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Posted: 10 years ago
#11
Nisha

Like to share one real story-

One aussie kid who must be 18-19 year old now. He is staying with his guardian. His guardian was ex-bf of his mom. They meet when his mom was dating this guardian figure. His mom was divorcee and due to some social contact they meet. So called during affair, his mom introduced this guardian to his son. Slowly both of them becomes friendly, spending time with each other. That time kid was 6 year old. After 6-9 months mom was not interested in this guardian so time for break up declaration. During that declaration, kid was shocked and shattered , he demanded to stay with this guy instead of his mom or his dad. And goes after him , Now he is with him only. He is very happy with his decision. So even in real life- kids are attracted towards love rather than biological factor. So why can't fictional character can be shown as this?

Adi mein accha kya hai? Ye nahi jaanti hoon but even he deserves another chance. Even he deserves to get good parents.

Ps. respect your views dear. No hard feelings. May be some other day we will agree on some other issue..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: momb24

I like your honesty on what your feel watching the epi .
I've not watched yet but i really don't mind adi being at ballas,it was bound to happen, execution is important here,hopefully they don't forget ruhi in all this.
What most people are annoyed with is how accommodating everyone is to shagun and no objection from raman,i actually would have liked it if ishra had a fight on this.
Cvs have slaughtered ishita character for a while and to add to it,they have made ishita take most of the blame for shagun entering ballas.


THANK YOU!!
I expected Ishita & Raman or atleast Raman to go meet with a Counselor or a Therapist or a Psychiatrist to explain what Adi has been going through and how traumatized he is in his current state and ask WHAT THEY SHOULD EXPECT having him at home

HOW they can ease him into the new life... WHILE trying to explore legal options of having him at Bhalla House permanently

I hoped they would show RAMAN taking the initiative to look for a place for Shagun, how ever bitter that thought it I expected him to find a place even in the ADJACENT BUILDING... and move Shagun out with Adi... if Adi will not stay without his criminal mentor of a Mom...

I wanted Raman to SAY "I WANT HER OUT OF THIS HOUSE, I have LIVED WITHOUT MY SON FOR 7 YEARS I CAN TAKE AN ANOTHER 6 MONTHS OR A YEAR WITHOUT HIM"

Or ATLEAST while the kid is at Bhalla house...I expected Raman to take the initiative in caring for Adi's needs... I expected Raman to CRAVE for Adi

When Adi did not live with Raman when Raman was single I FELT RAMAN'S PAIN after EVERY ENCOUNTER WITH ADI

NOW I FEEL RAMAN is more worried about romancing his wife... and doesnt even think or talk about Adi

I expect ISHITA TO TAKE A BACK SEAT, I understand she runs Bhalla House like its a corporation and SHE IS THE CEO but I expected her to take a back seat and LET THE BHALLAS TAKE CHARGE

THAT TWERP BELONGS TO THEM ANYWAY

Her presence is overpowering dominating, domineering and interfereing... SHE HAS NO CLUE HOW TO HELP A TROUBLED CHILD

She looks acts and speaks like an authority I DO NOT like that
Edited by Nisha0604 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Nisha


Like to share one real story-

One aussie kid who must be 18-19 year old now. He is staying with his guardian. His guardian was ex-bf of his mom. They meet when his mom was dating this guardian figure. His mom was divorcee and due to some social contact they meet. So called during affair, his mom introduced this guardian to his son. Slowly both of them becomes friendly, spending time with each other. That time kid was 6 year old. After 6-9 months mom was not interested in this guardian so time for break up declaration. During that declaration, kid was shocked and shattered , he demanded to stay with this guy instead of his mom or his dad. And goes after him , Now he is with him only. He is very happy with his decision. So even in real life- kids are attracted towards love rather than biological factor. So why can't fictional character can be shown as this?

Adi mein accha kya hai? Ye nahi jaanti hoon but even he deserves another chance. Even he deserves to get good parents.

Ps. respect your views dear. No hard feelings. May be some other day we will agree on some other issue..



Mayu,

NOT AT ALL I am not offended at all, I am a mother of two kids... I understand how kids receive nurture and love and protection, especially kids that dont get that from their immediate family... I know of kids in foster care, where both parents are in prison or dead... kids that have moved 5 or 7 times until they turned 18...

I want Adi to be forgiven, reformed and given a chance... but in his current state there is very little likeable about him, in my defense I will say its 50-50 partly because of the ROLE he plays partly because of HOW he plays it... he does not evoke ANY sympathy or compassion in me😲😭

LOVE will make everything better... ALL HE NEEDS IS LOVE mein main bilkul vishwas nahi karti thats too Hindi phillumi... "Pyaar sab kuch theek kar dega, Ishita ke pyaar ki zaroorat hai usko"

Thats BULL

The whole family loves him, his MOM does too... he was not ABUSED mentally or physically, emotionally yes he WITNESSED HIS MOM'S characterless ways but thats about it
The kid BY NATURE seems to be more easily influenced by crime and felony... SOME KIDS ARE that way... "Main pyaar se usko samjhaaongi, roz pancake khilaoongi" is not going to cut it😕

Being sugary sweet with him and being blindly ready to forgive him is NOT going to reform him
Hes a tough kid, hes made of steel... pyar se pighal jaayega is bull crap
He needs DISCIPLINE AND understanding... not just sugary love

Ishita should have said "Please dont talk to an adult like that"
Ishita should have reported it to Raman, instead she mocked him for being fat and asked him to play Santa "Sirf Adi ke liye"

Edited by Nisha0604 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi Nisha...
didnt watch the epi today, but loved ur review n got a gist of the epi...

counselling or therapy help for Adi is never gonna happen...that kind of logical things arent heard of in the cv land...

They are gonna show him reform this way only, with the love and pancakes of Ishima...one fine day, he will realize what a bitch his mother is, and open her secrets infront of all...

DT's dress is esp put together by the stylist...she was bragging bt it in one of the videos...the one without one sleeve :P
The shoes are her own though :D

I am still waiting for Mihika's plan, wrt to the oath she took yesterday, that, 'tumne yeh achchaa nahi kiya Ashok, mai tumhe chodungi nahi'
Did she do anything...any satryagrah, non-co operation movement anything at all ???


Edited by anjs - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjs

Hi Nisha...

didnt watch the epi today, but loved ur review n got a gist of the epi...

counselling or therapy help for Adi is never gonna happen...that kind of logical things arent heard of in the cv land...

They are gonna show him reform this way only, with the love and pancakes of Ishima...one fine day, he will realize what a bitch his mother is, and open her secrets infront of all...

DT's dress is esp put together by the stylist...she was bragging bt it in one of the videos...the one without one sleeve :P
The shoes are her own though :D

I am still waiting for Mihika's plan, wrt to the oath she took yesterday, that, 'tumne yeh achchaa nahi kiya Ashok, mai tumhe chodungi nahi'
Did she do anything...any satryagrah, non-co operation movement anything at all ???



THERE IS NOTHING TO IT Anju

Mihika Ashok I mean... its the most pathetic contract/blackmail marriage in my 20 years of soap watching...

Neither look convinced of it, their lines are horrible... Mihika has been SAYING "Dekh loongi tumhe" this exact same thing for 6 months now, she almost got raped, got married, and is about to get laid and she is STILL SAYING IT👏

Maybe the "morning after" they will show her shy with smudged sindoor and tousled hair and inverted mangal sootra and then she will say "DEKH LIYA AUR ACHHA BHI LAGA"🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@Nisha
I don't watch the show so shall not comment on the episode but I can tell you one thing - the concept of get psychiatric help does not exist
with these Cvs definitely NOT!!!

In fact the concept of using psychiatric help has been done very well by the show Nisha aur cousins another show very well. I am sorry to say but ekta cvs are not that evolved at all! There are shows on star plus that have nayi soch ekta cvs only have chothi soch!!!

Some of us may say you know india mei these things are happening but the point is that india mei these t.hings should stop happening

I want to share a personal story, I lost my fianc some time ago, and everyone everyone was hell bent on getting me married off as a solution to the issue , it broke my single mother's heart and everyone around me kept convincing how I should marry at least for her sake!!! I was frankly in some sort of depression to really understand what to do, until my bhabi and her family stepped in and funnily enough my mother's colleagues made me get psychiatric help to get over my depression

Things have changed, no one operates as sacrificial lambs now ya, people talk about issues, we confront it aise nahi ki one person says aise karo to sab wahi Karne lage Aisa kaha hota hai?? And mind you we are representing a typical joint family from non metro

Aur agar aise ho Raha hai, tho galat ho Raha hai
Edited by columbia - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: columbia

@Nisha

I don't watch the show so shall not comment on the episode but I can tell you one thing - the concept of get psychiatric help does not exist
with these Cvs definitely NOT!!!

In fact the concept of using psychiatric help has been done very well by the show Nisha aur cousins another show very well. I am sorry to say but ekta cvs are not that evolved at all! There are shows on star plus that have nayi soch ekta cvs only have chothi soch!!!

Some of us may say you know india mei these things are happening but the point is that india mei these t.hings should stop happening

I want to share a personal story, I lost my fianc some time ago, and everyone everyone was hell bent on getting me married off as a solution to the issue , it broke my single mother's heart and everyone around me kept convincing how I should marry at least for her sake!!! I was frankly in some sort of depression to really understand what to do, until my bhabi and her family stepped in and funnily enough my mother's colleagues made me get psychiatric help to get over my depression

Things have changed, no one operates as sacrificial lambs now ya, people talk about issues, we confront it aise nahi ki one person says aise karo to sab wahi Karne lage Aisa kaha hota hai?? And mind you we are representing a typical joint family from non metro

Aur agar aise ho Raha hai, tho galat ho Raha hai


C
Thank you for sharing your journey so publicly😭 I dont have the courage to share mine... not many do... I fully understand... I wont say "oh you poor thing"... I was told recently if you say that to someone that has faced a tragedy you are bogging them down... you are reducing their strength...destroying energy particles that helps them fight... so I wont...
Its not what happened to your life, its something that happened IN your life...

I realize there is a lot of stigma associated with seeking help for mental illnesses in India...😭

I bet Toshiji would burst an artery if someone told her "Adi needs professional help"😭

A friend's son has Asperger's in the Indian community only a handful of families know that... he is not 1% as criminal minded as Adi is... Adi is more than half way into becoming a felon

In real life he would need to be institutionalized after some serious crime...While I DONT agree with the West treating every disorder "clinically"... I also oppose the East treating everything as "Pyaar se sab theek ho jaayega"

YHM is a joke now...

I owe you another part of the FF... I better go write that instead of trying to deconstruct Adi...
Its a better creative outlet😛

Edited by Nisha0604 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nisha0604



Mayu,

NOT AT ALL I am not offended at all, I am a mother of two kids... I understand how kids receive nurture and love and protection, especially kids that dont get that from their immediate family... I know of kids in foster care, where both parents are in prison or dead... kids that have moved 5 or 7 times until they turned 18...

I want Adi to be forgiven, reformed and given a chance... but in his current state there is very little likeable about him, in my defense I will say its 50-50 partly because of the ROLE he plays partly because of HOW he plays it... he does not evoke ANY sympathy or compassion in me😲😭

LOVE will make everything better... ALL HE NEEDS IS LOVE mein main bilkul vishwas nahi karti thats too Hindi phillumi... "Pyaar sab kuch theek kar dega, Ishita ke pyaar ki zaroorat hai usko"

Thats BULL

The whole family loves him, his MOM does too... he was not ABUSED mentally or physically, emotionally yes he WITNESSED HIS MOM'S characterless ways but thats about it
The kid BY NATURE seems to be more easily influenced by crime and felony... SOME KIDS ARE that way... "Main pyaar se usko samjhaaongi, roz pancake khilaoongi" is not going to cut it😕

Being sugary sweet with him and being blindly ready to forgive him is NOT going to reform him
Hes a tough kid, hes made of steel... pyar se pighal jaayega is bull crap
He needs DISCIPLINE AND understanding... not just sugary love

Ishita should have said "Please dont talk to an adult like that"
Ishita should have reported it to Raman, instead she mocked him for being fat and asked him to play Santa "Sirf Adi ke liye"

I think the kid needs both a loving family (who disciplines him) n also some amount of counselling for his irrational behaviour shown before - accident n hand burning, he surely is turning into a criminal.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@Nisha - ur last line cracked me up Dog fight 😆🤣
Looks like she wore some western dress. 😛


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nisha hugs
Children who are mentally abused can be identified easily in fact as a dentist and a doctor, ishita should have been the one to say let's get psychiatric help!

On another note, maybe they will show that and as soon as we think something serious has happened they will show toshi do a break dance in the psychologist office


And yes absolutely FF likhe, yeh show tho gayi Bhais ki Tati mei!

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