why such disparity bet raman and ashok?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Even raman tried molesting ishita, then why the hell only ashok go to jail? Infact raman's act is more horrendous, because he married ishita only for ruhi, he has no right over her, whereas ashok-mihika marriage is a proper marriage in all terms! Ishita is showing heights of hypocrisy😡 I just hate raman from that episode, he is a sexist who wants ishita only for fullfilling his manhood desires, i hope ishita walks out of this marriage, she deserves someone better, she definately doesnt deserve a divorcee with two children!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I was also thinking the same...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I was thinking the same thing. If Mihika had no intention of fullfilling her part of the marriage deal then she should have just walked out of the marriage the minute Suraj came home safe and sound from the hospital. Coz from what I understand Suraj's coma was the reason behind the marriage. I dont know What Mihika has achieved from living in that house for last 3-4 months. She hasnt managed to do much harm than grate on the nerves of the Khanna brothers and the audience.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This was the first question that came to my mind when I read about AShok Mihika track .Raman is a lead and everything he does will be justified. I am sure even if they show a lead getting punished for his cheap act viewers will not accept it easily.
Few months back many people in this forum supported Raman's behavior and justified the same too and majority were women .They prefer to see the lead's hotness over sensible storyline. When you have such viewers a mature track is not gonna work for production house.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

This was the first question that came to my mind when I read about AShok Mihika track .Raman is a lead and everything he does will be justified. I am sure even if they show a lead getting punished for his cheap act viewers will not accept it easily.

Few months back many people in this forum supported Raman's behavior and justified the same too and majority were women .They prefer to see the lead's hotness over sensible storyline. When you have such viewers a mature track is not gonna work for production house.



I just dont get why the intimacy is shown as such a big deal on Indian TV. In most of the shows the leads dont consummate for years 😕. In IShra's case what made me really mad was why they didnt show them talk about it. They just sweep these issues under the rug. I would have preferred if Ishita had questioned Raman's behavior and found the reason for his insecurity regarding Mani. They are just showing sex as a reward in a marriage.

Raman- If you help me get Adi, I will reward you with intimacy
Ishita- If you keep me happy, I will think about it. But, if you do anything which displeases me, forget about it. With Raman's track record, he will always be in trouble, so no chance.
Mihika- I hate you Ashok, you blackmailed me so I will come up with silly excuses to avoid you. I will not give you what you want but I expect you to help my Akka and my treat my jiju nicely. "Mugamo khush hua" type. I wonder if Ashok had struck the deal with Mihika and done as she requested would then she had slept with him??? She was ready to do it to save Shagun, she might do it for her jiju and Akka
Romi- I slept with Sarika, but I dont love her. I want the child but dont want to be stuck with her for life. Basically he wants to keep the child and throw her out or he just wants visitation rights or he wants to marry her but have permission to cheat.
Minky- Will wait to fall in love, which might not happen due to the Mihika triangle. So another strange marriage. So either Rinky becomes the glorious one and walks out on the marriage or relegate to becoming the third wheel watching her husband with puppy eyes waiting for some love to be showered on her. So basically she is screwed. If she opposes Mihir's helping Mihika, she becomes the bad one. If she allows, she will always be insecure and the ignored one. If Mihika is around why would Mihir fall in love with Rinky?

Makes me wonder are these people married or running a business? Making deals in marriage😕 These marriages never work. The CVs should show sensible dialogues and reactions not drama. One pakistani show actually addressed these marriage issues very nicely. The mother actually tells her daughter, Love is not important to make a marriage work, your sense of duty is. I do my duty as a wife and your father does his duty as a husband. We respect each other due to that and when I see him being a great dad to my children I forget that he is not the greatest husband.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: PILOT900

Even raman tried molesting ishita, then why the hell only ashok go to jail? Infact raman's act is more horrendous, because he married ishita only for ruhi, he has no right over her, whereas ashok-mihika marriage is a proper marriage in all terms! Ishita is showing heights of hypocrisy😡 I just hate raman from that episode, he is a sexist who wants ishita only for fullfilling his manhood desires, i hope ishita walks out of this marriage, she deserves someone better, she definately doesnt deserve a divorcee with two children!



WeLL am bit confused after reading your post.. First confusion- Raman and Ishita assault episode is incomplete. Because CV didn't show any proper scene after that episode so it bit unfair to discuss and criticise any particular character. So I will blame CV instead ..

Secondly Confusion is whether you are supporting Marital rape or criticising it. Raman ne kiya tha woh galat but Ashok ne kiya hai somewhat right hai . If you are assuming Raman as culprit ( Like to remind you so far cv never ever showed anything proper for that assault episode ) then by law Ashok and Raman are equal culprit period. Nothing more nothing less. Above all Raman never blackmailed Ishita for marriage unlike Ashok who blackmailed Mihika for marriage which according to you is a proper marriage .


P>S. I am not supporting Raman assault episode.Raman galat tha and Ashok galat hai period..


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shazam1

I was thinking the same thing. If Mihika had no intention of fullfilling her part of the marriage deal then she should have just walked out of the marriage the minute Suraj came home safe and sound from the hospital. Coz from what I understand Suraj's coma was the reason behind the marriage. I dont know What Mihika has achieved from living in that house for last 3-4 months. She hasnt managed to do much harm than grate on the nerves of the Khanna brothers and the audience.



She was just waiting for mihir marriage. After all every deeds of Mihika affect Ishra life. When she married Ashok, shagun cme to bhalla house and so much drama happened and it is nt ending yet. Now again her coming back to iyer house will affect Ishita. what was need of her to tell mihir abt her marriage truth (which totally baseless) knwing very well that it will affcet mihir , rinki life and ultimately ishra life. CV are sadist.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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He was wrong too but simple reason behind not accusing him was both the situations.
In Raman's case Ishita knw that he is not the same guy who misbehaved with her that night coz Ishita knw that he respect women and didn't even forced himself on her. In fact he saved her from the goons before their marriage even after the fight. So she knw that something was wrong with him that's why he behaved that way so she ignored it.

But in Ashok case she knw how bad Ashok is specially after being assaulted by him once. So she didn't need any reason to file case against Ashok.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Both r wrong.
Ask CVs y didnt they show a proper scene between Ishita n Raman after that or Ishita questioning Raman for his misbehaviour?

Besides irrespective of how cute AsMi look, their marriage was a manipulation. It is another thing that Mihika was waiting for Ashok to commit something like this out of her dumbness as she shud have ideally moved out of Khanna mansion once Suraj came back n she knew that Ashok blackmailed her in this marriage. But Ashok tried to rape her so she shud be reporting for it legally.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

This was the first question that came to my mind when I read about AShok Mihika track .Raman is a lead and everything he does will be justified. I am sure even if they show a lead getting punished for his cheap act viewers will not accept it easily.

Few months back many people in this forum supported Raman's behavior and justified the same too and majority were women .They prefer to see the lead's hotness over sensible storyline. When you have such viewers a mature track is not gonna work for production house.

people only want consumnaton and physical romantic tracks, no wonder india has so much population😡

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