7.4.15 - Ishu's insecurity regarding Ru's feelings reaches new heights

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gravshrav23

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Even I was surprised to see that as I am new to the forum anyways.. Like doubting your husband over your ex again and again isnt really maturity .. Love is never one-dimensional you know, and considering how much Raman hates Shagun, why on earth should Ishita feel jealous anyways..

These days I get pissed off onlywhen IshRa keeps romancing forgetting about Ruhi.. 1 month toh kya, even 1 lifetime is less span to give up on your kid to an evil person like Shagun.. And CVs keep showing IshRa romance in between like WTH 😲 First CVs should fix this IshRaRu problem then concentrate on other things.. Because now it's not really funny anymore to see child-swapping track going on and on for like a month 🥱

One has to be really insensitive to NOT feel a shred of emotion, being in Ishu's place...what does it mean when those ppl say Ishita shudnt feel jealous anyways...I think they dont get the POINT...Ishita is not jealous that Raman was with Shagun..she felt insecure because HER daughter (who means the world to her and vice-versa) prefers spending more time with Raman and is jolly well with him, but not her...she is scared of losing that place in her daughter's life... And looking at how Raman was busy cooking and eating pasta and throwing eggs, didnt seem like he HATED Shagun ONE BIT

Hey...I disagree with yu on the romance bit...reason being, the child-swapping is SO horrendous, we DO NEED generous doses of IshRa romance to keep us sane..plus, it proves that their relationship has progressed from the earlier 'Ruhi ke liye' days and that's a relief...this custody track isnt gonna get over so easily, anyway..we might as well watch some light-hearted moments in between

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Wings-of-Fire

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: gravity23

CCR, Wings!

@Green I used to think like that and be cross at Ishita and feel murderous towards Raman but then I figured that if I kept counting Raman's mistakes ( I find many of his mistakes unforgivable, at least I wouldn't forgive them ever) then there would be no marriage/ relation to salvage! So I chose to believe that Ishita is a greater human being- that she's mastered the art of forgiveness. Otherwise I'd end up hating every character and quitting the show- not that I'm very far from the later.

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gravshrav23

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Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

@Green I used to tink like that and be cross at Ishita and feel murderous towards Raman but then I figured that if I kept counting Raman's mistakes ( I find many of his mistakes unforgivable, at least I wouldn't forgive them ever) then there would be no marriage/ relation to salvage! So I chose to believe that Ishita is a greater human being- that she's mastered the art of forgiveness. Otherwise I'd end up hating every character and quitting the show- not that I'm very far from the later.

I dunno...personally, for me...there wudnt BE ANY relation to speak of, if my hubby kept messing up in such insensitive, dumb ways every now and then...I only have soo much patience...and especially, if its a unique case, like that of Ishita's..

Yeah...Ishita IS a greater human-being...isi soch pe YHM ke liye hamari loyalty kayam hai..else, this show has driven us crazy in all other aspects

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Wings-of-Fire

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Oh, BTW people are not strangling her because she got jealous, but because she doesn't feel insecure about Raman. Some claimed no one deserves a wife like her. Some claimed she didn't love Raman. But all of the 'logic' behind her crucifixion is very entertaining to read!

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gravshrav23

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Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire
Oh, BTW people are not strangling her because she got jealous, but because she doesn't feel insecure about Raman. Some claimed no one deserves a wife like her. Some claimed she didn't love Raman. But all of the 'logic' behind her crucifixion is very entertaining to read!

You know what...I did feel a bit unsettled when she was all smiles, calm and composed with Raman...but then again, I understand where she's cming from...she might have felt jealous for a few moments, but she doesnt wanna carry that resentment into their relationship...I mean, SHE was the one who urged Raman to go meet Roo...which means she DOES want Raman to spend time with their daughter, regardless of the current situation...

Sometimes people try and be a lil more positive, to drown out the nagging negative thoughts in their mind...Ishita did that...what is there to be insecure about Raman for?? Im more PISSED that Raman was too cheerful with Shagun, not seeing thru her ploy...I dont doubt he will ever fall for her...he'd have to be AS CHEAP as Shagun, and without self-respect, to want to be with her...Ishita's concerns about Ruhi preferring Raman are valid

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Wings-of-Fire

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: gravity23

I dunno...personally, for me...there wudnt BE ANY relation to speak of, if my hubby kept messing up in such insensitive, dumb ways every now and then...I only have soo much patience...and especially, if its a unique case, like that of Ishita's..

Yeah...Ishita IS a greater human-being...isi soch pe YHM ke liye hamari loyalty kayam hai..else, this show has driven us crazy in all other aspects

I'm not married but I know this for sure, if my hubby ever pulled any of the stunts Raman did so frequently, forget relationship to salvage, there wouldn't be a hubby left to salvage! 😈

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

I'm not married but I know this for sure, if my hubby ever pulled any of the stunts Raman did so frequently, forget relationship to salvage, there wouldn't be a hubby left to salvage! 😈

Since it is YOU who is saying these things, I havent an IOTA of doubt about this😆 Hubby ka naam-o-nishaan gayab ho jayega :p

And yet, I want Ishita to be a bit more tough with him...I mean...Raman IS very insensitive sometimes...he shud really cut down on his blunders...!

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: gravity23

Hey...I disagree with yu on the romance bit...reason being, the child-swapping is SO horrendous, we DO NEED generous doses of IshRa romance to keep us sane..plus, it proves that their relationship has progressed from the earlier 'Ruhi ke liye' days and that's a relief...this custody track isnt gonna get over so easily, anyway..we might as well watch some light-hearted moments in between

I totally agree with the blue part .. If one of them to be questioned for husband-wife relationship/equation, it's totally Raman and Raman to be blamed, who can not keep any promise, takes weird decisions, hides secrets, seduces wife to get documents, I should stop now gawd 😆.. Whereas Ishita, time and again has proved herself to be the most understanding wife a person can ever have.. Raman has no reason to complaint to Ishita as a spouse and he really hasn't he just cant stop making mistakes err blunders I should call em 😆

However, the part where you disagree - I have read it multiple times here that for Ishita it's always 'Ruhi ke liye' and their relationship is not progressing from that point .. But I really dont feel so yaa😊 I mean I didnt start to watch YHM with expectations of any crazy love-story which is SO unlikely to happen in real life.. YHM always felt SO real, so natural and easy-to-believe types.. And I truly feel/believe that when two people are bonded by a kid as basic reason, the reason would always dominate it.. I am not trying to change your pov, just stating mine with examples - if you see in real, after a kid's death, most of the couples (how much ever in love they were) are unable to sort it out and get separated.. Two people indeed start their journey as couple, but when they get a kid (own or adopted) it's another level of relationship they share, each contribute a huge part of himself/herself into that and once that part is lost, it's really not the same.. That is truth I have learnt/observed from life.. I might be wrong, but I oh-so-totally love IshRaRu as a family.. I find Ishita's immense love in Raman through Ruhi, her considering Ruhi more than her life depicts her dedicated love towards Raman for me.. For me Ishita loves Raman through Ruhi.. And it would always be so.. it's a different and another form of their story for me.. Which is why I am not able to accept their 'cool' attitude when Ruhi is there rotting with a woman like Shagun 😕 I mean they couldnt keep Adi with Shagun but are totally OK with Ruhi being there.. 😡

I am just hoping this stupid track to end asap.. And to get IshRaRu back with or without Adi, Adi really doesnt matter to me at all 🥱

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Wings-of-Fire

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Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: gravity23

Since it is YOU who is saying these things, I havent an IOTA of doubt about this😆 Hubby ka naam-o-nishaan gayab ho jayega :p

And yet, I want Ishita to be a bit more tough with him...I mean...Raman IS very insensitive sometimes...he shud really cut down on his blunders...!

Hehehe...I'm not one of those girls who'd take a beating quietly. *You mess me up and I'm gonna hunt you down and torture you till you beg for your mamma (and even after that)*😈

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DipaRB6

@DipaRB6

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Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Omg A! I didn't see the pics when I first responded. Loving the caps...esp the one of Ishita in the car. Funny.

@wings the forum makes no sense to me when they have these types of episodes that bring out the Ishita vs Raman types. Raman is the one joking around with Shagun after ALL she has done and Ishita is the one getting crucified. Hadd hai. She says something to Raman, they don't like. She doesn't say anything, still she gets crucified.

Ruhi hanging out with Shagun makes me super sad. I'm not seeing an end in sight but I guess Ruhi calling Bhalla household is a step forward. Hope they show that she wanted to speak to Ishita specifically. The writers have made this an IshRu separation, the reconciliation better also be focused on the two of them. They seem to have completely vanished Ruhi's anger at her Papa.

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