Originally posted by: shalz_123
A, hows health today??? better i hope? Nai re...I was back to a coughing spree last night...going to d doc today again...Im SICK and TIRED...of my health, of the show...ufff...😡
bang on review yaar... very well written... Thank u dear :)
first time in yhm land... i was so unresponsive regarding ishra scene... i was just thinking... my husband technically hid from me sucha big thing... n revealed only at the last moment...n i am not angry... ? chaalo ishita understood his plight... fir bhi abhimaan to hoga naa?? ki aapne pehele mujhe kyun nahi bataya... Ishita has been characterized in a very weak sense...Self-respect ki bahut kami hai Ishita mein...Dnt get angry, but kam se kam thoda roothna toh chahiye naa...woh bhi nai...But yeh toh hamesha se chalta aa raha hai...Raman can yell at her however much he wants..and then just make a gazillion calls to her and her clinic (That's also the ONLY time Ishita EVER goes to the clinic) to try and manaofy her...its like, she is OBLIGED to accept his apology...
what exctly are they doing to adi... pampering him..n the moment ruhi's name came up... trying to sush the matter... what exctly is this?? this is how u r planning him to take out of his depression.. by trying to show... "that nahi beta... u r the only one..." ..ur sis... who ur sis... Seriously...I was so PISSED..Ruhi ka naam lete hi sabki shaklein change ho gayi...Adi bhi awkward feel kar raha tha...Why this DIVIDE between the two?? Shouldn't they have a word with Adi and tell him the truth?? Tell him what;s going on?? I mean, shudnt he know what a foul person his biological mother is??? Aise toh use bacha bacha ke usko illusion mein rakhenge...and ONE day, when he walks out into the real world, he'll turn into a handicap unable to cope with the realities outside...Why cant they understand this thing?? Did it do them ANY good when they tried meting out the same treatment to him when he was living under their roof with his vamp mother?? No...then why shud it be any diff now??? The Bhallas would d him a world of good if they tell him the truth...that accompanies a shitty thing like divorce...
u know today adi n bhalla parivars behaviour reminded me of a real life incident..
dont read if u have weak heart...
in our apartment, there was this bhaiya.. (who was a classmate of my didi).. he was single child.. both his parents were teachers... they pampered him very much... gave him watever he asked for... watever... in this protective environment...i remember he was a lil weird to start with... used to read only paranormal n ghost stories... now it was diagonsed...tht he has psychological problem... he was further pampered n showered with anything he asked for...
he wanted to buy a bike.. ( he was 18 then...), but since he was a lil disturbed psychologically, they refused.. coz it wud have caused problem... but according to him...that was a huge rejection... n he cudnt handle it.. n at night, he slashed his wrist... n after he did tht... he roamed around all the rooms to check that everyone is sleeping... why i mentioned this is becoz.. the people who try to commit suicide, backtress their steps..once they go trhu the excrutiating pain... but not he... n then he collapsed... he was admitted to hospital n finally saved.. after that one body gaurd used to accompany him always... n then just after 3-4 months... he again tried.. this time, he just jumped in front of a train... n this time he succeeded... i still remember the trauma his parents had...n still are continuing to have...
parenting is not very easy... it is not about pampering just...it is not abt discipline just either... there has to be a balance... if u continue to pamper n shower gifts..n never say no to ur child...u dont make a good parent... one day u cannot give somethign they want, they will rebel... their needs to be a balance. ... what they r doing to Adi is not healing, but destroying him further...
Ayyyo! SHOCKING! And very, very scary...I hope the CVs are reading these posts...that wud give them the sense to characterize Raman in a practical manner...When Raman told Ishita they need to spend as much time as possible with Adi, I was so furious...and hurt...Aur KITNA time spend karenge yaar uske saath?? And usko pamper karne ka mann bhi kaise karega, yeh sochte huey ki beti toh Shagun jais chudail ke saath hai?? Raman is behaving like a total MCP now...I DIDNT LIKE IT ONE BIT😡
now back to review...
.. RKB was smiling n saying to ishita... tht adi ke saath waqt pata hi nahi chalta... fir on second thoughts mentioned abt ruhi...i m sorry today his actions didnt speak of any sadness seein his lil girl crying... how cud he smile n comment...????? well if u can do tht..i m sorry ur claim of ruhi being ur world cannot be true...(n i feel very sad to say this...)..atleast the actions didnt say so... Adi is, was and will ALWAYS be Raman's world...Im sure of that...Ruhi is jst the periphery...If tomorrow Ruhi starts behaving with him the way Adi used to, then it wud be with a GOOD REASON...
DT ka make up thoda kam hona chahiye tha..during the sick scene... i was not being able to concentrate on anything neither ruhi nor ishita's dialogue as the pink lipstick n eyeshadow was distracting me... LOL...Woh ro rahi thi, main aiwaee baithi thi...it didnt affect me at all...YHM has been RUINED..destroyed...Im so hurt...Bas meri addiction ki wajah se yeh show dekhti rehti hun😃
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