Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Actually Hershey MANY feel II's stand is legitimate. Fair enough if you think it is not
Appa is an Iyer
He is ultra principled
If he had told her "your card was declined" and paid it they would have fought or she would have thanked him and been done with it
By fearing she might retaliate he used Ved, and retaliate she did.
Things should change, things must change and we can hope for things to change
Nisha!!! Am soorry I promised to come by yesterday with a loonngg comment. But I was half dead to the world with a splitting headache. I slept from 5pm till 10:30 this morning. My friends n family thought I died or something since I missed all their friday plans,so a friend drove to my place this morning n thats how I woke up😆. I thinks this incident would be brought up each time my friends want to pull my leg!
Coming back to your update - I do have issues with II's thought process.Its like crying over spilt milk which has long been replaced by a new glass! Now R&B n II have reconciled n R&B doesnt even hold a grudge.
But I have to say just this - what was II's idea of marriage to R&B? I think her idea was to play house with R&B n by "play house", I mean literally play house- cook, flirt, have sex. Thats it!!! Its not like she is 16!! She is 28-29!! I feel she married him coz she "liked" the idea of marriage with this dude, he was unachievable for her in real world semantics... As removed from what her world as possible in every sense - family, wealth, personality, trade etc! So it appealed her! But if she married him just to be with him 24x7 n for sex, then live-in was a good idea! Sorry am harsh, but my understanding of marriage(from seeing my parents, my family n sister) is that we share life not just the day. By sharing life, I mean we share our troubles- not hoping the other would solve it, but hoping we get a sounding board, someone who we can tell whats wrong n who can tell us how to do it right... Its a suggestion n its upto us to take it or act upon it. Sharing your trouble with friends or parents or partner doesnt mean we expect them to solve it. We expect them to just be that sounding board.II should reflect on this. Coz I feel that its not just money problem, kal ko ofc mei bhi she wont be able to or maybe even does not take anyone's suggestions kindly... Coz she cant hear the fact that she is wrong. I have a cousin... I feel its the same situation with her. From what I have understood of her, its not really her fault but the fact that bachpan se she has been a posterchild for everything golden n successful, she cant take criticism. In the past too whenever there has been a case of II being wrong at work n even when she said harsh stuff to R&B thinking he was uneducated n undeserving of the official position he was enjoying, once she realized she was wrong, she could have graciously n simply said sorry to him. But usko she changed into hurt n other tantrums about herself! Maybe she said sorry later n yes ofcrs it makes it soo interresting to read, but she did throw a tantrum!! But marriage is a lifetime committment in india. She wants a lifetime committment, she wants to meddle in R&B's equation with his father in a way n gets angry when R&B snaps, but she doesnt want R&B to ever meddle in hers. I know such people exist. N thats what makes this story endearing. I wish someone tells her that what she is doing is exactly what she has accused the dude of befire marriage - she married him for sex n to "achieve" him... N she is living like a "live in" partner does - shares house, shares body fuilds😆 But doesnt share life... So she needs to open up. I dont feel what R&B did was wrong, coz I can see appa would have done the same just that R&B should not have used Ved sareen to transfer money. Eitherway the fight was to happen, every month or once!
Such stubborn n immature people exist, amma accepts that II is that... But Ii needs to wisen up, it wont just affect her marriage but her work too... Bally treated her n called her a kiddo... The new one most probably would not. She cant expect to be pampered everywhere. She needs to buckle up! Hope better sense prevails on her from next fight on! 😆
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