn't have any support from her husband and also the fact that she was called a stepmom by the same man who made her a mother to Ruhi..The guilt that if she hadn't come into their lives, Ruhi would have lived (maybe not happy). The same reason she is keeping away from Adi ( he will come to no harm ). In spite of the numerous mistakes that Shagun/Raman made as parents, no one doubts their love because they are the biological parents. If Raman had committed what Ishita did, they would have mourned Ruhi and moved on as a couple..broken/depressed but would have been a couple. Shagun always had a place in Bhalla's house because of the kids..Ishita place is because of Raman..and if he kicked her out..what right does she even have as she did not give birth to any of Raman's kids. The only wrong I feel is not informing her parents that she is alive. She does believe that she is bad omen, not fit to be a mother..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Your points are logical , and make sense . Whether I agree or not is a different thing . For me Ishita and Raman , both are bad parents , as someone rightly put , " my pain , my sorrow , my guilt " , that's what both always thought , if I was Ishita , I would have fought with Raman rather then taking in , what he said , I would have fought for my dignity , I would have not left my children and my parents ... I would have left Raman , yes most definitely . I don't see Ishita and Raman as good parents , they are great lovers , Laila Majno , Romeo Juliet , eternal love etc etc etc ... But they are not a good example of being a good parent and they are definitely not good children to their own parents too ... I love their characters , but they are not Angels , their mistakes are too many , and they need to understand and except their flaws.

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