Originally posted by: luvabhiya9
i liked d epi dear..not as bad as i thought...d forum is filled wid negativity..Thanks for piyu97...loved her analysis..after reading her post..i went to online and watched d entire episode...she is absolutely right..
In d prevs epi..adi taunted ishita..how she has taken his moms house,earrings..etc..if adi is lik ruhi..she will xplain him wid love..if shravu..den she will scold him and tell him wat is rigt nd wrng..he is his stepson.nd his husband loves him unconditionally .nd she understands that he hates her immensely...she think about raman words...
so many after watching olv of ishra dance..fans r not enjoying bcoz of what they showed in today's episode..so thought of making a post as what i felt..
first coming to photosession..piyu97 clearly analysed it..ishita noticed dat adi wants his mom...so she askd shagun to join..nd clearly mentiond dat she wants a pic of adityas mom and dad..but not raman and shagun...she took the pic in ramans phone..not in d family photo..when d family pic comes..she cleverly kicked them out...
Next ashok taunting ishu...she said shagun is important..bcoz..once she was raman's wife but now she is his childrens mom...some other soap quotatn..talak pati patni ka hota hai..maa baap ka nahi...ishu is not stupid..infact shaggy is stupid..ishu said she has full trust on her husbnd..he didn't say d three magical wrds..but the vows he made to her..increases her trust more...nd bcoz of dat only she clearly taken that step..
The dance...i enjyd d dance...dey looked more divine..note it is a couple xchange dance..so whoever comes dey hav to dance..she is comfortng his son...she wanted to remove negative thinking from her husband's childs mind...shaggy is happy while dancing as if she is going to win..but she will come as the ultimate loser..
Then The New year celebrations..it dissappointed me...ishu will b d first to wish raman..but shaggy did it..sharams anniversary on 31st..but celebration happened on next day...i thinked about it..then understood the clever move of ishita..raman celebrated that day as their anniversary...she brought the cake the next day..and mentioned dat it is adithya's parents anniversary...31st is sharam ani..but ishra celebrated..coming yrs also dey will celebrate..sharam is never in d picture..she celebratd nxt day as adi's parents ani..means sharam as no relatnship..but dey startd other relatn as adis mom nd dad..clever move by cvs i say...
so finally the khandani ear rings...i felt bad..but again thougt about it..these r khandani earrings..dat r to b passed to generations...ishu will b hav dat for 10 yrs or max 15yrs..remember she knw dat she wont conceive..so as when adi gets married she has to pass dem...so she gave them to his mom but not shagun..after he insultd her for earrings.how can she will keep with her.whenever she sees dem..she reminds his wrds nly..she is confidant..that raman and her relationship is more dan those things...
raman gavr dem to shaggy with left hand.😆.shagun is overwhelming wid joy dat she is going to win..but she is d most dumb vamp on earth..😆
Raman kumar bhalla is the man..every women wants .first look at his loyalty..when he married to shagun ..he is so loyal to her..when she left him..he didnt look at another women..after he married to ishu...d sam loyalty continues..he never thinks of another women...
I am sorry if u don't like this post..i rarely posts..but as d forum is full of sadness and r not able to enjoy coming ishra romantic dance as we saw in olv...i came with this post..after watching new olv..i enjoyed their romance..so many r not bcoz of this episode..
After today's epi i am more confidant that she never leave raman for any one..
Thanks to Gan Barun..she is the one person who makes the episodes more beautiful with her collages..and the worst episodes even more beautiful with her analysis...By reading her posts only...i am able to think in her way..
P.S. No bashing plz..if u liked it hit like button..but no bashing plz..
First, Thank You for bringing in a different perspective altogether.
Now, I'll start point-wise.
ADI has done MUCH worse to Ishita. He effectively landed her in jail, on accusations of child-abuse, and YET, Ishita forgave him, saying he is a child. But did she continue to remain in the jail and rot there, to cater to his needs? No na?? ADI was disturbed then..he is disturbed NOW. He needs love, and attention..but a firm hand too...
The kid is disturbed and was CLEARLY acting on his mother's provocation. Ishita is old enough to understand ADI would NEVER come up to her to say these things, UNLESS Shagun herself told him about it first-hand. So does that not reveal Shagun's real nature? After knowing his crafty mother is playing manipulative tricks on him, why did Ishita cave in? ADI isn the boss in Bhalla House..he's a child...HIS happiness doesnt depend on those crap earrings..his MOTHER's does..so simple so understand..and YET..Ishita didnt...NOBODY did. Disappointing.
ADI is NOT RUHI. He can NEVER be RUHI. We all know that. Had he been remotely like RUHI, he'd have responded to love and care better. RUHI, at her age, understands her parents better than ADI ever would.
I guess it isnt clever at all. Just a different way of putting things in perspective. Taking the trio in Raman's phone is a MORE intimate, personal act than getting a general Family Pic. SORRY to damper positive notions on this one, but Ishita didnt do it out of shy cleverness on her part. She did it SOLELY for ADI's happiness.
Trusting your spouse does not mean u will put him/her in embarrassing, uncomfortable situations..NOWHERE is she asking Raman..discussing things with him...only imposing...They arent the only couple in the world that divorced. Raman and Shagun will obviously be involved in their children's care...but with the Step-Mom around (read: Raman's current wife) soo much involvement of the ex-wife is unacceptable...and smells of fire in the next coming episodes...
Id' have believed Ishita more had she told ASHOK to his face, "We dont need to explain our family matters to you. You, who broke off a live-in relationship worth 6 yrs neednt talk about other ppl's marriages" That's it. The long-winded speech wasnt needed. It sounded fake..and tryig too hard to convince us.
What should she do next then? Send the trio off for a "family vacation" or a sleepover in Shagun's room to remove doubts from the child's mind?? You dont have to Mother Teresa to EARN a child's love duh! Your husband is an entity too..forget the child..he'll be cured if he sees his parents being cordial and if his vamp mother stops being a bitch..but WHY put Raman thru the grind and make him uncomfortable?? Its his PAST. And IMO, she is being VERY disrespectful abt it...there;s a LIMIT.
Sorry am being harsh..but there IS NO CLEVER MOVE on Ishita's part. If you call it "next day" going by technicality, then ideally, she spoiled the whole year ROTTEN by celebrating HER husband's WEDDING ANNIVERSARY with his EX on the first day of the year itself! Its over-sweetness, IMHO. Shagun may eventually be thrown out of the house..but all I demand is a NORMAL woman in Ishita...not this diabetes-inducing female lead who ALWAYS knws best..without an OUNCE of insecurity or uncertainty abt her..Raman might NOT have wanted to do it that way..he is the FATHER, goddamit...he can find out other ways of keeping his child happy
Ishita's HUSBAND gifted her those earrings..Whether she conceives a child or not, they are HERS rightfully..a spoilt disturbed brat of 12 mouthing things he desnt understand shud not have IDEALLY harangued her so much...she shud have just told RAMAN abt it..i dont care abt the earrings..i care abt the emotional value they hold..Shagun didnt look back once when she cheated on RAMAN and dumped him..what right does she have over those earrings ANYWAY??
For Ishita to HAND OVER those earrings to ADI's bride...another 20 yrs will have to pass..she cudve curbed her tendencies till then and kept it to herself..ADI wud not hav had fits if she had done that...Did Toshi ji keep the earrings with her when Shagun came? Nai naa..toh Ishita bhi wahi karti..but AISE MAUKE pe kya zaroorat thi earrings dene ki??
I dont see this as as glorified act. I see this as a stupid, dumb, insensitive act...with far-reaching consequences. Sometimes, you got to be SELFISH to prove your love to someone. Sometimes being too SELFLESS will send out the meaning that someone doesnt mean a thing to you. Ishita is NOT Clever. She is just An Adarsh Bahu stereotype who loves her husband...and trusts him implicitly...but does not put HERSELF first..EVER...That just boils down to this" That you GOT TO sacrifice and give up EVERY BIT OF UR HAPPINESS, if u expect to be loved by a man and his family. And I dont buy that. I dont buy into A-Woman's-Got-to-Put-Everything-On-the-Line approach..sorry
Maybe Ishita will win hands down. But at WHAT COST? And what preachy message? I would've preferred if Ishita would;ve acted a bit hesitant and indignant...and RAMAN assuring her that Shagun doesnt hold a candle to her..I'd have preferred it had she been suspicious of Shagun, which she rightfully shudve been...but she isnt..she's this EXTRA-CONFIDENT female who knws best all the time...feels she can see thru foul ppl like Shagun...it gets tiring...
HAD SHAGUN BEEN STAYING IN A DIFF FLAT, AND RAMAN WUD HAVE HAD TO RUN TO MEET ADI EVERY SECOND DAY, I'D STILL DIGEST IT...but the justifications for letting the vamp stay there and be a part of the family justlike before..is an insult to the past wounds of the family as a whole...
Sorry for the long rant. Had to reply to each point.
Edited by gravity23 - 10 years ago