Ishita selfish

I know most people here dislike Ishita for bringing Shagun in and other crap, but I disagree with her majorly, else where. I saw no topic on it, so wanted to post this and get it out of my system.

First of all its a show, so its not like I am loosing my sleep over it, but too much of such international display is hard to take.

I see her as some one who is always scared of Bhallas. For her its very easy to side with Bhallas and be Mahan. Be it Raman's rude behavior earlier, or Mrs, Bhallas behavior, or Romi's incedents or Simi and Param or Shagun or Adi etc etc. Its count goes on and on and your memory will fade, but its so hard to see constant good in Bhallas.

Ishita sided with Adi when he did accident.

Romi was forgiven for MMS, Bala's job, making a gil pregnant etc etc

Raman has been forgiven always no matter what he did

So is with Adi, no matter how rudely he behaves and how evil things he does its forgiven

Ruhi too every now and then with Shravan eventhough at fault forgiven.

Why all those people are forgiven and talked to calmly and why not see Mihika's pain?

Why Ishita Mahan is so ignorant about her own sister's pain? I have lost of regards for Vandu to understand and try to console the poor soul. Ishita just does the great job of being Mahan I guess for being accepted where she is not if she throws tantrums like everyone else. She is only accepted there is Mahan Ishita. If she was so Mahan why not understand her sister's pain and help her than accuse her and make it hard for her.

Also, I have seen her let Shravan down too. When ADi and Shravan were fighting it was clearly Adi's fault. Shravan didn't nothing, but stand up for him. If Ishita would have taken Shravan's side the whole Bhalla gang would have sat on her head. I feel Vandu and Bala have been way too gracious with this family. Shravan is younger than ADi and being hit by such and elephant its not easy to take. if things effect Adi so much, the wrong things constantly done to Shravn would hurt him too.

I hope Bala and Vandu keep their kids away from Ishita because she is one of those women who would do anything to please in laws. its like your family can be do anything, but mine has no rights

On the other hand Raman, the best CEO of the year can't afford a separate house for his ex if not son. He is very rich then why can't he do some kind of accommodation for his ex wife as some kind of alimony to raise his son. Even a Panwala or a Chaiwala or a street sweeper would do that for peace of mind if they were remarried and in love with their new wife. I understand he can't leave his criminal son, but can keep both the psycho mother and son separate and pay for expenses and look after their well being. There are many ways to do this, but the CVs seem to come from some kind of weird world. Or may be CVs have gone through such childhood where they have been either Romy, Raman or SUSU criminal son