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Posted: 10 years ago
Hey nisha di I wanted to tell u that I like u and ur story very much I find u very sweet the way U ans everyone ques and explain. Ur thoughts after update I like it very much...I didn't expected that my first comment will be in these circumstances. But I really want u to ignore the negativity I know it's difficult but plz try to... Plz think of those who like u n the story instead of those who don't.. I m on top of the former list 😃 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
i just hope this thread will b filled with usual reviews when nisha gets here.i dont want her to read that post...why should she if it only makes her sad??hope reviews and usual afternoon posts will come by now...
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Posted: 10 years ago
Well I agree with that
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: taara113

Nisha it has taken a lot of requesting and fights and discussions to stop you from going back to those long list of subjects and you know wat you still do go back when you can't resist, and it comes to people who expect you not to go back to them as an insulting shock. If your readers let you sometimes go back to your apparently favorite topics of discussion and don't always create a scene out of it, can't u extend the same behavior. You can say to the person involved, hey i can only take in nice things don't call my work anything else, hopefully the person will stop there.

But to make it sound as if you have been the victim of some great insult and the other is some villain is so disappointing. And I'm appalled at the pathetically biased behavior of this thread. You love the author and story, good that you do but don't you have brains enough to judge that nothing was said with the intention of HURTING or INSULTING the author, it was just wat the person felt while reading, like common. And the author could have gone ahead and defended why its wasn't exaggerated whatever but instead she resorted to a piece of sarcastic insult and painting some bechara picture of herself (maybe u didn't intend to, but it felt like that to me).
If you write after a full day of hard work its because you want to, Im appreciative of ur talent and ur dedication to this story but doesn't mean I will not speak when I dont like something. Its a two way process- you write as long as ppl read, at least on a public platform- if you expect ppl to always be considerate of your work, once in a while you can take a few harsh words even if it hurts, can't you, atleast where the intention is not to target you or something.
You know how insulting sometimes your sarcastically written replies are, I choose to ignore bcz experience tells me that it will just get nastier from here, I don't know if others are saints from Ekta Soaps and don't find it insulting or like me choose to ignore or maybe somewhere believe that ur intent is not to hurt them. You have a pov on every moving thing on this earth and you express it unabashedly irrespective of how it might go with other ppl or maker of thing ur talking abt. When u write a story which is read by many u no longer are the mango person you become the celebrity and ur product is in the public for ppl to appreciate or abuse, you are very lucky that you have hardly got the later and that comes frm the love fr u ppl have. But if like you some one decides to give a negative take on something that exists in the public domain u make it personal like anything.

As for the 3 days of sex- it was kind of weird and unbelievable to me, I found the entire marriage bit damn boring, i think it was uselessly stretched and I found alot of things very silly. Post the marriage ur story keeps showing traits of a typical Indian daily at times, it has also become predictable at times and the characters are no longer that engaging as you can judge frm the change in readership also, alot of ppl hv left or gone quiet and with the kind treatment you honor ppl wid sometimes, odrs might leave as well. Your frnds and family can take such behavior good for you but the world is not ur frnd and family.
Alot of ppl hv suggested for you to publish, just b4 u decide take classes on handling criticism for sure.
And coming to the favorite question, il not write if anyone of you does not want me to, I don't want you to, let's see if you give in or u will continue to be engaged in the flattery that surrounds you. Either way does not bother me much bcz I'm saying Goodbye for sure.



Taara,

DISCLAIMER: I keep my opinions and arguments separate from my personal opinion & relationship with a person. Anything I say or post has to do only with the comment you put up.

I find your comment quite off-putting and offending.
What about your comment offended me?
1. It's quite obviously a personal vendetta you have against the author (I'd say she insulted you publicly earlier on and you are holding on to the hurt.)
2. I've said this time and time again. We have no rights to tell her to stop writing.
3. Not everyone will agree with your opinions about the story. I most certainly do not. Also. Given that I've had a personal discussion with you on the kind of subjects you prefer to watch, I don't see why the portions you claimed you disliked, were disliked by you at all.
4. In order to justify your anger towards her, you're taking the self-victimization route as well. Kudos on that, by the way.
5. You expect everyone to react positively to negativity when you yourself can't do the same. What does that say about you?
6. You are asking her to not be opinionated, sarcastic and a lot of other things. You are all of those yourself. What right have you to expect her to change her behavior?
7. At the very base of it all. This is hypocrisy. You choose to be hurtful, vengeful and obnoxiously rude. Your "criticism" of Nisha comes on the basis that she has been, on occasion in response to such comments from you and others, doing the same.
8. Nisha is, in general, very sarcastic and jovial. If you choose to see that as a personal angst against you. It can't be helped.
9. I don't see why someone being defensive about their own opinions/work makes them wrong.

There's no justification for you attacking her story, character and almost everything about her.
I am not "lashing out". This is just me taking apart your 'argument' which you put across in your comment. If you perceive that as lashing out, how do you suppose your comment will feel to Nisha (where you're actually lashing out)?

Yes. I have taken this up.
And, yes, I expect you to defend yourself rationally and without using the "I was hurt and angry" line. (Even if you choose to use that... What are you angry about? None of the issues here were addressed against you. As far as I know, you haven't even been a part of this argument, except in your own head.)

And you're, honestly, capitalising on the issue that has arisen to put forth your angst, judgements and anger (that you've been holding on to for a long time) to satisfy your need for attention.

Arya.

A note to the author:
Nisha,
I know this is your story. It's all you. I don't see why you should choose to discontinue it due to others' response. However, if you do wish to discontinue it due to amount of persecution you seem to be getting. It's perfectly all right.

I would wish to see where your story takes II & R&B. But not at the cost of you being constantly judged and persecuted or at the cost of me begging for it.

Arya.


P.S.: What the f**k exploded in this place while I was gone??
Edited by Arya1991 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
"Expectation is the mother of all frustration." - Antonio Banderas

Never have these words rung true more than today for me.

To say that I'm frustrated today upon waking up and seeing all this negativity would be quite and understatement. I guess I just had way too many expectations from this community readers. I'm sorry for everyone (Nisha especially) that is having this thirst-quenching watering hole poisoned. I'm just frustrated.
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Posted: 10 years ago
I have never laughed so much with my morning cuppa šŸ˜†
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Posted: 10 years ago
PLs gals everybody stop commenting and increasing the negativity. Everybody r wrting their opinions and taking it somewhere else. Put out the fire, dont fan it.
This is such an happy place and please let it be. Let Nisha enjoy her writing and not be put off .

So STOP STOP commenting on this topic.

FORGIVE AND FORGET, ENJOY SOSY.
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Posted: 10 years ago
I think Nisha NEEDS to know how many of us support her!!
Its not fanning an issue here...This is appalling...I never expected such posts to come flying like this
Its certainly rude and not in the right frame of how it should have been written
I will support Nisha and will ask her to continue writing until it COMES FROM HER. She has every right to stop writing if she feels exhausted...But I would say she must not stop writing just because someone feels she should!
I do not support such ideas..SORRY!!

Being sarcastic or not...Well Nisha has always been jovial and if someone takes that as being sarcastic..I dont know!! I am out of words as to how I must describe such a notion they hold!

You dont like something...fine...Dont read it...At least dont be so rude! There is a way to dish out things when you have to say something... I found the post really rude!
Its mighty disappointing to find posts as this!


#EndThePersecution #SoSyShouldGoOn



Edited by Ashu25 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
Well said Arya! U summarized very well!šŸ‘šŸ‘ Let's just move past it.
If you don't like it then please bow out graciously then. Please don't write comments which sound mean and personal. Let's not forget it's FICTION. And moreover nobody is an editor here.
Read it if you enjoy it! Nobody is forcing anyone. It's at your will.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: shidin0117

PLs gals everybody stop commenting and increasing the negativity. Everybody r wrting their opinions and taking it somewhere else. Put out the fire, dont fan it.

This is such an happy place and please let it be. Let Nisha enjoy her writing and not be put off .

So STOP STOP commenting on this topic.

FORGIVE AND FORGET, ENJOY SOSY.


I like that, maybe Nisha shoulc write a disclaimer read it at your discretion šŸ˜†šŸ˜†

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