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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnr123

By ur logic then Should Ishita not stay with Raman if he has been bad on so many levels?

In marriage its not just about counting ur Spouse's mistakes but also standing up to his/her wrongs. N if for some reason it is beyond bearable for one of the spouse then divorce or seperation is a way out.

If Raman is a bad husband y is Ishita still bearing him? She is not just shown as compromising but enjoying staying with Raman, she herself admitted to it. Even Ishita has been wrong many a times where Raman has put up, she herself told this to Mani in one of the episode. This is what marriage is allabout.

If u think Ishita is the only one suffering here in marriage then, y should we really watch such regressive thing where Husbands r oppressing wife? I dont think so far CVs have shown something like that especially when Raman was taunting her n rude to her. But somewhere if he is rude, she needs to let him know that he cant talk non sense to her n respect her as a human being. Cvs have actually shown Ishita taking things from 12 year old Adi n Shagun - anything they say or do which is wrong she never objects.




To some extent I agree with you ...if you seen my old posts I have mentioned that Ishita should stand up for herself and shouldn't let Raman talk nonsense ...Ishita is at fault for not standing up but Raman was acting like a bully too

I have never supported Ishita's idea of celebrating anniversary nor will ever support such stupid acts but one cannot deny that her Mahaan acts has always been for Raman and his family ...her motive is Raman's happiness

I never said they should separate ...I am happy seeing them together but at the same time I am irritated when I se post praising how great husband Raman is and what a terrible wife Ishita is ...atleast in this track Raman is being very selfish ...he is stayin with his ex wife under same roof and doing nothing to solve the issue ..atleast Ishita is trying. ...till today Adi was not with him how does it matter if he gets a apartment next o his...but people claim him to be doing this for Ishita. ..which irritates me

Both are human and have done some mistakes...they are normal couple ...I am with this but I fail to understand why is Raman treated as victim in this track when he himself wants to stay with Adi and Shagun
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice entertainment post...
Btw if you are referring to Raman, than you will have to argue with Ishita on this matter... cause she called him a great husband, officially...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy


To some extent I agree with you ...if you seen my old posts I have mentioned that Ishita should stand up for herself and shouldn't let Raman talk nonsense ...Ishita is at fault for not standing up but Raman was acting like a bully too

I have never supported Ishita's idea of celebrating anniversary nor will ever support such stupid acts but one cannot deny that her Mahaan acts has always been for Raman and his family ...her motive is Raman's happiness

I never said they should separate ...I am happy seeing them together but at the same time I am irritated when I se post praising how great husband Raman is and what a terrible wife Ishita is ...atleast in this track Raman is being very selfish ...he is stayin with his ex wife under same roof and doing nothing to solve the issue ..atleast Ishita is trying. ...till today Adi was not with him how does it matter if he gets a apartment next o his...but people claim him to be doing this for Ishita. ..which irritates me

Both are human and have done some mistakes...they are normal couple ...I am with this but I fail to understand why is Raman treated as victim in this track when he himself wants to stay with Adi and Shagun


According to me neither Raman nor Ishita is a victim, but I still dont agree to some things that u pointed out that are wrong with Raman.

I agree with things that Raman is wrong in being rude or taunting Ishita or even when he manhandled her. N now he is wrong in keeping Shagun home. Rest all i dont think he is wrong.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjs

Nice entertainment post...

Btw if you are referring to Raman, than you will have to argue with Ishita on this matter... cause she called him a great husband, officially...


Glad to know a that atleast someone got some kind of entertainment because of my post

If we go by that logic ,then if you disagree then you need to argue with Raman who had himself admitted how wrong he was in taking Ishita for granted
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well, get ready for Ishita's long lecture then. JM Ishita herself confirmed that Raman is the best husband in the world. And if you wanna know how it feels being at the receiving end when JM lectures, just ask Ashok. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy


Glad to know a that atleast someone got some kind of entertainment because of my post

If we go by that logic ,then if you disagree then you need to argue with Raman who had himself admitted how wrong he was in taking Ishita for granted


I didn't admit to either agreeing or disagreeing 😛

Nor I want to argue with raman for anything... if he admits he is wrong then why will I argue with him forcing him to be correct...

I am just stating a fact that Ishita said Raman is a great husband and this post is questioning the definition, so in short you are questioning her statement bt him being great... and since you are Ishita loyalist, you questioning her statement was a surprise for me 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjs


I didn't admit to either agreeing or disagreeing 😛

Nor I want to argue with raman for anything... if he admits he is wrong then why will I argue with him forcing him to be correct...

I am just stating a fact that Ishita said Raman is a great husband and this post is questioning the definition, so in short you are questioning her statement bt him being great... and since you are Ishita loyalist, you questioning her statement was a surprise for me 😊



Firstly I am not Ishita's loyalist or anything. ...well Ishita is not always right and I have been saying this for a long time too ...and some of her statements too ;)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy



Firstly I am not Ishita's loyalist or anything. ...well Ishita is not always right and I have been saying this for a long time too ...and some of her statements too ;)


Whenever i read your comments, you were defending all things Ishita... name calling people just cause they found some faults with Ishita... so this is another surprise that you accept that she can be at fault too

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjs


Whenever i read your comments, you were defending all things Ishita... name calling people just cause they found some faults with Ishita... so this is another surprise that you accept that she can be at fault too


This shows how much you have read my comments if you want to judge someone atleast do your homework . ...yeah I answer people in their own language and I don't think I need to defend myself here...when people don't have something to say they come with such crap and later expect decency from other people...heights
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Megher_Palok

1. His wife was the one forced him to go, as SHE thought the pervert ashok is doing INJUSTICE towards a POOR woman (my foot) and all this can affect his son's future.

2. One who and his family was forced to go at his ex-wife's marriage cos it was his WIFE'S demand.

3. Also one who stood in front of society to support his drunkard wife, while that WIFE left him on d floor.

4. One who fulfills every pathetic wishes of his wife without uttering a word.

5. One whose current WIFE brings and lies her SAUTAN on their marriage bed without even asking him and he has to keep mum.

6. One who had started passing judgemental comments on him even before knowing him.

7. One who understands the difference b/w a 30 years old criminal, 25 years old criminal and a 11 years old criminal.

Even Indian law differ among adult criminals and child criminals, or else there would've been headlines like "12 years old announced hang till death". No?!!

8. one whose wife suspected him at d first place even after he clearly said, whatever he's doing is for his son.

9. there's a huge difference b/w hug someone who's emotionally vulnerable, carry someone who's been unconscious in fire and hug someone to say OH YOU'RE MY HERO, I LOVE YOU.
10. One who uses husband's unconditional love, trust to make him do things he's not willing to.


11. One whose wife enjoys seeing him in pain, but he uses fake confess to minimize her pain.

12. One his wife, with her best friend broke him to d end.

13. The WIFE really does things unbearable for any human.



PS... just in case thought you had missed some selective sections of the show.

PPS. Not gonna reply to d replies cos those who understand will understand d facts^^.


WELL SAID 👏👏

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