By ur logic then Should Ishita not stay with Raman if he has been bad on so many levels?
In marriage its not just about counting ur Spouse's mistakes but also standing up to his/her wrongs. N if for some reason it is beyond bearable for one of the spouse then divorce or seperation is a way out.If Raman is a bad husband y is Ishita still bearing him? She is not just shown as compromising but enjoying staying with Raman, she herself admitted to it. Even Ishita has been wrong many a times where Raman has put up, she herself told this to Mani in one of the episode. This is what marriage is allabout.If u think Ishita is the only one suffering here in marriage then, y should we really watch such regressive thing where Husbands r oppressing wife? I dont think so far CVs have shown something like that especially when Raman was taunting her n rude to her. But somewhere if he is rude, she needs to let him know that he cant talk non sense to her n respect her as a human being. Cvs have actually shown Ishita taking things from 12 year old Adi n Shagun - anything they say or do which is wrong she never objects.