Ishita can publicly beat Raman but he can't shout at Ishita - Page 9

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Posted: 10 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: mayu1982


Good decision Jaya - your guilt tour starts now and if you decide to leave this forum out of guilt then I will give you virtual pitai in the form of my love.. 😆🤣

I won't leave as long as u all are here 🤗
I am not coward 😎
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Posted: 10 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

I won't leave as long as u all are here 🤗
I am not coward 😎


🤗 Hum saath saath hai..
Yes even I am not..
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Posted: 10 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: smritishah

Well said. I guess none of them here who are justifying that act of Ishita ever knows the result of public humiliation.If a businessman like RKB faces humiliation publicly in real life from his wife, from the very next day he would go for a broke. Big businessmen is US became penniless in days for much less "nautanki".

Don't you know it's 7:30 pm slot where the female lead is the abla nari and all her idiotic actions will be termed as selfless and will be glorified. Since the time slot change, we all get to see the male lead is repenting and apologizing while the female lead is giving "bhaav" even though she was the one who started the fire first. You can assume from now on this is the formula CVs gonna follow in every upcoming track.



Originally posted by: mayu1982

@ Diya: Yes i understand what you are saying to say by comparing two different situations because both of them shows one only thing- DOMESTIC VIOLENCE...


IShita hitting RAMAN at airport scene was absolutely nonsense thing I have ever watched -- And above all characters supporting her actions actually amazed me..🤢Please don't even bother me by explaining her how good her intentions are and all that crap... Not interested ..

Now coming to back to yesterday episode-- whatever Raman did is wrong absolutely wrong.. And he deserves all types of bashing love😆( waise toh rozz milta hai but aaj toh extra love milega iss character ko).. There is nothing wrong in saying RAMAN IS WRONG ..

ISHITA galat thi and RAMAN galat hai Period.😃



Originally posted by: MonalSingh

Mujhe bhi kuch kehna hai...😆

It's very clear from the TM's post that she did NOT say that what Raman said to Ishita was right. She just questioned those people who who seemed to hold different approach for a common outburst. Raman was very wrong yesterday but so was Ishita at the airport. Don't tell me that lighthearted/comic relief crap. So I can say, CVs wanted to show an intense scene, so Raman uttered those words. This is not the way to analyze a character, it's kind of giving indemnity for your favorite one in the pretext of surfing around the creative liberties. And, I won't buy the reason that justifies this melodrama by saying it was an act of deep love and fear of losing someone you loved. Same can be then applied for Raman, na? He was also afraid of losing his son and vented his anger out on his love, Ishita.

No matter how one sees it, both the cases were unacceptable. If anyone feels the airport scene was okay but the yesterday scene was unacceptable, he/she is showing double standards. It's as simple as that. Bash me if you want for my opinion...mai thodi na care karti hu...😆



Three best replies. Hats off to you guys...👏👏👏



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Posted: 10 years ago
#84
There is lot of diff between ishu beating raman at the airport and raman yelling at ishu...
Ishu beat raman bcoz she was in fear of loosing by rkb stupid act of divorcing her for ishu happiness...

And here nobody is upset bcoz raman yelled at ishu as its not new but we are upset is about hi accusing her for the distance btwn him and his son...he accused her parenting and her selfless love for his kids...

I think there is lot of diff btwn the two scenarios...
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Posted: 10 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: DiyaRathore



I don't have an intention to make it a male lead vs female lead. But some people are taking it this way.

I'm not saying she doesn't have that right. What I'm saying is that if she can have that EXTREME right to beat him publicly, he also has the right to shout at her. If you are cool with first one then you should be okay with the second one too. Plz try to know the difference!



I am sorry but NO spouse ..NO spouse has the right to scream and shout and insult in front of others.

And when ishita ran after him in the airport, people supported her. You know why? Because everyone knew she wanted Raman back. In her life. As her husband.


The abovesaid in bold takes away ALL the things she did at the airport. As ridiculous as it may have been, she made it clear to Raman he was wanted and loved.

When Ishita was acting all jagat mata-ish, and did that stupid anniversary thing, did Raman shout at her for her stupidity in front of others? No na? He shouted at her and set her straight in the privacy of their bedroom and he was applauded for that.

No spouse, NO spouse I repeat has the right to demean the other and take away his/her dignity. However done.

Its not about right here. Its about WHAT and HOW the person is trying to achieve by doing the extreme.


And what Raman did? He was wrong. Clearly, he has the right to shout at her. He can shout at her whenever. But not Wherever.

Sabse badi baat, airport pe RAMAN ko koi problem nahi thi. USSE bura nahi laga, he was smiling and loving her attention (its not about viewers here, agar uss character ko hi bura nahi laga toh humein kyun lagna chahiye?)...but aaj? Ishita did NOT love what he did. Please try to know the difference.

There are BIGGER and serious things we should be upset about right now rather putting up with this comparison. Like gender discrimination, Raman's obsession with aditya, Toshi ji's unnatural love for her grandson, Shagun's emotional attack on her own son...etc...etc.



PS: I have absolutely NOTHING against the TM. I respect her opinions but mine are different.

PPS: This fight wont cease to exist if people just happen to make posts blindly in support of either of the leads.

This show is so beautiful BECAUSE of the leads. BOTH of them. I wish people could just appreciate whoever is right and criticize but NOT bash and crucify the one who is wrong.😊
Edited by arshi21 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#86
There has to be be sense or reason for shouting at someone, that too in front of ur family members. In this case, there was no need for him to get this hysterical and shout at Ishita specially for no reason or her mistake. Hence the difference.. this is my take on the situation, depends on case to case
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with the TM. Both the instances were wrong. It's funny that some people are saying one is right and the other is wrong... and they justified their stance by saying it meant love and shown for comic relief.

I guess they do NOT know the DAMAGE of public humiliation and its severe effects. It's good that a top businessman like Raman Bhalla hadn't faced it. But did Ishita think for once what could be the result of her idiotic move?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: DiyaRathore


Seems like U don't know the repercussion of public humiliation and obviously willing to stay oblivious.



She is his wife and was chsing him to bring him back and not drive him away! get the difference! Then they hugged! She had no choice but to do it in public, coz puttar was running away from her and playing pakda pakdi! 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pooja_Chavan

I agree with the TM. Both the instances were wrong. It's funny that some people are saying one is right and the other is wrong... and they justified their stance by saying it meant love and shown for comic relief.

I guess they do NOT know the DAMAGE of public humiliation and its severe effects. It's good that a top businessman like Raman Bhalla hadn't faced it. But did Ishita think for once what could be the result of her idiotic move?



She already got the result for her move- a warm hug from her husband in full public view. That was husband wife not CEO raman and Dentist ishita! Had she allowed him to run away for fear of creating a scene he wud have boarded the flight! END of YHM!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#90

Originally posted by: DiyaRathore


Seems like U don't know the repercussion of public humiliation and obviously willing to stay oblivious.

Ishita didn't beat him black & blue,she was hitting him with a single piece of paper.On the other hand Raman blamed her for not looking after Adi & accused her of driving Adi away.
Aur rahi baat public humiliation ki toh jab Raman sharab pk ghar ata hai,sadak pe tamasha karta hai,tab woh CEO nahi hota kya?

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