The Distrust in the Bhallas *UPDATED*

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"We see the world through the eyes of the condition of our own souls."
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Distrust. If mutual trust and respect were the emotions that tied the Bhallas all these years...today's epsiode highlighted one common element that held them all from not opening up and confronting the issue at hand and resolving it. And when the filter is distorted, the view will be just a projected image of their individual thinking. And instead of talking about it, everyone (sans one ) kept silent waiting for the other to act first. And we had a room full of the usually boisterous Bhallas all stuck in their zone of awkward silence. Other than Rinki today, all the Bhallas were acting how usually families do react after a big fight. Very real portrayal of a simple MU getting complicated as the shroud of doubt is getting stronger.The episode came to an end with a Raman genuinely hurt by what he thought as his family's dismissal of his gesture of love for his little nephew...If he had seen the toys sitting next to the garbage under any other circumstance, he would have asked Simmi directly...but today he silently retired to his own corner in the house and sat there languishing at Simmi's decision.

The Khanna brothers have tied up with the new manipulator in town, Rinki Arora...but I still have to have my faith in CVs that they wouldn't turn Mihir into a gullible guy...His absolute love and faith in Raman and vice versa is one of the best sketched relationships of YHM ...hope it's not jeopardized for petty Rinki melidrama. Rinki sure is in the running for the byotch of the month award...I liked how Simmi and even Romi sushed her caustic comments directed as IshRa couple of times...but Mr Bhalla's silence was unexpected...as he's usually the one who usually is so sensible especially in such situations. Loved Appa -Damad honest heart to heart and Appa's right advice to Raman. Please bring us back the reasonable Mr Bhalla back. It feels strange to see him like this.

I was all confused about the last minute adoption glitch and Ishita stepping in. W
hy would an adoption agency release an infant to the lawyer instead of the parents😕😆..Khair chhodo main bhi kahan logic leke baithi😉😆

Precap: while one cloud is lifted ...darker cloud is headed the Bhallas way


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R and I promise to edit this for sure😳
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Honestly, when this track began with Raman going bonkers as he turned into a hypochondriac it was maddening and frustrating and I wondered what the hell is wrong with the writers as I have said so numerous times before, because never even in my wildest dreams, even as Raman had wild dreams of his own did I imagine that it would be paving way for, if executed well - one of this show's most realistic, brillaint and not to mention excellent tracks.



A track where IshRa have fought the baddies - a kinda IshRa against the world isnt new, neither is it a novelty to find one of them standing with the family even as the other is prosecuted mercilessly while watching, hoping, expecting or sulking about not being able to be with the other one. Ishita was alienated as Param maligned her name and Raman was as he hid Adi' crime; but THIS - IshRa against not only the world but their family and WITH EACH OTHER, bring it on 😛😎


I had assumed that Raman' hypochondria would eventually be explained to his chance encounter in Mumbai with an old friend of his whose wife was dying of cancer and their talks about mortality and life being short and stuff and it would be all over with a sweet talk, a cute banter perhaps or something similar but never did I imagine, as I am sure anyone of us did the chaos that was about to unfold after the silly, in a way hilarious even if absurd from the looks of it track.


Of course what else but the possible scare of imminent death that is unavoidable could have scared a man, a healthy young man in his thirties at that to draw up a will, which could have been real or based on an misunderstanding, merely hypochondria wouldnt have been enough for him to do so.

When Raman daydreamed that vision of Ishita being harassed by his family - his father included it seemed absurd and ridiculous then but OH BOY, was it a foresight or what.


Just the mention of money and his bratty sister started spewing venom and now misunderstandings will lead to the brother doing the same too, the father already based on half-baked knowledge rebuked Raman harshly and wrongly.

Its such a REAL scenario that is presented here that I am sure that the actors too finally must be enjoying this track as much as we are watching it.

Last night as Rinky was questioning, for the lack of a better word that would be decent, about the perks which Mihir would get and clearly stated - chauffeur driven cars and foreign trips all I could think was how stupid, selfish and vain is this girl. Does she really live in a bubble? Hasnt she been around her own brother who for years worked under Malhotra? Did she ever see Raman getting chauffeur driven cars and foreign trips as perks, was he presented with a huge apartment ever by his former boss? A CEO maybe allotted accomadations for him and his family, but he isnt made the owner of it. He may be given even a car by the company, one whose driver/chauffeur is also paid by the company but he isnt the direct employer of that chauffeur nor even the legal owner of that car ever. In the event that the CEO and the company part ways, either by the way of his resignation of if he is terminated from his job for any reason he is given a limited amount of time to vacate his premises and the car is confiscated immediately as it is the property of the company, needless to say even the chauffeur bids adieu with the same. As for foreign trips, hello since when did companies start handing out paid vacations to their CEO' with their families or at least wives? I dont think I have ever heard of that - a CEO may be given a hefty bonus or a part-profit if his leadership reaps the company benefits, but otherwise he is just another EMPLOYEE, thats it. So how in the world did she dream up of Mihir getting those perks 🤔😳


And tonight as she declared she would show her Bhai and Bhabhi, get her husband his due all I could see was greed dripping coupled with immaturity, irrationality and jealousy along with a false sense of entitlement.

Nothing else could explain her bitchy behavior tonight, even as she came home to celebrate a joyous occassion with her family she started spewing her venom and spreading it which will be caught on by Sarika and Romi unfortunately next and that will lead to Mihir accepting the offer he got today without delving deeper into it just to prove that he can be someone by himself and doesnt need Raman' backing to prove himself, neither does he have to live in Raman' shadow as he has no other option available to himself.

Being shown a levelheaded man always I had expected more from Omprakash Bhalla, after rebuking his son and DIL, today too he made a face as Ishita spoke about having learned from Toshi how to conduct the ceremony of welcoming the child, this was not expected of him. Like really, what is his problem with Ishita? I dont think that its because Raman nominated her as the owner that has upset his father, it is reliving the past that has got to do with it, but shouldnt Omprakash Bhalla know better now - this is not Shagun and she wasnt adding fuel to the fire when an argument erupted between father and son, nor did she cause it in the first place.

Totally disappointed with him, especially since he could find it in his heart to feel happy that Raman bought toys for the baby and was thinking about his family as such and even stopped Simi when she asked the toys to be kept aside, saying how Raman got them for the baby with so much love. Then why this treatment with his DIL? Seriously, why cant the man bother to ask what caused the siblings to fight in the first place huh? Is it so hard?


Also now with Raman' request Appa would step into the picture which would actually make things worse I believe, as is the ongoing theme. Appa who adviced Raman correctly to control his temper and be careful with his words may be called a meddler in the affairs of his daughter's home - could be by Rinky again. And even if it were to be revealed that it was not at Ishita but Raman' insistence that Appa decided to step in, a hue and cry would be made about how Raman is placing importance to Ishita' family members over his own...which I think is the case since Romi mentioned the wordSaadhu todayin the segment for Bala, as he did Saala for Mihir.

No one would understand right now, except for Ishita and the Iyers that Raman asked Appa to talk to his dad since he knows the two are such good friends and respect each other a lot besides being in-laws. Thus matters wont remain complicated within just the Bhalla family anymore, this would also drag Iyers right in the middle of things for no fault of theirs.

Wonder how the two matriarchs of the family would react and deal with the developments that have taken place behind their backs, would they stand mute spectators and let the dices fall as they may or would they step in and take charge collabarating to set things straight in the lives of their children and family.


I am sure, if anyone can do it, Toshiji can - give an earful to Rinky at this point about how her blind greed is destroying not only her family but also her marriage. At least I hope she would as a mother else it would be so disappointing. It was her haste to marry off her immature daughter, one who never had to want for anything that has also played a part in how she is handling things. But if she cant change the past, she should at least try to salvage the future and the present with some much needed sense that needs be to be knocked into her daughter' head and also clear things between her sons.

As a mother, she would see how Raman isnt wrong or unfair, and also understand the need for her other children to learn that they need to learn to fend for themselves, need to be capable of looking after themselves and their families without the support or reliance of their older brother. As a parent she raised Raman to be responsible and look after his siblings, but that doesnt obligate him to pay for their expenses for the rest of their lives or make his wife and kids suffer. The cost of her other children' happiness or security shouldnt be paid by her eldest, even if he is the most responsible one of the lot. As in joint families, typically after a point every member has to contribute in some way or the other to the home, particularly the sons and Raman shouldnt be made to slave for all of them for the rest of his life.
Edited by EkPaheli - 10 years ago
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Hi Gan,
I really liked today episode as to how circumstance paved the way for more misunderstanding.

I really hope the CV don't break Raman and Mihir bond because Rinky wants a hi-fi lifestyle.

I may be in minority but I really want Mihir to take the job offer after informing Raman he wants to do it so that peace in family will prevail and their bond doesn't break. I hope seeing Mihir suffer at the hands of Ashok Rinky will realize how her bhai treats Mihir.

They changed Rinki character after she got married we did not at that time clue into it that she is going to be the new vamp. When I saw Rinki instigating every family member against IshRa I realized she was the one who instigated Raman by saying that after his marriage he only cares for Ishita and we got the famous Raman dialogue " Hey Meri Ghar he Dafo ho jai" to Ishita to keep peace in the family right after he promised he would always keep her happy.

Rinky not only wants her bhai hard earned money and business she wants him not be happy and ostracized from the family.😡

Mr. Bhalla anger seems to be gone but his ego is still there we have to wait and watch how long he is going to show ego to his son last time it took him nearly 6 years at that time Raman was at fault but this time Raman is not a fault so we have to wait and watch.

Mr. Iyer was sensible today he said he will talk with Bhalla at at the same time asked Raman to control his anger which aggravated the whole situation.

They have shown Simmi so far as a neutral participant trying to diffuse the situation I hope they keep her that way and not make her do some khaand like what Romi is going to be doing as shown in SBB.

Puttar searching for biwi with his eyes when he came home and sulking afterwards in their room was cute to watch.

Sarika is going to be the main instigator for Romi to turn against his Bhai and Bhabhi sometime when I think about Raman dreams at the time I thought it was OTT but now seeing how everyone is reacting to a situation I think his dream has some justification.





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This track is great and makes me too sad 😭 yet happy for how supportive Puttar & Biwi are to each other.

Will be back after you update! ❤️
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Edited above 😳, phew I didnt realize until I hit post, how long it is and how much I wrote 😆😆😆

If you fall asleep reading this people I wont blame ya. 😆😆
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The track continued further with Mr. Bhalla still brewing anger for Raman, Raman praying for things to get resolved between him n his dad, Rinky being the same bitchy sister. Addition to the track were Mihir who reluctantly meets up a placement guy for a new job offer as Rinky forces him to. The offer is yet another set up by Ashok and Rinky is well aware of it. She feels victorious when Mihir agrees on meeting that guy oblivious of the fact that Ashok is behind all this. She feels that now she l show her brother and sister inlaw the real place Mihir deserves professionally.

Ishita runs to orphange when pathak tells her that the people at the orphange aren't giving the baby since they are not sure of Romi's financial stability. Ishita takes the grantee. She gets late of baby's homecoming. Raman too reaches just in nick of time as he gets busy with buying toys for the baby. Rinky grabs the opportunity to brew some more venom in the minds and hearts of other family members.

Second in the picture is Sarika who has now caught "rinky syndrome". She now fears being sidelined; being thrown out of the house by the owners -- Raman n Ishita.

The story has taken a complete turn. These scenarios are so realistic. Money can spoil any relationship on Earth. It's a bitter truth.

Each and every family member has completely forgotten all that Ishra have done for them. They have completely forgotten Raman n ishita's care and love for each one of them. Today if Simmi is a free bird then its bcoz of ishita; today if romi has his family then it's bcoz of ishra; today if rinky has such a lovely life partner then also it's bcoz of ishra. They seem to have forgotten everything. They are blinded with money, property, share etc.

On top of that instead of speaking out their fears all of them have resorted to insulting Raman n ishita before even thinking once.


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Originally posted by: EkPaheli

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">R and I promise to edit this for sure😳
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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">-Edited-</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Honestly, when this track began with Raman going bonkers as he turned into a hypochondriac it was maddening and frustrating and I wondered what the hell is wrong with the writers as I have said so numerous times before, because never even in my wildest dreams, even as Raman had wild dreams of his own did I imagine that it would be paving way for, if executed well - one of this show's most realistic, brillaint and not to mention excellent tracks.</font>



<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">A track where IshRa have fought the baddies - a kinda IshRa against the world isnt new, neither is it a novelty to find one of them standing with the family even as the other is prosecuted mercilessly while watching, hoping, expecting or sulking about not being able to be with the other one. Ishita was alienated as Param maligned her name and Raman was as he hid Adi' crime; but THIS - IshRa against not only the world but their family and WITH EACH OTHER, bring it on😛😎</font>


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I had assumed that Raman' hypochondria would eventually be explained to his chance encounter in Mumbai with an old friend of his whose wife was dying of cancer and their talks about mortality and life being short and stuff and it would be all over with a sweet talk, a cute banter perhaps or something similar but never did I imagine, as I am sure anyone of us did the chaos that was about to unfold after the silly, in a way hilarious even if absurd from the looks of it track.</font>


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Of course what else but the possible scare of imminent death that is unavoidable could have scared a man, a healthy young man in his thirties at that to draw up a will, which could have been real or based on an misunderstanding, merely hypochondria wouldnt have been enough for him to do so.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">When Raman daydreamed that vision of Ishita being harassed by his family - his father included it seemed absurd and ridiculous then but OH BOY, was it a foresight or what.</font>


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Just the mention of money and his bratty sister started spewing venom and now misunderstandings will lead to the brother doing the same too, the father already based on half-baked knowledge rebuked Raman harshly and wrongly.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Its such a REAL scenario that is presented here that I am sure that the actors too finally must be enjoying this track as much as we are watching it. </font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Last night as Rinky wasquestioning,for the lack of a better word that would be decent, about the perks which Mihir would get and clearly stated - chauffeur driven cars and foreign trips all I could think was how stupid, selfish and vain is this girl. Does she really live in a bubble? Hasnt she been around her own brother who for years worked under Malhotra? Did she ever see Raman getting chauffeur driven cars and foreign trips as perks, was he presented with a huge apartment ever by his former boss? A CEO maybe allotted accomadations for him and his family, but he isnt made the owner of it. He may be given even a car by the company, one whose driver/chauffeur is also paid by the company but he isnt the direct employer of that chauffeur nor even the legal owner of that car ever. In the event that the CEO and the company part ways, either by the way of his resignation of if he is terminated from his job for any reason he is given a limited amount of time to vacate his premises and the car is confiscated immediately as it is the property of the company, needless to say even the chauffeur bids adieu with the same. As for foreign trips, hello since when did companies start handing out paid vacations to their CEO' with their families or at least wives? I dont think I have ever heard of that - a CEO may be given a hefty bonus or a part-profit if his leadership reaps the company benefits, but otherwise he is just another EMPLOYEE, thats it. So how in the world did she dream up of Mihir getting thoseperks🤔😳</font>
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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">And tonight as she declared she would show her Bhai and Bhabhi, get her husband his due all I could see was greed dripping coupled with immaturity, irrationality and jealousy along with a false sense of entitlement.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Nothing else could explain her bitchy behavior tonight, even as she came home to celebrate a joyous occassion with her family she started spewing her venom and spreading it which will be caught on by Sarika and Romi unfortunately next and that will lead to Mihir accepting the offer he got today without delving deeper into it just to prove that he can be someone by himself and doesnt need Raman' backing to prove himself, neither does he have to live in Raman' shadow as he has no other option available to himself.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Being shown a levelheaded man always I had expected more from Omprakash Bhalla, after rebuking his son and DIL, today too he made a face as Ishita spoke about having learned from Toshi how to conduct the ceremony of welcoming the child, this was not expected of him. Like really, what is his problem with Ishita? I dont think that its because Raman nominated her as the owner that has upset his father, it is reliving the past that has got to do with it, but shouldnt Omprakash Bhalla know better now - this is not Shagun and she wasnt adding fuel to the fire when an argument erupted between father and son, nor did she cause it in the first place.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Totally disappointed with him, especially since he could find it in his heart to feel happy that Raman bought toys for the baby and was thinking about his family as such and even stopped Simi when she asked the toys to be kept aside, saying how Raman got them for the baby with so much love. Then why this treatment with his DIL? Seriously, why cant the man bother to ask what caused the siblings to fight in the first place huh? Is it so hard?</font>


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Also now with Raman' request Appa would step into the picture which would actually make things worse I believe, as is the ongoing theme. Appa who adviced Raman correctly to control his temper and be careful with his words may be called a meddler in the affairs of his daughter's home - could be by Rinky again. And even if it were to be revealed that it was not at Ishita but Raman' insistence that Appa decided to step in, a hue and cry would be made about how Raman is placing importance to Ishita' family members over his own...which I think is the case since Romi mentioned the wordSaadhutodayin the segment for Bala, as he didSaalafor Mihir.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">No one would understand right now, except for Ishita and the Iyers that Raman asked Appa to talk to his dad since he knows the two are such good friends and respect each other a lot besides being in-laws. Thus matters wont remain complicated within just the Bhalla family anymore, this would also drag Iyers right in the middle of things for no fault of theirs.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Wonder how the two matriarchs of the family would react and deal with the developments that have taken place behind their backs, would they stand mute spectators and let the dices fall as they may or would they step in and take charge collabarating to set things straight in the lives of their children and family.</font>


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I am sure, if anyone can do it, Toshiji can - give an earful to Rinky at this point about how her blind greed is destroying not only her family but also her marriage. At least I hope she would as a mother else it would be so disappointing. It was her haste to marry off her immature daughter, one who never had to want for anything that has also played a part in how she is handling things. But if she cant change the past, she should at least try to salvage the future and the present with some much needed sense that needs be to be knocked into her daughter' head and also clear things between her sons.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">As a mother, she would see how Raman isnt wrong or unfair, and also understand the need for her other children to learn that they need to learn to fend for themselves, need to be capable of looking after themselves and their families without the support or reliance of their older brother. As a parent she raised Raman to be responsible and look after his siblings, but that doesnt obligate him to pay for their expenses for the rest of their lives or make his wife and kids suffer. The cost of her other children' happiness or security shouldnt be paid by her eldest, even if he is the most responsible one of the lot. As in joint families, typically after a point every member has to contribute in some way or the other to the home, particularly the sons and Raman shouldnt be made to slave for all of them for the rest of his life.</font>

Marvellous post!

My only question was; which segment are you talking about...? :)
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Rinky is simply turning into another Shagun... Arghh!!! Can't take it anymore...! She is poisoning everybody's mind and heart. I hope she doesn't ditch Mihir and move away with Ashok for luxury life! Huhhh!!😡😡😡 Such a bitchy and immature behaviour.

Sarika and Romi.. omg! She is also kinda poisoning Romi's mind. He is a guy who never disrespects his bhai-bhabhi aur aaj he is suspecting them..Great job Sarika.. I hate u lady!😡

More Misunderstandings... I like it! 😆😆😆 Im being the devil here.. *evil smirk* but I seriously wanna see how all the mess gets cleared up... The CVs are trying to portray the real scenes that happens in life. I like that attempt.

I liked one thing Bhallaji called out Ishita for the aarti..welcoming baby, even I noticed he telling Simmi not to keep away the toys which Raman got... Somewhere down the line I feel he is not completely angry with IshRa, but I seriously hope all gets sorted soon!

I am loving the support Ishita is showering on her husband! Tooo lovely!😳
Tomorrow selfie session😳


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post updated...god knows if I made sense😳
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Hi Gan,
Beautiful capture when seeing the episode it was cute to watch a sulking Raman but looking at your collages it is sad to see a man who is always verbal about his feelings instead of asking about the toys sitting quietly in a room thinking his family is ostracizing him is sad.

I hope the Bhalla parivar problem gets solved and everyone understand IshRa except Rinky because the other should boycott her once they get to know the value of IshRa because the devil in me wants her to suffer the most.

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