So you mean to say, it is OK even if the brother dies but the father should care only for the daughter? For father either son or daughter, both are equal but when it comes to chose to help out only one among the 2, he will have to chose the weaker one. Here what was the guarantee that Adi would not have taken the extreme step when he was asked to go back to Shagun just because Ruhi had top be brought back. Had he had some time, he would have tried to take Ishita into his confidence and also updated Ruhi about the situation but he didn't had that time.I am a mother and if such situation comes to me, may be even I would have done whatever Raman did here. At that moment I would not have been ready to take chance with my child's life by opening his truth with even hubby which may have caused a delay or one more uproar which would have alerted the weak child.