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Posted: 10 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

That's some insightful analysis.. I haven't seen it this way at all.. now it makes me want to go back and revisit those scenes.. Great job.

I would say this if the cvs wanted to put it this way.. They needed to make it less cryptic .. Maybe a monolgue or some kind of talk Atleast with raman would have made it clearer.

Kudos to you for looking into this episode positively and sharing it with us. It is much needed.
And thanks for the shoutout .. And inspiring some positive thoughts wrt the episode 🤗

Thank you so much for your reply..But you r my only inspiration.This is true from my heart...and thanks to my mom..as she is watching with me..I said Ishita is JM,devi..my mom is said that what will ishita can do..Everyone in her shoes with a heart will do that..Remember ishita is such character,married a man who she hates him for sake of a little girl..to provide a secure environment..Adi clearly taunted her ..about happiness,earrings..she would have scolded him or makes him understand..but he is a typical kid with some mental issues..so she handled with care..after his taunts how can she wear them..one or other day..she has to give them to adi..as they r passed onto generations..so she gave them for his happiness..ishita very cleverly handed that situation..Now i am 200% sure she never let raman go...😊
BTW..i am a selfish person..I saw your post..i don't want to miss your posts..and beautiful collages..thats y i understood and analysed the episode..😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
#12

Raman clearly looked uncomfortable during the whole episode, but I only wished he walked away or put his foot down. Celebrating anniversary with ex-wife for "adi ki liye." I do not want to say anything else because Gravity has said everything beautiful. This serial has stooped so low for the sake of drama, that I won't be surprised if adi demands his parents sleep in the same room.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: luvabhiya9

i liked d epi dear..not as bad as i thought...d forum is filled wid negativity..Thanks for piyu97...loved her analysis..after reading her post..i went to online and watched d entire episode...she is absolutely right..

In d prevs epi..adi taunted ishita..how she has taken his moms house,earrings..etc..if adi is lik ruhi..she will xplain him wid love..if shravu..den she will scold him and tell him wat is rigt nd wrng..he is his stepson.nd his husband loves him unconditionally .nd she understands that he hates her immensely...she think about raman words...

so many after watching olv of ishra dance..fans r not enjoying bcoz of what they showed in today's episode..so thought of making a post as what i felt..

first coming to photosession..piyu97 clearly analysed it..ishita noticed dat adi wants his mom...so she askd shagun to join..nd clearly mentiond dat she wants a pic of adityas mom and dad..but not raman and shagun...she took the pic in ramans phone..not in d family photo..when d family pic comes..she cleverly kicked them out...

Next ashok taunting ishu...she said shagun is important..bcoz..once she was raman's wife but now she is his childrens mom...some other soap quotatn..talak pati patni ka hota hai..maa baap ka nahi...ishu is not stupid..infact shaggy is stupid..ishu said she has full trust on her husbnd..he didn't say d three magical wrds..but the vows he made to her..increases her trust more...nd bcoz of dat only she clearly taken that step..

The dance...i enjyd d dance...dey looked more divine..note it is a couple xchange dance..so whoever comes dey hav to dance..she is comfortng his son...she wanted to remove negative thinking from her husband's childs mind...shaggy is happy while dancing as if she is going to win..but she will come as the ultimate loser..

Then The New year celebrations..it dissappointed me...ishu will b d first to wish raman..but shaggy did it..sharams anniversary on 31st..but celebration happened on next day...i thinked about it..then understood the clever move of ishita..raman celebrated that day as their anniversary...she brought the cake the next day..and mentioned dat it is adithya's parents anniversary...31st is sharam ani..but ishra celebrated..coming yrs also dey will celebrate..sharam is never in d picture..she celebratd nxt day as adi's parents ani..means sharam as no relatnship..but dey startd other relatn as adis mom nd dad..clever move by cvs i say...

so finally the khandani ear rings...i felt bad..but again thougt about it..these r khandani earrings..dat r to b passed to generations...ishu will b hav dat for 10 yrs or max 15yrs..remember she knw dat she wont conceive..so as when adi gets married she has to pass dem...so she gave them to his mom but not shagun..after he insultd her for earrings.how can she will keep with her.whenever she sees dem..she reminds his wrds nly..she is confidant..that raman and her relationship is more dan those things...

raman gavr dem to shaggy with left hand.😆.shagun is overwhelming wid joy dat she is going to win..but she is d most dumb vamp on earth..😆

Raman kumar bhalla is the man..every women wants .first look at his loyalty..when he married to shagun ..he is so loyal to her..when she left him..he didnt look at another women..after he married to ishu...d sam loyalty continues..he never thinks of another women...

I am sorry if u don't like this post..i rarely posts..but as d forum is full of sadness and r not able to enjoy coming ishra romantic dance as we saw in olv...i came with this post..after watching new olv..i enjoyed their romance..so many r not bcoz of this episode..

After today's epi i am more confidant that she never leave raman for any one..

Thanks to Gan Barun..she is the one person who makes the episodes more beautiful with her collages..and the worst episodes even more beautiful with her analysis...By reading her posts only...i am able to think in her way..


P.S. No bashing plz..if u liked it hit like button..but no bashing plz..


I'd like to put forth a real-life example before everybody here..
Take the case of Saif Ali Khan and his divorce with Amrita Singh...they divorced almost a decade ago..when his kids were prolly the age ADI is now...younger, I believe..but they dealt with it FINE naa...im sure SAIF has been a part of his kids's growing up years, education, well-being, et al. but does that mean he stopped living his life? Didnt he MOVE ON? Heck...His daughter SARA even attended his marriage with Kareena!!

Dont tell me the kids wont have gone thru a hard time...of course they wudve...but they dealt with it okay..i dnt mean to demean children facing the consequences of a divorce between their parents...all I wish to say is..Adult people do not have to KILL their soul to PLEASE their children...You do the best for them..in ur power...but u also understand that isnt the ONLY relationship in the world!

Im glad u posted an alternate analysis...love the debate..

good job
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Posted: 10 years ago
#14
Excellent post gravity!
Ishita understands that Adi needs professional help yet sends them to a counselor who suggests that Adi needs to feel he has parents. That doesn't require indulging one parent to appease the child while Ishita directs and Raman follows her lead. He was once an involved father and understands Adi far better than Ishita could at this point.

Btw, insecure child or not, Adi recycling Shagun's nonsense and dishing it to Ishita is expected given he's holding a lot of rage in him, but why did Ishita let him get away with speaking that way to her? Adi has never had boundaries in his life...whatever Adi wants he had to get and Shagun has raised a kid with much the same expectations she has of life...what Shagun wants she must have. She left Raman and now claims she rightly deserves Raman who was taken away from her by Ishita and Ashok who was taken from her by Mihika. Looks like all she wanted was a man with a hefty bank account ready to indulge her dream lifestyle.

It's children like Adi who messed up emotionally as he is with all that rage roiling within him who in the long run could become a threat to society if he's not denied a thing or two and shown that he needs to adapt to living within boundaries and that the world doesn't revolve around him. At this rate he's a narcissistic sociopath in the making without proper intervention.

Adi living with his father's extended family is being given a chance to feel secure in that he has a roof over his head and his basic needs met for a start. Ishita going out of the way to give into Adi's every whim just to make him feel secure even when he's downright rude and obnoxious doesn't help him one bit. In fact, it might reinforce his expectations of getting what he wants when he wants it delivered to him every time.
Edited by MERARAI - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: luvabhiya9

Thank you so much for your reply..But you r my only inspiration.This is true from my heart...and thanks to my mom..as she is watching with me..I said Ishita is JM,devi..my mom is said that what will ishita can do..Everyone in her shoes with a heart will do that..Remember ishita is such character,married a man who she hates him for sake of a little girl..to provide a secure environment..Adi clearly taunted her ..about happiness,earrings..she would have scolded him or makes him understand..but he is a typical kid with some mental issues..so she handled with care..after his taunts how can she wear them..one or other day..she has to give them to adi..as they r passed onto generations..so she gave them for his happiness..ishita very cleverly handed that situation..Now i am 200% sure she never let raman go...😊
BTW..i am a selfish person..I saw your post..i don't want to miss your posts..and beautiful collages..thats y i understood and analysed the episode..😊


I DOUBT THAT..she is SO obsessed over ADI, if the child comes up crying in front of her, begging for his "parents" to be together..she's give up...she'd leave..we r UNDERESTIMATING the MOTHER in her...she is MORE a mother THAN a wife..and am telling u, ANY GIVEN DAY...she will sacrifice being a wife for the former role...Rem how that kid Anjali in Kuch Kuch Hota Hai shed buckets of tears and begged Salman not to marry Kajol...HECK, even GROWN MEN cant resist a crying kid..u think Ishita can???

And even if SHE doesnt leave Raman, whats the guarantee Raman wouldnt LEAVE HER??
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Posted: 10 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: gravity23


I'd like to put forth a real-life example before everybody here..
Take the case of Saif Ali Khan and his divorce with Amrita Singh...they divorced almost a decade ago..when his kids were prolly the age ADI is now...younger, I believe..but they dealt with it FINE naa...im sure SAIF has been a part of his kids's growing up years, education, well-being, et al. but does that mean he stopped living his life? Didnt he MOVE ON? Heck...His daughter SARA even attended his marriage with Kareena!!

Dont tell me the kids wont have gone thru a hard time...of course they wudve...but they dealt with it okay..i dnt mean to demean children facing the consequences of a divorce between their parents...all I wish to say is..Adult people do not have to KILL their soul to PLEASE their children...You do the best for them..in ur power...but u also understand that isnt the ONLY relationship in the world!

Im glad u posted an alternate analysis...love the debate..

good job

Thank you for your reply..logic is missing..by seeing olv..i thought to skip the episode..and also convinced myself to not to watch YHM anymore..but started watching for ishra dance only...I think the worst of the epi after watching olv..so i prepared myself...I keep low expectations frm the epi..thats y i liked it..it is not that bad i thought as..Ya ishita did some things..she haven't to..but she keeps in mind his mental situation..that stupid councellor advised them..otherwise she won't do it to please him..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: luvabhiya9

Thank you so much for your reply..But you r my only inspiration.This is true from my heart...and thanks to my mom..as she is watching with me..I said Ishita is JM,devi..my mom is said that what will ishita can do..Everyone in her shoes with a heart will do that..Remember ishita is such character,married a man who she hates him for sake of a little girl..to provide a secure environment..Adi clearly taunted her ..about happiness,earrings..she would have scolded him or makes him understand..but he is a typical kid with some mental issues..so she handled with care..after his taunts how can she wear them..one or other day..she has to give them to adi..as they r passed onto generations..so she gave them for his happiness..ishita very cleverly handed that situation..Now i am 200% sure she never let raman go...😊
BTW..i am a selfish person..I saw your post..i don't want to miss your posts..and beautiful collages..thats y i understood and analysed the episode..😊


Alright, DONT wear them..but atleast CARE to talk it out with ur husband? Or Toshi ji, whos the predecessor of the family treasury??

How can u JUST GIVE IT TO UR HUSBAND like that, and ask him to hand it over to hs EX-WIFE? Had she told Raman abt it, am sure, Raman would've sat ADI down and and explained things to him...I distinctly rem Ranbir Kapoor from YJHD, where he doesnt get along well with his Step-mom (Tanvi Azmi)..and its accepted and understood by BOTH the parents...its inevitable..u just might nt be best frnds with ur step-mom..and thats all right...but u can be cordial..and as a step-mom u dnt need to over-indulge ur step-child either...Tanzi AZMI maintained that balance beautifully..caring without being oberbearing, sacrificial, itrusive...and even Farookh Sheikh wasnt asking his wife to step down and molly-coddle his son. That's how REAL relationships are.

This IshRa- ShaRam nonsense..sadly..isnt...

Hope I didnt hurt u..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice positive positive post Luv...i know that every body of us are agianst ishita's act its not because of the anniversary celebration or giving away ear rings but its becoz she is confusing adi more yaar...today she celbrated the aniversary but at the end of the day ishita is raman's wife not shagun and adi has to accept it even if its bitter bcoz accepting truth will only cure his problem not the bloody assumptions of having his mom and dad united...i know whatever adi is doing is bcoz shagun poisoned him but do u really think that a kid of 12 yrs really dont have sense to understand the situation...last 6 yrs he saw shagun and ashok romancing but suddenly he has problem with ishita yyy...
U know shagun and ashok tried to manipulate ruhi also last year this time but she dint bcoz she dont want any materialistic love...she only wanted her dad and ishima's love rest all dint matter to her...but adi...even he was manipulated at the same age and he got also bcoz somewhere he is like shagun who wants materialistc love...if u remember ashok and shagun kept him in boarding and even after coming also they were least bothered about him but he was happy bcoz he used to get everything by money but now as he dont have money to get things he is realizing the importance of love and he wants love from his dad...but till now he used to hate him but now he wants his mom and dad together wow...this kid is very smart...come on who can taunt ishita and behave normal in front of family needs all this sorry i cant support that...

Ishita is really a gud character but cvs have butchered her...she being a doctor she is behaving so insensitive towards adi...it is really harmful for adi in long run...

A kid like Adi needs reality check thats it instead of illusions...

Sorry of my ranting just went with the flow...

I respect ur opinion and its just my POV...😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: shanry


I guess the question I'm asking is, was that really Ishita's doing or Raman's insistence? Seemed more like the latter to me.

first they took a family pic with adi..then shagun came..ishita took a pic frm raman's phn..of three of them...she can also stand besides raman in dat family pic with shagun..but shagun is nowhere in that family..but adi is his son..so she didn't stand in that photo..after that they pose for a family pic...ishita's or raman's insistance..ignore that...so that we can enjoy coming ishra's scenes..😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lata_ishra

Nice positive positive post Luv...i know that every body of us are agianst ishita's act its not because of the anniversary celebration or giving away ear rings but its becoz she is confusing adi more yaar...today she celbrated the aniversary but at the end of the day ishita is raman's wife not shagun and adi has to accept it even if its bitter bcoz accepting truth will only cure his problem not the bloody assumptions of having his mom and dad united...i know whatever adi is doing is bcoz shagun poisoned him but do u really think that a kid of 12 yrs really dont have sense to understand the situation...last 6 yrs he saw shagun and ashok romancing but suddenly he has problem with ishita yyy...

U know shagun and ashok tried to manipulate ruhi also last year this time but she dint bcoz she dont want any materialistic love...she only wanted her dad and ishima's love rest all dint matter to her...but adi...even he was manipulated at the same age and he got also bcoz somewhere he is like shagun who wants materialistc love...if u remember ashok and shagun kept him in boarding and even after coming also they were least bothered about him but he was happy bcoz he used to get everything by money but now as he dont have money to get things he is realizing the importance of love and he wants love from his dad...but till now he used to hate him but now he wants his mom and dad together wow...this kid is very smart...come on who can taunt ishita and behave normal in front of family needs all this sorry i cant support that...

Ishita is really a gud character but cvs have butchered her...she being a doctor she is behaving so insensitive towards adi...it is really harmful for adi in long run...

A kid like Adi needs reality check thats it instead of illusions...

Sorry of my ranting just went with the flow...

I respect ur opinion and its just my POV...😊

Thank you for your reply dear..the cvs want high trps..so some logics r missing..I want ishita to find out the truth behind adi's behaviour asap...once she find out she no longer give into his demands..i guess..hope cvs give a proper closure to their tracks..

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