Okay before you guys throw eggs and tomatoes on me, lemme be clear - I am NOT defending Ishita. What she has done to Raman and his family in this time of adversity is wrong. Utterly wrong! She herself said that Raman is Ruhi's first favourite person and not Ishima but today she herself is separating Ruhi from Raman. Moreover, how can Ishita be so irrational and selfish that she stakes Ruhi's safety to prevent Shagun from taking Ruhi. Wont it be better if Ishita let Ruhi live with Shagun for two days till court opened and then reverse the papers. After all Shagun wont cause any harm to Ruhi. Ofcourse I agree all these arguments are valid and true.
BUT doesn't that bring Ishita and Raman on the same page now?😳
Raman has done many mistakes in his possessiveness for Adi. He has hurt Ishita so many times for Adi. And we always had this complaint, why is she always so mahaan to forgive him and be good and sensible.Why she always stands by him even when he's wrong. Finally CVs proved that afterall Ishita is nothing but an emotional replica of Raman only. Raman is irrational when it comes to Adi but sensible about Ruhi while it's vice-a-versa for Ishu. Just like Raman she can be absolutely stupid, selfish and nasty when it comes to pocessing Ruhi. They both are pocessive for their kids. So much so that in the process of pocessing their kids they even forget about each other in this process. And thats what binds them together too 😳 Their unconditional love for the kids. This is what binds IshRa in an imperfectly perfect relationship. ❤️
A perfect relation is about 'equality', and that was what was missing from IshRa. It seemed one-sided many times where only Ishu was sensible enough to keep the relation above Raman's mistakes. But finally her outburst and bizzare reaction owing to Ruhi's custody has proved that these two are nowhere different from each other. They are on the same page and they need to learn how to improve upon each other's weaknesses to take their relationship to a higher level of strength and trust. Yes! the trust is still amiss!
I feel now IshRa's consummation would hold much more meaning atleast for me for now they are both the same. They do mistakes...they love their kids...they hurt each other and even forgive/correct each other and try to mend things in a new way everytime. ❤️
Edited by Malika - 10 years ago
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