5.8.15- Raman to Ishita- You look so good it hurts sometimes - Page 2

Originally posted by: SA1234

Brilliant post Akansha!!

U summed it up brilliantly..She looked so good that it actually hurt him like crazy!! Hahaha...Thanks yaar!!😛

But having said that..his behaviour was utterly disappointing..gosh ! It broke my heart when she asked Mihika to come and pick her up...when the scene was going on ..I was actually thinking " walk away..walk away from the damn party..pull out the car keys from his pocket and just drive away !! I would've actually preferred her walking away, than facing all the shit she will, tomorrow...when Ashok drugs her and tries taking advantage of her...

And as u rightly pointed out..inspite of everything that Shagun said Ishita still chose to make an effort..if I were in her place I would have picked up a fight with my husband the moment he mentioned that party and gave a half hearted invitation..I would have quickly jumped into a conclusion that my husband does not want to take me to a glamorous party..clearly he doesnt think I fit the bill..and then I would totally resent the fact that..he can't accept me for what I am..

But did Ishita do any of this??? No..she made an effort .. Exactly..she made the first move...and the ball was in his court...and instead of taking it from there, he completely ruined his and her mood...the chances at a lovely romantic date outing...and a chance at seeing her for what she truly IS, beneath the garb of that boring dentist attire and that constant drone of a mother hen looking over her kids...

Raman on the other hand actually let Ashok mess with his mind..and vented his anger on her..he knew there were more than one pair of lecherous eyes on her in that party..yet he chose to ignore her..evrytime he pulled her and pushed her in anger during that dance ..he humiliated her... I was very very disappointed with Raman's reaction...it was okay in the initial days of YHM...but then, since they've come SO FAR in their relationship, it stands to reason that Raman should know and trust Ishita OVER AND ABOVE all the constant din of the outside world..and the gazillion people who want to see them fallen...Ishita would never sway...the Subbu episode proved it...but Ramangets easily swayed by the slightest insinuation at his weaknesses dug up from the past...that has got to stop...if they EVER want to truly consummate their marriage in EVERY sense!

As disgusted he was with Mrs.Tandon's behaviour..he chose to dance with her..

Raman didn't fight his insecurity like Ishita did..he took the easy way out and gave in to it...I hope he will redeem himself in some way before the big C..but the fact remains that he let Ashok win this time..and everytime Ishita recalls how Raman treated her ..its a win for Ashok...

But what the hell...in this show..Ishita will forgive him and things will be back to normal..I have learnt to live with this..and I myself will gush over their big C tomorrow...Frankly speaking, I have NO hopes from ISHITA...she will brush it aside and forgive him at the drop of a hat..its Raman who has MAJORLY disappointed me...with his callous, insensitive attitude, unreasonable reaction ...he totally became a puppet in Ashok's hands and I hated to see that moron gloat over the same😡 Also, Raman couldnt even HANDLE the compliments Ishita was getting and the raised eyebrow looks she was attracting...and somehow, he thought it was okey to dance with Tandon's wife who had an eye for the next best hottest thing in the party