28.07.15 - I can never view the Bhallas the same way again, pity IshRa

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Aparna.A

@crazy_bholi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: gravity23

P.S. Why cant we have a NORMAL family, comprising of IshRa and the kids AND their new baby? Why cant we have IshRa thinking for themselves first, for a change? I have nothing against joint families...but if this is how joint families operate, then its better to live separately with your spouse, than having to face emotional blackmail by your mother, father, sister, brother, nephew, niece every single day!😕

That is to delay their consummation

P.S. At the end of today's episode, while Bala was talking to someone over the phone as regards the computers he had ordered, Romi heard him (he was out strolling on the corridor with Rohit in his hands)...I didnt get it...does Romi have a hand in it (for the problem that exists in 15 of the ordered computers) or did he look like he wanted to help...?? Cant be sure...kal hi pata chalega!

Romi irks me nowadays

P.S. How starkly DIFFERENT the Iyers are no? Such self-respecting, hardworking individuals...why cant the Bhallas take a page of the Iyers' lives??And where the hell is ACP??!! He's been gone too long!

He's away coz ruhi arora is here...spreading saintness and in future surrogacy everywhere
P.S. Param lacked the flair with which he usually says, "Ishita jeee" but yes, he was a minor change in the routine family drama...which will now jump to disproportionately ABSURD levels I dont know if I should feel sad for his comeback or happy...im glad we'll see a DIFFERENT kind of villain in the show...but the intensity of this creep's actions can leave long and deep gashes behind in Bhalla family😭
Coz Raman was there thats y ishitaji mein wajan kam tha...😆

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Ishrafanno1

@Ishrafanno1

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#32

Hey gravity thanks for the update. So detailed. You know when they started this track I liked it but the way things are turning up it is another mess created by cvs. Why can't they show something good. It is indeed unfair of the bhalla family to expect so much from Raman. And ishita, the less I speak the better.

Edited by Ishrafanno1 - 10 years ago

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Maya

@mayasun

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+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#33

update page 1

Hi Akansha,

you did not review my post on previous updates on both days. I missed seeing your review😭 😭😭on my take of the episode.

Edited by mayasundar - 10 years ago

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K.S.

@K.S.

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#34

Bang on post aka..i agree wid each nd every point of ur post..bhallas r loosers..senior bhallas r annoying me more..
nd wen wil ishu stop being too goodie goodie??..dat line irkd me..dont wry mumiji..wat is d use if money wil not used fr dearones...WTH..der money is not a need fr rinky..she is competiting wid her bhai nd to showoff.money as a need,necessity nd money fr njying luxurious life..der is a lot of difference...
p.s:u askd me to write more abt my view..but u said it all..nd im not connecting wid d shw nymore..so i can't say nything more dear..

Edited by manan09 - 10 years ago

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anwesha rath

@Anurulz

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+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#35

Hey!! U know i had an old couple come today for psych fitness to make a will and believe it or not, their reasons seriously gave me a deja vu of YHM..apparently one of their sons is well to do and the other is unable to keep a stable job..needless to say, they wished to put majority of their property in the name of the latter..reason being tht the elder will manage..the husband wanted it primarily whereas the wife was hesitant..since i had to give them both fitness, i spoke to both separately..the wife was of the opinion tht the elder son is doing well coz he worked hard at it and dsnt deserve to be punished for it by being given less in the property division..father believed tht it was his responsibility to provide for less fortunate child..since it was his choice it was not my business to say anything abt it..

What YHM is showing currently is a very real issue..people deal with these choices everyday..even in my in laws, i know there is a tendency for the less successful child being a priority no matter how much the others struggle..and invariably, the former is the one who whines maximum and the others are expected to handle everything AND provide for others..sumhow, for me personally it is difficult to accept this..every person goes thru difficulties..and for family to brush it under the carpet coz one person overcame it and others dint is unfair..in the show, its the same..bhallas probably have a more parental concern for their less successful children which is natural..but for them to expect raman and ishita to drop all their priorities for their siblings is not done, esp wen i dnt see even a pretence of gratitude towards them..its simply expected..and for the bhallas to not look at the situation from ramanz point of view is short sighted of them..

ishita disappointed me today again after yest..where she shud have put ramanz state of mind as her priority she is busy mollycoddling rinki of all people..toshiji, where she shud have whacked her spoilt brat of a daughter, is enabling her instead..these women do not realise tht rinki has to be reined in and not given a free shot at ruining raman and mihir..

the precap again shows toshijiz blatant expectation from raman to give rinki a free piggyback ride in form of payment for her splurges..why on earth do two living souls need 5 bedrooms anyways? Why wasnt this brought up by her mother? Esp wen her husband cannot afford it?

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A.hemalatha.kini

@TOTAL-ROMANTIC

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+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#36

Lovely post as ever but I ABSOLUTELY DINT like the way ISHITA agreed to TOSHIJI's blames on RAMAN

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sunitas123

@sunitas123

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#37

Aka, copy pasting what I wrote on another thread!

The episode made no sense to me whatsoever. Raman was missing his family, Ruhi was worried, but Toshiji even though knew Rinki was the cause of the whole kaand kinda encouraged her. Why does Rinki want a 5 bedroom apartment? is she going to look after the Bhallas since Raman is not, as per her opinion? Plus why are Toshi-ishita trying to make Raman pay for it thru the company? In a way Raman is forced to give Mihir much more than he can afford right now, albiet he said it would be a loan from the company?

And the second thing which made zilch sense. Why is Raman willing to pay Param to stop Ananaya's custody hearing? That too 15 crores? What is the guarantee that he wont file for custody again? And which court will give custody to a man who is out on bail after attempted rape and embezzlement of funds? That too a baby daughter? If the mother is single and does not have a job, Raman would have been better off getting her a job or making her an employee in his own company. That is far better than giving 15 crores. What kind of a lawyer is Neel? He could not do a thing during the Ad-Ruhi custody swap and now he is saying Param's case is strong?

Romi overheard Bala complaining about the computers, so looks like that MU may get sorted soon. But some spoiler says Raman will pay Romi for his business🤢

So it seems the following conclusions can be reasonably drawn after today's episode:

1. IshRa and Ad-Ruhi truly love the Bhalla family.

2. ishRa will go to any limits even financially to help the whimsical Bhalla clan and their extended headache family damaads.

3. Bhallas only care for Raman's money and they miss him since they cant afford to pay bills! Period. There is no love, no respect, no sense of gratitude whatsoever.

4. It is Raman and Ishita's duty to provide, it is Bhallas duty to keep taking endless favours as if it is their birthright. It has never occurred to them to help themselves and reduce Raman's stress.

5. Mr Bhalla is surely taken offence to Raman's POA and hence is insecure and does not trust Raman or Ishita anymore.

6. Raman has to constantly prove his love for his siblings and parents by spending more than even he can earn!

7. All Bhallas are quick to MU Raman and Ishita, but dont care about what implications their crazy actions had or are gonna have on their family.

8. Criminals always get away with anything and keep getting umpteen chances at becoming rich at the cost of Raman😡

Frankly esp after today's episode, I have lost whatever love I had for the Bhallas - the whole lot is useless, ungrateful and cant see Raman happy...

Sorry for the rant... but this track is becoming so senseless with Param coming back and making a demand sans logic and Simi instead of getting a job, Raman thinks of paying off Param?

Till Rinki's wedding he was worried about 10 lacs expenses, now 15 crores is no big deal? Who will answer the investors?

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sunitas123

@sunitas123

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: SA1234
Much needed post Akansha..! Agree with everything u have stated here. It's not that I had any great expectation from Toshi..it was Biwi who disappointed me today...even she thinks her husband is a money minting machine..she and Toshi are going to mess this up royally..and I know the CVs will abruptly end this track..and Biwi will be considered the saviour of Bhalla family..I don't really have a problem with that but I don't like her approach.
Why on earth is Mihir giving into Rinki's demands? Someone needs to show the mirror to Rinki.
As for Bhalla family, they clearly have different rules for their children...😡

Oh yeah..would like to add...the quintessential villain is back..when he says "Ishita jee" it oozes sleaze...I like him.

If Mihir has given up on Rinki, maybe Toshi finds this the only way to keep their marriage going. Ishita just told Raman about it, Raman did whatever he thought was fit. The whole MU track is on account of the POA that Raman made in ishita's name to keep family secure coz he trusts only ishita to take care of his family. Now if Ishita stops Raman from paying it will confirm family's doubts that Raman only cares for Ishita and Rinki will b proven right

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: sunitas123

If Mihir has given up on Rinki, maybe Toshi finds this the only way to keep their marriage going. Ishita just told Raman about it, Raman did whatever he thought was fit. The whole MU track is on account of the POA that Raman made in ishita's name to keep family secure coz he trusts only ishita to take care of his family. Now if Ishita stops Raman from paying it will confirm family's doubts that Raman only cares for Ishita and Rinki will b proven right

Then it is highly absurd S...for Toshi to keep the marriage intact in such ways...I mean, Rinky's greed has no end...her demands wont stop here...and since Mihir isnt a billionaire, one day or the other, he will buckle down under the pressure...so what will Toshi do? Instead of whacking her daughter and making her see sense, she will constantly pressurize Raman and Ishita to give away whatever they have to appease her ego while keeping the pressure OFF Mihir and keeping the marriage intact, is it? That seems to me, like double standards😡

Also, Ishita and Raman have already done SO much for the Bhallas..how much MORE are they expected to do? I know it would've backfired on Ishita, but for once, she could've behaved like a real woman, and instead had the foresight that they possibly cant be shelling out money for Raman's siblings at the drop of a hat...It would've backfired, yes...but then Ishita gets to hear even when she doesnt deserve it...so this ONE time she could've plucked the courage to do the right thing...In fact, she doesnt even seem to MIND it, which is more frustrating...its like she is living for the whole of the Bhalla family except her husband and kids...prioritisation is very important

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: malaxmi
Even i am disappointed with Isitha. She is adding so much of financial pressure on his husband's shoulder in the name of being good to her sasural. She too wants her husband to do hard work, earn and give all his earnings to her husband's money minded siblings.

Laxmi, I dont think she WANTS her husband to work doubly hard and give away all his earnings to his selfish greedy siblings...its more like she doesnt MIND it...she is easygoing and feels sabka Raman ke paison pe adhikaar hai

and this is the exact reason why Raman is in a soup right now, coz everybody feels they deserve a bite of his huge fortunes or whatever they are...this is not how the real world operates...and if this is how real world operates, then I can guarantee you that sooner than later the provider/ATM machine of the house crumbles under the pressure and bcomes resentful

Yahan toh Raman bhi freely diye jaa raha hai...instead of thinking once about HIS immediate family first...so I find it damn unreal😕