Originally posted by: Hsp.canada
Anu: I agree separation is painful right after the honeymoon, but there is sometime called reality. I just wish RnB had told her at the start of HM. II would have had the clarity. In my case we had galavanting around the Europe for 3 weeks for HM and had separated in Paris, I was heading back to India and he back to Canada. Had some immigration issue to Canada,( some home country BS). We were just arguing on the phone/chats etc for 3 months. I hated it. But it was beyond his control. (I was a brat in those days). Poor man started to look for transfer to NYC which took 2 months but (he was equally miserable)...and I joined him in 2 weeks of his moving to the greatest city in the world.(I love NYC)
It was long 3 months. I was aware of it will happen, but didn't realize the gravity of separation.
Cut some slack for RnB. He is not doing it on purpose, I am just upset he didn't communicate well to II.Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing. This couple has a long way to go.
if she had known she would be prepared.. wednesday say saturday thak .. he should have told her but i wont cut some slack until i know the reason :) and then i will also switch to R&B gush 😆😆😆 my current frame is #teamII and i dont take too long to switch sides
Wow 3 months away was long but intezaar ka phal meetha hua YEAH NYC i love it too ..hopefully the same thing for II too..