6.4.15: Compliant Ruhi, Romantic Ishita, Senti Raman, Insecure Toshi - Page 9

Originally posted by: shalz_123

okk so finally after a gap of two three days i m back with my comments on ur review...n my thoughts...ofcourse

first of all...ur writing is improving day by day saachi..mast likha haain.. Haye...its soo good am getting better at my writing...haye...thank you

ok starting se start karte hain...

that raman n ruhi scene was really really cute... thou i honestly dont understand y wud ruhi be not angry with raman... bad n stupid move by Cvs.. i guess i understand what they are trying to project...it is like the testing of Ishru relationship n hence they r trying to focus ONLY on that... which by the way is very illogical... anyway... I fried my brains and OVER fried them thiking WHY isnt she pissed withRaman, busy flashing him kind smiles...but left thinking about it after some point...Yea...I'll go with what ur saying...they wanna pan on IshRu relationship and the testing ground for that- is Roo's current behaviour

okk coming to ruhi..i stalled myself from commenting tht day for few reasons...but today i will comment n try to give my perspective...

ruhi is 6-7 year old...n she isnt acting... she is just reacting to situations... see she is not maneuvering her feelings in regards to ishita...

be it a 6-7 yr old or 20 yr old..the feelings are there...n specially aaj kal ke bacche..u will get amazed at how they react... i told u abt my niece rite..she is just 2.5 yr old... okk i will tell u abt something she did..may be u will understand tht bacche bhi ese react kar sakte hain... Honestly, Shal...main bilkul nahin samajh paa rahi thi ki ek itni chhoti si bacchi ITNA convoluted emotional reaction kaise dikha sakti hai, do alag alag jagah??? But Im gonna read the whole post to see if I can see a diff outlook

my di is in corporate job n see has to travel a lot... when my niece was 1 yr old, she went to australia for 10-15 days... n my niece stayed with my mom... she was 2-3 days very sad..but she was happily playing with my ma n myself..but the moment my didi ws calling or wanted to hear her voice, she wud cry n say "i will not talk, disconnect the call" we were very worried ki hopefully there will be no drift...after 15 days... when didi came back at 2 o clock at night.. n she rushed to her room.. my niece was sleeping... my didi started crying..coz she was missing her terribly...u wont believe what we saw... we saw my niece woke uo hearing some sound n then she went to my didi's lap ang hugged her...no crying nothing... the expression she had was something i will not be able to explain... i swear she was thinking 'its ok now tht u r here...m not angry anymore...' it seemed like she is the grown up there... Awww...Shal...that's why I LOVE and value our discussions...yes, I wasnt able to understand AT ALL the track's motive and Ruhi's confusing reaction...but reading about ur niece made me tear up...she LOVES her Momma after all...awww...they just hugged...no ifs no buts...so pure..Im hoping Roo and Ishita will reconcile the same way...no questions asked, no ans demanded

another instance when she was just 8-9 months... she was playing but not giving me bhav..so i just sternly commented... "okk fine jaa..i will nto talk to u anymore"... u know wat she did? she started crying n she was only looking at me while crying... her mom, my mom tried to pacify her.. she didnt stop..she was looking at me n crying.. then i said "wanna come" she immediately stopped crying n forwarded her hand towards me... for a 8 month old it was not possible to understand what i meant..but she understood the tone i used... Okay..I gt it...kids CAN be crazy sometimes...but they're very literal, i guess...coz ur niece seriously thought u wont ever talk to her and started crying...is that wat Roo's feeling? did she take Ishita's preference of Adi over her literally? Must be...coz she is so upset with Ishu

that is how reactive n understanding kids are... ruhi is also a very matured n receptive kind of a girl..the immense anger n feeling of rejection she has is tremendous.. ofcourse she doesnt know the Background... n so when ishima is not there she cant stop herself from thinking abt her or gushing abt her..but the moment she sees her, the betrayal is triggered n hence the the reaction...

i hope i cud make some sense... Awww...@ blue above - I guess ur right...in college, even when I was pissed with my bestie...i cudnt stop thinking about her in private or among others, but woh saamne aate hi mera munh ka expression change ho jata hai..I LITERALLY avoided even looking at her...wud never respond to her advances... and was v v hurt...tumhari baaton se mujhe woh pal yaad aa gaya Shal...yes, rejected and betrayed is what I felt too...thanks for bringing out a diff perspective Shal...NOW I know what Roo's really feeling like and why she is behaving the way she is...

PS: i have a tendency of gushing abt my niece at the drop of the hat.. so i hope it wasnt too much..i tried to draw some parallels... Nai re...that's what I like about IF...and this thread and u guys and ur comments...sitting here, I got to feel and see a diff outlook altogether, that wudnt have been possible had we been fighting to be right or had u not bothered to explain it so beautifully with a real life example...so thanks😊👏

PPS: I m stopping myself from commenting abt the other scenes in the epi..coz there r few i liked n few i didnt... will wait for the epi before i jump to any sort of conclusion... Alrighty!

PPPS: u r not going deaf...few of the dialogue's sound quality really were very very poor...or else i m also going deaf...😆 LOL...Im glad to knw my ears are still working...its like Raman CHEWS his lines and goes buzzing like a bee...cant hear what he says half the time

PPPS: that was long enuf?? Heheh...PERFECT...Aur bhi lamba hota toh bhi padh leti

PPPS: U wrote in the earlier thread i shud try writing too... i m not as creative u guys are...i honestly believe i m very talkative...but not very good at expressing myself in words... What r u saying? u described ur perspective so nicely here...writing ke liye dil chahiye re...words apne aap aa jate hain☺️