Ishita is not going to lose (Edited) - Page 4

Awesome! This post was much needed. Hopefully, the dejected forum members will end the weekend on a positive note thanks to you 😊

Originally posted by: Colt.Pixy

awesome post lucky esp last point and first point and isn't it fake consolation that his parents are together ? why can't his father say that your father is married to another woman and you have to accept it on his face?

exactly giving false hopes to 11yr old kid who already under mental stress is not a,good thing. He will be more traumatised wen he comes to know the truth!

What will happen if ruhi wittneses shagun raman closeness!
Ishita should realise her mistakes now.
She playing with many lives now.
Only way she could understand is ruhi should distance herself from ishita as we know ishita is no more possessive abt raman n raman won't distance himself as he loves ishita a lot.. Only Ruhi can teach her a lesson.

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

Hi

I think we all agree that a lot of things that are being shown are simply to cater to drama and TRPs. So, for the purpose of this reply, I will choose to ignore that.

I do agree that this track is basically for Adi to reconcile his feelings towards his father and his family. There are 3 things that his brain has to process in parallel.

1) what his mother tells him about Raman & Ishita

2) What he feels about Ashok's rejection

3) What he sees in the Bhalla/Iyer family (love and a lot of love)

So, the ultimate goal of this track is for Adi to independently realise the truth of his father (& his family) and the bitterness of his mother. and to show that, the makers have to show Ishita being extremely good and Shagun extremely bad.

Also, I do agree with you that this track isnt about just challenging IshRa relationship, but it will eventually make it stronger. But, about the treatment they are giving to their relationship right now >> I agree with Kavi (Bruce_L) post about the husband-wife dynamics, so I won't repeat.

The peeves I have with this storyline and Ishita's selfnessness (which sometimes I think is extremely myopic)

1) I dont care if Shagun gets the wrong impression that she is winning Raman back. But somewhere, it could lead to Adi thinking the same. Although we all (the ever clever audience) know that good will prevail, how do we guarantee that Adi will not get more confused about his parents' relationship ?

2) Why isn't Ruhi around ? If, for the mental peace of a 11/12 year old, they have to put up an act; would it not traumatise/confuse the the other child in the house? She has half the mental capacity of her brother (I will ignore that they make her speak like an adult)... I understand she isn't in the party. But has anyone considered that she could start raising more questions about why her dad and Shagun mom suddenly seem pally pally?

3) I don't agree with you about the earrings. (i dont really care about the cake and the dance and all. they want TRPs. they will do anything for that)... But the earrings aren't just any gift. They have ancestral value. If not materialistically, they are traditionally important. The gestures that Raman made, and the symbolism of this particular gift was two-fold. He promised her his undying love/loyalty AND he declared her to be the most important person in his life. If I carry forward this symbolism, Ishita just hasnt given away the earrings, has she?

Originally posted by: Bruce_L

@clover

I didnt offend you or your point of you my dear.
And who am I to stop anyone from expressing their views in a public forum.
I posted my views here to just have a healthy discussion.
Thats it.😛

I agree to what that you said.
Ishu has her faults too and Raman loves her with all her faults.
I just wanted Ishu to accept this fact atleast in this track.

Raman alone is trying to save IshRa marriage now. He always does that TBH.
His efforts shouldnt go unnoticed. It is not too much to ask for.

Raman wholeheartedly accepts his fault and also the one which he hasnt done to please Ishu.
If she also does the same, it will look very good and we all can love IshRa without any complaints.

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ZD - I saw that. 😆

Originally posted by: anamika244

exactly giving false hopes to 11yr old kid who already under mental stress is not a,good thing. He will be more traumatised wen he comes to know the truth!

What will happen if ruhi wittneses shagun raman closeness!
Ishita should realise her mistakes now.
She playing with many lives now.
Only way she could understand is ruhi should distance herself from ishita as we know ishita is no more possessive abt raman n raman won't distance himself as he loves ishita a lot.. Only Ruhi can teach her a lesson.

Anamika ishu shuld realise her mistake.,.
About possessiveness was there at sanjana tym and airport tym but now she has trust,,,,
Bcoz everytime there is chance of her jealousy ,,, ishu try to suffer our RKB charms work and he assure his love...
What she is doing is wrong ,,, but this what she is ,she has done same for ruhi,,..
I know she is at fault and she will realize it sooner or later...
She is fool when it come about children .

Sensible. Agree. #accolades

Originally posted by: abha2701

Anamika ishu shuld realise her mistake.,.
About possessiveness was there at sanjana tym and airport tym but now she has trust,,,,
Bcoz everytime there is chance of her jealousy ,,, ishu try to suffer our RKB charms work and he assure his love...
What she is doing is wrong ,,, but this what she is ,she has done same for ruhi,,..
I know she is at fault and she will realize it sooner or later...
She is fool when it come about children .

Originally posted by: clover

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" color="#6600ff">Not offended at all.😆 Who knows? Maybe we are heading where Ishita finally realises what a big fool she is being regarding Shagun (which she should have done many hints and months ago)... but still😕 Sometimes I feel she is as confused as Adi is regarding Shagun.</font>

I feel she feels guilty bcoz ultimately mihku is her sister and shashok was going to married which was stop by mihika oversmart brain...

Originally posted by: abha2701

Anamika ishu shuld realise her mistake.,.
About possessiveness was there at sanjana tym and airport tym but now she has trust,,,,
Bcoz everytime there is chance of her jealousy ,,, ishu try to suffer our RKB charms work and he assure his love...
What she is doing is wrong ,,, but this what she is ,she has done same for ruhi,,..
I know she is at fault and she will realize it sooner or later...
She is fool when it come about children .

she trust him that he will save her so she will invite troubles!! Wen will she realise!?!! I seriously doubt that.

there is a long list of her mistakes. She needs a big jolt.

I know we will hv a positive outcm becoz writer has to show ishita as right in the end but approach is totally wrong.

Running around in airport looked like as if ego pe baat aagayi hw dare he leave me! Or else she would hv tried to know exact reason.from raman.for giving divorce!! . She didn't even ask?!

I cant justify her foolish acts saying kids r her weakness.. Arre weakness hai toh she Will ddestroy others life kya! Now playing with traumatized child sentiments is not a good thing . She is giving momentary happiness to him.
Later adi will be more broken.
..! Let it hv a,positive outcome not bothered but she is wrong.
Why is she dumb or foolish.. No reason for that?! She is not uneducated mentally retarted person to be get manipulated by someone.
Even not so intelligent person learns from experiences but she never seems to learn!!

Very unrealistic. Few things ishita did were Just pathetic.

U can disagree no worries:)

Great analysis and I do see that you are looking at ishita the same way the cvs are seeing her. Great job and I do agree with you.