They are on same page....❤️

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Okay before you guys throw eggs and tomatoes on me, lemme be clear - I am NOT defending Ishita. What she has done to Raman and his family in this time of adversity is wrong. Utterly wrong! She herself said that Raman is Ruhi's first favourite person and not Ishima but today she herself is separating Ruhi from Raman. Moreover, how can Ishita be so irrational and selfish that she stakes Ruhi's safety to prevent Shagun from taking Ruhi. Wont it be better if Ishita let Ruhi live with Shagun for two days till court opened and then reverse the papers. After all Shagun wont cause any harm to Ruhi. Ofcourse I agree all these arguments are valid and true. BUT doesn't that bring Ishita and Raman on the same page now?😳
Raman has done many mistakes in his possessiveness for Adi. He has hurt Ishita so many times for Adi. And we always had this complaint, why is she always so mahaan to forgive him and be good and sensible.Why she always stands by him even when he's wrong. Finally CVs proved that afterall Ishita is nothing but an emotional replica of Raman only. Raman is irrational when it comes to Adi but sensible about Ruhi while it's vice-a-versa for Ishu. Just like Raman she can be absolutely stupid, selfish and nasty when it comes to pocessing Ruhi. They both are pocessive for their kids. So much so that in the process of pocessing their kids they even forget about each other in this process. And thats what binds them together too 😳 Their unconditional love for the kids. This is what binds IshRa in an imperfectly perfect relationship. ❤️

A perfect relation is about 'equality', and that was what was missing from IshRa. It seemed one-sided many times where only Ishu was sensible enough to keep the relation above Raman's mistakes. But finally her outburst and bizzare reaction owing to Ruhi's custody has proved that these two are nowhere different from each other. They are on the same page and they need to learn how to improve upon each other's weaknesses to take their relationship to a higher level of strength and trust. Yes! the trust is still amiss!

I feel now IshRa's consummation would hold much more meaning atleast for me for now they are both the same. They do mistakes...they love their kids...they hurt each other and even forgive/correct each other and try to mend things in a new way everytime. ❤️


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Posted: 10 years ago
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very well penned post dear friend
I agree with u in every word.
they were in deed same. Adi is raman's weakness. Ruhi is ishu's .
she was hurt to an exchange she could not let ruhi go with shagun . same time she din't say a word to ADI OR ABT ADI

ruhi is her life. her weakness too

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Awesome post dear..agree wid each nd every point..by watching these episodes...i am also thinking dat they both r same..He shouts at her for losing adi..his brain goes numb wen comes to adi..same here goes ti ishita for ruhi..I am also glad dat consummation hadn't take place..they need to xplore alot frm dis track..want a proper confrntatn...don't want to end with silly nokjhoks nd lollipop scenes..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The custody case has opened for the third time- Raman never learns from his mistakes. Shagun manipulates him easily everytime. The main lesson here should be for Raman not to underestimate Shagun and also to involve Ishita. Shagun knew Raman would not involve Ishita so her plan worked smoothly coz she can fool Raman easily- that is the sad truth.
Last two times, Ishita did not run away with Ruhi, why did she do it this time? She was not taking Ruhi away from the family since she left early morning and Shagun was there immly in the morning asking for Ruhi. She now knows Shagun as a mother, she has seen her carelessness even towards Adi. She knows Shagun wants revenge against her in a big way this time and Shagun kept telling her she wont see Ruhi again. Shagun lives in a hotel and the fear of Shagun absconding with Ruhi was what was on the top of her mind. Shagun has tried to hit Ruhi everytime she has left her with Shagun. So ishita was feeling protective towards Ruhi whom she loves more than anything in this world. There is nothing wrong, she has not run away forever. It is just 2 days or so.

Seeing the whole of last week, it seemed Raman had taken Ishita for granted a bit too much. The way he was treating her was simply not justifiable. And what has Adi got to do with taking their relationship forward? And she was blamed for nothing - tumne meri zindagi barbaad kardi etc. Just as people expect Ishita to love Raman he needs to respect her too. Humiliating her in front of the whole family is just not done. And on top of that he was throwing attitude at her. All this behaviour and his oversmartness led to this custody mess in the first place. Hence Ishita's mistake is nothing compared to the huge goof-ups that Raman makes that literally takes the life out of Ishita- how many times she has to fight for Ruhi's custody? That too for no reason- Raman was plain stupid.

Raman has also hid his job, loan etc - if he can do so many things under the pretext of protecting an adult like Ishita, why cant ishita protect Ruhi and hide from Raman for 2 days?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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That's an interesting thought. Though, Ishita is being too selfish, but I guess, it makes her real (word taken by others supporting Raman when he does mistakes😆), and not JM😊.
Thanks.

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