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"The handkerchief was passed tho FROM HER TO HIM... YESSS... FROM HER TO HIM Ahem!!"
Yes this had to happen..I was so sure it would be II giving the handkerchief...

This update was emotional nisha...loved how both ranjan and R&B were missing savvy..and R&B finding his ma in Amma..loved it totally...

R&B has to be the end of me yaar..I love d character

Beautiful Nisha. Especially the last part :')

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Swathi

Its HOW you take it

NO man wants to control dominate and suppress. They want a good marriage as much as you do. Havent met ONE foolish power hungry one like the feminists describe in the last 20 years, its a HUGE generalization to assume that men are out to destroy women's lives.
I know 10s of women though that have systematically ruined their marital life.


Its my personal opinion that 20 somethings, not all... but certainly many 20 somethings (not you at all) are TOO WRAPPED UP in their sense of academic and professional achievements. there is a certain hubris in their approach to marriage.

"Oh! I am too smart for any man"

"Oh! I am an over achiever I cannot cook"

"Oh I need a promotion so I will not have a child (II)

Men are CONSISTENTLY doing more, I married nearly two decades ago, my Mom married over 4 decades ago, my paatti married over 6? 8? decades ago
I have not heard of one marraige in the last 5 years where the man does not know how to cook or fold laundry or wash toilets.


There have been good and bad men in every era, men that contribute willingly dont have the urge to be Hitler, in fact 99% of them dont care to be Hitlers.
Many women I find are suddenly very unmanageable and prickly and unwilling to "give" and overcome with their sense of self.

Traditions have a reason, they dont apply 100%. Never did even 100 years ago kanna
So dont get caught up in that... Dont let feminists run over you with a 18 wheeler.

They derive orgasms from butchering men, some of us get it FROM MEN😆
(Sorry! no offence to feminists)

Originally posted by: Aksh14

Another WOW update Nisha Di..!

"Transfer of power" - The name itself oozes authority R&B has over II.
And the whole scene is just great! How intricately you have designed each and every moment! I'm in love with it! Engayo poitel pongo!👏
How II sees a sister in Sam.. How R&B sees a mother in Amma! They have truly trying to own each other's family!😳
II giving kercheif to R&B.. WW Unlimited me bhi she never fails to take care of him!😆
No more words to describe this emotional one!
The Maroon 9 yards and Iyer Mangalsutra!

OH MY GOD


THATS THE MOST BEUTIFUL PICTURE👏👏

PERRRFECT
Yes it has everything I described, and then the string of flowers

Well done👏

Originally posted by: swathi1990

This calls for a debate Nish ! I am in no support of feminists.. Infact I hate all this special women meetings / empowerment ...they are just BAKWAAS... They say that they wanted women to be treated equal but in actuality they themselves have no clue of wat they want...to be treated equal or to be treated like a god...Thats not wat I meant when I used the word feminist...

Oh I need a promotion so I will not have a child (II)

But wats really wrong in II / any girl thinking this way...I dont support all demands..But I feel that women have the right to make their choices /decisions as well... I am doing my PhD now...Ofcourse during paper deadlines I will be late home...I dont want a kid till I finish my PhD...wats wrong in thinking like that??? I am not being a feminist here..I am just being a person who follows my passion in life

I have a meeting in 8 minutes cant help but post lets not discuss this PLEASE PLEASE ..lets gush... over this brilliant update .. hate me for this but i dont want a debate i want to talk about him finding his ma and her finding her second family
I want to talk about every single ritual thats mentioned here

Originally posted by: Aksh14

Another WOW update Nisha Di..!

"Transfer of power" - The name itself oozes authority R&B has over II. (Authority here means R&B just has got what he wanted and II is officially his now...)
And the whole scene is just great! How intricately you have designed each and every moment! I'm in love with it! Engayo poitel pongo!👏
How II sees a sister in Sam.. How R&B sees a mother in Amma! They are truly trying to own each other's family!😳
II giving kercheif to R&B.. WW Unlimited me bhi she never fails to take care of him!😆
No more words to describe this emotional one!
The Maroon 9 yards and Iyer Mangalsutra!

I will run away now if any more debate ensues 😆😆

Originally posted by: swathi1990

This calls for a debate Nish ! I am in no support of feminists.. Infact I hate all this special women meetings / empowerment ...they are just BAKWAAS... They say that they wanted women to be treated equal but in actuality they themselves have no clue of wat they want...to be treated equal or to be treated like a god...Thats not wat I meant when I used the word feminist...

Oh I need a promotion so I will not have a child (II)

But wats really wrong in II / any girl thinking this way...I dont support all demands..But I feel that women have the right to make their choices /decisions as well... I am doing my PhD now...Ofcourse during paper deadlines I will be late home...I dont want a kid till I finish my PhD...wats wrong in thinking like that??? I am not being a feminist here..I am just being a person who follows my passion in life

I am going to assume you are unmarried ille? Otherwise apologies... II wants to postpone it for 5-7 years until she turns 35 36? I feel thats a tad unreasonable, or may be I want my leading lady to be unreasonable I dont know

I agree you should focus on what you want... and go after it, but also be WILLINGLY make changes, if you feel forced or pressured then its cracking up...
I am probably not doing a good job of making a point here may be... I find a certain stiffness in some 20 somethings about what THEY want.
They want a DDLJ/ Two States type picture perfect thing AND GET THEIR WAY

I just sense that men/boys/grooms are more flexible these days. More willing to collaborate, more willing to share and forgive and "give"

Originally posted by: swathi1990

wow !! cute saree...metti...sooo soo cute

That was simply beautiful.

Brings home how beautiful and enriching life can be if we all set prejudices aside and learn to look for and appreciate affection when we are blessed with it.

My heart went out to Appa it's hardest on them isn't it! Somehow moms always know the right thing to feel and say. Any wonder RnB saw his mom in Amma.

Heartwarming! 👏