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OnePiece

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Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#141

Originally posted by: krishy13

We know she is clinging onto Ruhi bc for her POV everything she has stems from that little girl bc Ishita & Raman have not fully become one yet. But Raman does not know this and his perception is that he is being turned away bc their daughter is no longer there

They deeply love each other but they lack the confidence in themselves to question if their love is strong enough.

The title song about their relation stemming from a third person is still so apt. Now it's not sirf Ruhi ke liye anymore but it's Ruhi ki vajeyse.

Argh...iPad typos 😡

I completely agree. This will be the cause of their doom if not dealt delicately and maturely. Somewhere I feel Ishita's insecurities are far more deeper since she never expresses as much as Raman does. I wonder who will take that first step to breach this vulnerable territory..*sigh*

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Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#142

Originally posted by: krishy13

But the thing is...he still hit her with the "ishima bane ka..." dialog again and to me, that more directly targets her infertility compared to the dialog in the OLV about reminding her that despite everything, he still cares for his daughter & isn't irresponsible.

What is interesting though is the use of that comment after this couple discovered she may not be infertile...

Looking at it this way, I do agree it's a low blow but I think I interpreted differently.

Yes, both of the dialogues were out of place and unwanted. I wish the CVs tone down such kind of dialogues at least from the lead because Ishita gets to hear them everywhere.. Then how would Raman become different from the rest?

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Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#143

Originally posted by: -Gan-
V I think the dialogues were kinda what Su said and I also have similar feelings as su and Krishy .. And I kinda liked the OLV one . As he emphasized on the part that he's suffering too .. As Ruhi is his daughter too. The episode one felt kinda harsh as again the 'Ishima' taunt was used.

I think part of me liked that dialog also bc it was the closest thing we would see to a confrontation about her running away with Ruhi & what that action could've been interpreted as by him. He believed his daughter & wife were dead & never got a chance to share those emotions.

I hate that 'ishima' taunt bc that undermines so much of why he started to fall for her, but it does bring up the point...is Ishima her primry identity in the Bhalla house? She was brought in as Ishima & became a DIL/sis-in-law...but where does wife fit in? It reminds me of Raman's self talk in the mani track where he states something like "she loves & cares for everyone but what about me?"

We know she loves him more than anything and he even knows that. But their love languages are a little different so the message is getting meddle amidst the stress in their lives.

They both keep putting others ahead of themselves and it's slowly eating away at their relationship from the inside.

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Posted: 10 years ago

#144

Originally posted by: OnePiece

I completely agree. This will be the cause of their doom if not dealt delicately and maturely. Somewhere I feel Ishita's insecurities are far more deeper since she never expresses as much as Raman does. I wonder who will take that first step to breach this vulnerable territory..*sigh*

That's why I get so upset with the cvs .. They have still so much potential with the story.. Especially delving into Ishita's past and exploring her insecurities ..and RKB is the only one who can bring her out of her shell .. Yet they are hell bent on creating unnecessary drama a la you know who 😡

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Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#145

Originally posted by: OnePiece

I completely agree. This will be the cause of their doom if not dealt delicately and maturely. Somewhere I feel Ishita's insecurities are far more deeper since she never expresses as much as Raman does. I wonder who will take that first step to breach this vulnerable territory..*sigh*

Unfortunately...I think it has to be her starting to open up. It's like in the Mani track we were pissed at Raman bc he kept everything inside so Ishita could never grasp his turmoil. Similarly, Raman doesn't have the POV to grasp the extent of her hurt without active clues.

For each of them in those situations...to open up = to acknowledge the cracks & with such deep insecurities...keeping it bottled up keeps their world intact per their POV

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Eyes-Wide-Shut

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Posted: 10 years ago

#146

Hellooo! So here is a million dollar question: Should I catch up with YHM and forget about it?

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Posted: 10 years ago

#147

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut
Hellooo! So here is a million dollar question: Should I catch up with YHM and forget about it?

You enjoy your Europe trip first .. And read WU before deciding to watch .. You don't like kids crying .. Lots of RUhi sadness feels

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Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#148

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut
Hellooo! So here is a million dollar question: Should I catch up with YHM and forget about it?

There are some good episodes sprinkled in if you have ignore the courtroom drama like I did. 😃

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OnePiece

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Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#149

Originally posted by: -Gan-

That's why I get so upset with the cvs .. They have still so much potential with the story.. Especially delving into Ishita's past and exploring her insecurities ..and RKB is the only one who can bring her out of her shell .. Yet they are hell bent on creating unnecessary drama a la you know who 😡

WORD!! That is why I don't want to hear "Ishimaa" dialogues from him to her because though she knows he didn't mean what he said, subconsciously she is always reminded of the fact that she is not a mother. She is one to talk more among the two but when it comes to this point, she cannot fathom the misery. So, she chooses to shut it down deep inside her going back into her cocoon and RKB is the only one who can calm her down.

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Posted: 10 years ago

#150

Originally posted by: -Gan-

You enjoy your Europe trip first .. And read WU before deciding to watch .. You don't like kids crying .. Lots of RUhi sadness feels

Okay then definitely not watching, can't see little kids cry. I will just start watching tomorrow onwards I mean after all it's an Indian soap not like anything would have happened in the last 3 weeks. 😆