Why does Ruhi always feel that??

Hello,
Once again Ruhi said it, " Aap kyu ro rahe ho Ishima? Papa ne kuch kaha?"...its like Raman is always the reason for Ishitas rona dhona.Even in ydays epi when Mr.Bhalla brings her back frm park Ruhi hears Raman saying sorry to Ishita and asks him "aapne phirse kuch kaha papa? Ishima kyu ro rahi hai?"
I really dont think its right to make a child feel that her father is always making her mother sad n fights with her n makes her cry.
Comeon,Raman is not a psycho or a violent husband/father then y make his impression like that in his daughters eyes??

please share ur views.
Yash

It clearly indicates that Ruhi is in constant fear that her Ishima is wronged.

not to lighten the situation..but one of the instructions i gave my dad during my bidaai was...dont you disturb my mom...i will come to scold u..."

Originally posted by: shalz_123

not to lighten the situation..but one of the instructions i gave my dad during my bidaai was...dont you disturb my mom...i will come to scold u..."

n i dont feel my dad tortures my mom...but just tht they bicker at times...n tht is as simple as tht...

Originally posted by: shalz_123

not to lighten the situation..but one of the instructions i gave my dad during my bidaai was...dont you disturb my mom...i will come to scold u..."

n i dont feel my dad tortures my mom...but just tht they bicker at times...n tht is as simple as tht...

Shalz...there's an age difference..

Ruhi may be a dadima but @ the end ..she is still just 6-7 years kid, this isn't a healthy habit of always assuming her dad to be the sole reason for all of Ishita's tears & worries. You can consult any child pyschologist, they would say the same thing.

Once or twice is alright but not always, it could be a psychological insecurity issue embedded in her mind as well.

Originally posted by: --Megha--

Do u c ur mom crying after every fight or bickering?

Me n my husband too have our fights n bickerings its a part n oarcel of marriage. N so does my parents too n me being the only child is made to judge who is right n who is wrong. N i usually say keep me out of ur fights 😛 But I have never seen my mother cry coz of bickerings n my father being outright insulting.

Originally posted by: serious

Shalz...there's an age difference..

Ruhi may be a dadima but @ the end ..she is still just 6-7 years kid, this isn't a healthy habit of always assuming her dad to be the sole reason for all of Ishita's tears & worries. You can consult any child pyschologist, they would say the same thing.

Once or twice is alright but not always, it could be a psychological insecurity issue embedded in her mind as well.

@bold: I completely agree with u

Shalz drama is ok but if everytime makers show Ruhi asking same question to Raman - y did u make myIshima cry? Then seriously there is some problem with Ruhi or Raman (I mean the way story is being shown).

Well, this is very recent. This trend is happening since December last year to be precise and it's very disturbing. It shows that after so much efforts, Ruhi is still insecured and Ishita didn't find it logical to correct her daughter. Another thing is that makers want to show Raman is neither a good father nor a good husband. But in reality it's quite the opposite. And, the recent trend started since the day they tried to over glorify Ishita-Ruhi bond.

Funny thing is that when Raman really did hurt Ishita with his words at times during the early days of their marriage, Ruhi's reaction was quite different. She wanted to know why she's crying, never asked who made her cry. And if she somehow knew Raman was the reason, she played a cupid role to make things right for her mom and dad. I guess the makers now want to concentrate on oppressed female lead and concerned daughter and their bonding from the early theme of the completion of two broken souls and time slot change is the main reason behind it.

I don't understand why they won't kill Raman at a time why continuous torture for him and us.