Software Symphony 9 Book Shelf Analogy on 144 - Page 98

Originally posted by: SunshineBliss

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😆😆 Yes II ignoring R&B... that will be interesting . In his mind, that is something he surely wouldn't have bargained for... and II being II...will probably let him brood all he wants 😆

Or who knows, Nisha may surprise us by making him a hands on dad...

But also having good maternal instincts and actually wanting your own are different things... the age that she is at now, she sees having babies of her own getting in the way of her aspirations...

Yes,

The kind of girl she is, its only fitting for her not to have too much love for becoming a mother. She doesnt love to cook too much, she hates staying home too long, has too many friends, works long hours, lacking mayernal instinct is a natural extension of it I believed

Yes there is a world of difference between caring for a 3 month old for two hours at Sam's that doesnt move and lays in her arms all the time and playing with a almost 10 year old (Shravu) and having your own and being with it 24*7 for the first 6 months and then 12-14 hours a day until they turn 18.

She is a natural with kids, that part, I fully agree, whether she wants to take it on as a second career I dont agree with...

I havent yet read the other comments
Security & Rules

Some of the things i liked about this update:

1) Breakfast with Ranjan 😳
She took coffee for Ranjan... he was just waking up
"See, BAHU wakes me up, this is no less than lottery for me betaji" He took her coffee
2) Her packing his bag and writing the note ( I would never do it ..😉)

Why would i not do it :)
1) Because R&B behaved like a jerk 😡 I gushed for 2 updates but i didnt like what he did.

How can he let his beautiful wife sleep alone in the sun room sooo not done..when she hugged him and told him to not leave her .. this is so not done.
I cannot sleep alone in my bed post marriage , i had a room in my house before marriage i could sleep their alone but post marriage i cant , when my husband travels my kids know they have to sleep with me.before kids i went to my friends house and we did a GNO sleepover. So this was plain wrong.
He has this huge house .. why does he have to drive out couldnt his partners come home

2) Next the kid issue - I am totally totally with II on this everything she said is true.. When i moved from Bay area to boston and then was searching for a job and doing my masters in Boston I was also 4 months pregnant i hid the fact and got the job .. I am 1000% sure if they knew they wouldnt have hired me.
This has come hard for II , double masters,CPA and now a deployment manager so wanting some career is right she should be ready for a kid a Mulcha Marg dude going abroad for vacations will never understand that.
Will he promise to be home everyday after 5 and watch the kid in the night.
A woman needs to have the freedom to decide when to have a kid and upto 35 is perfectly fine to finish both kids.
if you wanted kids before a girl is 30 marry a 22 year old 😆.
Of course she has every right to fear what if her child is like perippa , her parents didnt want her.
Its obvious she loves kids but she is going to need some time and R&B needs to give her some time and trust her and not keep poking at the one area that riles her up.
Would he like it if she kept asking how did ur mom die or what was the scandal or why Manny is this jerk no right ..

Dekha this update jagoed the #feminist in me 😆😆😆

EnVee

The reasons are exactly right, adamant, career oriented, the marriage might not last, trying to forget him is going to kill her NOW, can u imagine how it would be if they shared joint custody? Seeing him weekly, knowing he is no longer hers... watching him get off the car with another woman? The other woman answering the phone when she calls for her child?

Weve clearly established that the physical aspect is very important to him, so he wont lead a celibate life, in fact she is sure THATS why hes even going to leave her. In such circumstances what a horror it would be for II to live with a younger version of the Rakshasan

Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl

I havent yet read the other comments
Security & Rules

Some of the things i liked about this update:

1) Breakfast with Ranjan 😳
She took coffee for Ranjan... he was just waking up
"See, BAHU wakes me up, this is no less than lottery for me betaji" He took her coffee
2) Her packing his bag and writing the note ( I would never do it ..😉)

Why would i not do it :)
1) Because R&B behaved like a jerk 😡 I gushed for 2 updates but i didnt like what he did.

How can he let his beautiful wife sleep alone in the sun room sooo not done..when she hugged him and told him to not leave her .. this is so not done.
I cannot sleep alone in my bed post marriage , i had a room in my house before marriage i could sleep their alone but post marriage i cant , when my husband travels my kids know they have to sleep with me.before kids i went to my friends house and we did a GNO sleepover. So this was plain wrong.
He has this huge house .. why does he have to drive out couldnt his partners come home

2) Next the kid issue - I am totally totally with II on this everything she said is true.. When i moved from Bay area to boston and then was searching for a job and doing my masters in Boston I was also 4 months pregnant i hid the fact and got the job .. I am 1000% sure if they knew they wouldnt have hired me.
This has come hard for II , double masters,CPA and now a deployment manager so wanting some career is right she should be ready for a kid a Mulcha Marg dude going abroad for vacations will never understand that.
Will he promise to be home everyday after 5 and watch the kid in the night.
A woman needs to have the freedom to decide when to have a kid and upto 35 is perfectly fine to finish both kids.
if you wanted kids before a girl is 30 marry a 22 year old 😆.
Of course she has every right to fear what if her child is like perippa , her parents didnt want her.
Its obvious she loves kids but she is going to need some time and R&B needs to give her some time and trust her and not keep poking at the one area that riles her up.
Would he like it if she kept asking how did ur mom die or what was the scandal or why Manny is this jerk no right ..

Dekha this update jagoed the #feminist in me 😆😆😆

Wah ri meri sherni

I fully agree... ditto to II's thoughts and R&B's reaction. When he gets angry there is no remorse or moderation...they both are good people prone to strong reactions

yup R&B does behave like a horrible dude in anger several instances - not calling after engagement, not complimenting her for her dance, letting her sleep alone.

these 2 have miles to go before they hit the common ground and R&B is totally living in some lala land 😆
he thinks he can go to Paris , II will have 3 kids and live alone in that huge house with minion and FIL kuch bhi kya 😆😆

and II lives with these insecurities but this is what makes it interesting because bottom line they are really nice people abhi toh they have just started from their different galaxies trying to look towards each other 😆

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

EnVee

The reasons are exactly right, adamant, career oriented, the marriage might not last, trying to forget him is going to kill her NOW, can u imagine how it would be if they shared joint custody? Seeing him weekly, knowing he is no longer hers... watching him get off the car with another woman? The other woman answering the phone when she calls for her child?

Weve clearly established that the physical aspect is very important to him, so he wont lead a celibate life, in fact she is sure THATS why hes even going to leave her. In such circumstances what a horror it would be for II to live with a younger version of the Rakshasan

Absolutely! That is why your story is interesting. It has too many variables. Potentially explosive variables. 😆 Add to it an emotional but ambitious II and a pushy, I dont-care really R&B.

The silver lining is that they both are fundamentally drawn to be nice people, irrational during outbursts, but caring and sensitive ones. And they like each other to no end. So despite the rocky journey, I would bet that they will be together, solving their life problems using whatever means possible. 😊

Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl

yup R&B does behave like a horrible dude in anger several instances - not calling after engagement, not complimenting her for her dance, letting her sleep alone.

these 2 have miles to go before they hit the common ground and R&B is totally living in some lala land 😆
e thihnks he can go to Paris , II will have 3 kids and live alone in that huge house with minion and FIL kuch bhi kya 😆😆

and II lives with these insecurities but this is what makes it interesting because bottom line they are really nice people abhi toh they have just started from their different galaxies trying to look towards each other 😆

Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl

I havent yet read the other comments
Security & Rules

Some of the things i liked about this update:

1) Breakfast with Ranjan 😳
She took coffee for Ranjan... he was just waking up
"See, BAHU wakes me up, this is no less than lottery for me betaji" He took her coffee
2) Her packing his bag and writing the note ( I would never do it ..😉)

Why would i not do it :)
1) Because R&B behaved like a jerk 😡 I gushed for 2 updates but i didnt like what he did.

How can he let his beautiful wife sleep alone in the sun room sooo not done..when she hugged him and told him to not leave her .. this is so not done.
I cannot sleep alone in my bed post marriage , i had a room in my house before marriage i could sleep their alone but post marriage i cant , when my husband travels my kids know they have to sleep with me.before kids i went to my friends house and we did a GNO sleepover. So this was plain wrong.
He has this huge house .. why does he have to drive out couldnt his partners come home

2) Next the kid issue - I am totally totally with II on this everything she said is true.. When i moved from Bay area to boston and then was searching for a job and doing my masters in Boston I was also 4 months pregnant i hid the fact and got the job .. I am 1000% sure if they knew they wouldnt have hired me.
This has come hard for II , double masters,CPA and now a deployment manager so wanting some career is right she should be ready for a kid a Mulcha Marg dude going abroad for vacations will never understand that.
Will he promise to be home everyday after 5 and watch the kid in the night.
A woman needs to have the freedom to decide when to have a kid and upto 35 is perfectly fine to finish both kids.
if you wanted kids before a girl is 30 marry a 22 year old 😆.
Of course she has every right to fear what if her child is like perippa , her parents didnt want her.
Its obvious she loves kids but she is going to need some time and R&B needs to give her some time and trust her and not keep poking at the one area that riles her up.
Would he like it if she kept asking how did ur mom die or what was the scandal or why Manny is this jerk no right ..

Dekha this update jagoed the #feminist in me 😆😆😆

Originally posted by: Ashu25

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yesterday morning page 106 i wrote
I havent read the comments yet thought will pen this one down

Icecream Aandolan (R&B gush 😳)

The only thing i want to do for this post is gush over this wonderful creation called R&B(Raman post marriage).
Each update starting the wedding prep i am just plain adoring him , update after update i really really admire him more ..
One day its the way he hugs her in front of family,another the way he eats , another the way he comes looking for black coffee the list is endless so here are some icons for him:
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I adored the way he didnt care about subbu or his mom, continued to hold her bags, give his cell phone just plain plain plain nicest /coolest guy ever.👏
Last update i loved the way he slept,ate (kheer and fed her icecream), asked her whats wrong,answered appas question,wanted to know small details ,how he hugs ,he is going to be her anchor for life . These 2 deserve all the happiness and thathasthu it is..😳

Everything about Sosy I find connections and like to talk about it so gush over appa/ranjan , find a bhalla for my daughter buuut now after my son is old enough i am going to make him read this so he becomes an R&B in "real terms" in essence .
Mere husband ka kuch nahi ho saktha 😆😆

and today about turn 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

EnVee

The reasons are exactly right, adamant, career oriented, the marriage might not last, trying to forget him is going to kill her NOW, can u imagine how it would be if they shared joint custody? Seeing him weekly, knowing he is no longer hers... watching him get off the car with another woman? The other woman answering the phone when she calls for her child?

Weve clearly established that the physical aspect is very important to him, so he wont lead a celibate life, in fact she is sure THATS why hes even going to leave her. In such circumstances what a horror it would be for II to live with a younger version of the Rakshasan