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Ashu25 thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
I am not sure if I have to write this, but THIS I have had in mind since last night!
How would one feel when you simply walked out on them without any reason ? Like you met someone in a party, you look at them and simply walk out of the party just because that one person is standing there?
Or
Would you cancel out a business deal just cause you didnt like that one person from school or college ?
See, EACH TO HIS/HER OWN
I would rather stay in that party and forget the existence of that other person just for "COURTESY'S" SAKE
I would not cancel out my deal cause I have my business /professional ethics intact
First being morality, second professionalism...
In this last chapter, I saw both oozing out !!!
However possessive you are or can get, if these two are intact, you might simply STAY.
My take totally...I dont even know if its relevant...😕


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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604



HOW DOES one "extract salt from upma?🤣

Reminds me of Dumb & Dumber, the male leads try and MILK A BULL🤣

she must have pulled out some dentist stunt on that poor upma
Deep, tell what you did...The nation wants to know 🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Dont worry Hershey, you can dislike the chapter if you like... his reassuring her would have been too predictable. He could have said "I only love you"

"I married you and didnt marry her so get that into that moronic head of yours"

"I am not even looking at her"

"I am not even talking to her"

He could have said many things

He WILL NOT CHEAT ON HER. i am running away from a story where the man struggled to keep his pants zipped do you think I will rewrite such a story?

I dont deliberately go about disappointing the readers. I want the characters to be this way for a reason... his lack of expressiveness is NOT a garb for his proposed infidelity or because he holds a flame for his ex.
NEITHER

If thats how you perceive him. I will not try to convince you otherwise.

Cheers!!!


Again... Am not sure if I ever mentioned about R&B being unfaithful... I talked about R&B's uncaring and casual attitude and II's mild reaction. I didnt expect "I love you" or "I am not even talking to her"..That would be defensive... All I expected was perhaps " you Ok II?" Or something like " there seems to be some confusion but M wasnt invited by me, if you feel not OK I'll make sure we wrap up soon" from R&B... ONLY coz he knows II fretted about this and feels depressed about this whole M business.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: harshita27

Again... Am not sure if I ever mentioned about R&B being unfaithful... I talked about R&B's uncaring and casual attitude and II's mild reaction. I didnt expect "I love you" or "I am not even talking to her"..That would be defensive... All I expected was perhaps " you Ok II?" Or something like " there seems to be some confusion but M wasnt invited by me, if you feel not OK I'll make sure we wrap up soon" from R&B... ONLY coz he knows II fretted about this and feels depressed about this whole M business.

Agree 👍🏼
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Posted: 10 years ago
just wanna share an incident here.. my husband had an ex.. no she wasn't his girlfriend but a girl whom he was supposed to marry before me but dint.. they weren't engaged or anything but had spoken couple of times and had became friends.. and I came to know that they still talk to each other during the first month of marriage.. and i behaved exactly like II.. had my insecurities, angry but never ever expressed it.. my husband was like R & B.. he felt it was okay to talk to her and discussed abt her with me sometimes (which R & B dint do).. because probably because men feel there's nothing wrong in interacting with their ex.. they have invested their lives into their wives and it doesn't matter o them if their ex comes across.. they are indifferent towards them and expect the same from us.. So i personally felt that R & Bs and IIs reaction was normal towards his ex.. someday II will definitely express her dissent towards his ex once they are totally comfortable with each other the way I did..and R & B will understand the way my husband did.. lets wait for the day..
PS: Its been 8 years and i laugh when i think about it.. I still bring her name sometimes when we fight.. i tell him that the woman was lucky she dint have to tolerate you..i am the one who is trapped..
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: harshita27

Again... Am not sure if I ever mentioned about R&B being unfaithful... I talked about R&B's uncaring and casual attitude and II's mild reaction. I didnt expect "I love you" or "I am not even talking to her"..That would be defensive... All I expected was perhaps " you Ok II?" Or something like " there seems to be some confusion but M wasnt invited by me, if you feel not OK I'll make sure we wrap up soon" from R&B... ONLY coz he knows II fretted about this and feels depressed about this whole M business.



Please dont give up so soon is all I will say, reactions occur, redemption happens... OVER TIME Hershey... he is a good man, it would be disappointing if people lose hope because he doesnt measure up to a yardstick you have in mind😭

He is quiet... not cruel or insensitive
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Posted: 10 years ago

Sure and he expected her to understand when he tat day itself told that "she is only in ur mind"...Basic misunderstanding re...That will get cleared as they further progress in their relation where R&B will understand what she feels about all this and will act accordingly...and II will understand that he has truly moved on and will not care about it...steps are needed from both the sides...
Edited by swathi1990 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: deernav

just wanna share an incident here.. my husband had an ex.. no she wasn't his girlfriend but a girl whom he was supposed to marry before me but dint.. they weren't engaged or anything but had spoken couple of times and had became friends.. and I came to know that they still talk to each other during the first month of marriage.. and i behaved exactly like II.. had my insecurities, angry but never ever expressed it.. my husband was like R & B.. he felt it was okay to talk to her and discussed abt her with me sometimes (which R & B dint do).. because probably because men feel there's nothing wrong in interacting with their ex.. they have invested their lives into their wives and it doesn't matter o them if their ex comes across.. they are indifferent towards them and expect the same from us.. So i personally felt that R & Bs and IIs reaction was normal towards his ex.. someday II will definitely express her dissent towards his ex once they are totally comfortable with each other the way I did..and R & B will understand the way my husband did.. lets wait for the day..

PS: Its been 8 years and i laugh when i think about it.. I still bring her name sometimes when we fight.. i tell him that the woman was lucky she dint have to tolerate you..i am the one who is trapped..


ROFL 🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: deernav

just wanna share an incident here.. my husband had an ex.. no she wasn't his girlfriend but a girl whom he was supposed to marry before me but dint.. they weren't engaged or anything but had spoken couple of times and had became friends.. and I came to know that they still talk to each other during the first month of marriage.. and i behaved exactly like II.. had my insecurities, angry but never ever expressed it.. my husband was like R & B.. he felt it was okay to talk to her and discussed abt her with me sometimes (which R & B dint do).. because probably because men feel there's nothing wrong in interacting with their ex.. they have invested their lives into their wives and it doesn't matter o them if their ex comes across.. they are indifferent towards them and expect the same from us.. So i personally felt that R & Bs and IIs reaction was normal towards his ex.. someday II will definitely express her dissent towards his ex once they are totally comfortable with each other the way I did..and R & B will understand the way my husband did.. lets wait for the day..

PS: Its been 8 years and i laugh when i think about it.. I still bring her name sometimes when we fight.. i tell him that the woman was lucky she dint have to tolerate you..i am the one who is trapped..

Your husband stopped the day you expressed your displeasure... II expressed her insecurity..R&B rubbished it then saying "she is in your head"... N then 7 days later she appears n R&B knowing II's insecurities doesnt even ask her once how she's coping seeing M?!? Maybe am just stuck up on this now... I think I'll shutup😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
Deep, "Its been 8 years and i laugh when i think about it.. I still bring her name sometimes when we fight.. i tell him that the woman was lucky she dint have to tolerate you..i am the one who is trapped.." -
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Edited by Ashu25 - 10 years ago

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