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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy


Just like Ishita forced Raman to take Shagun home this time...he is not angry like last time ...such a great husband he is supporting his wife completely ...

Aree how can I say anything aganist innocent Raman who has been forced by his wife to take Adi and his mom home...tomorrow he will be again forced by Ishita to comfort Shagun


yes, you are right...unfortunately, till now havent seen any video where Raman has fed Shagun soup...or have tended to a drunk Shagun...

so again unfortunately, it brings our beloved Ishita dear, in the spotlight...also i havent seen one instance where she was asked to do it...forced, is a far off thing


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Thank you for saying that about Raman, I FULLY AGREE I HOPE HE will throw a BIG FIT refusing to bring Shagun home and ONLY agreeing to bring that lil twerp home

IF he happily brings Shagun home I plan to tear him to shreds on my Beat
BUT... THAT DOES NOT justify Ishita Bhalla de-licing Shgaun's hair, clipping her toe nails, feeding her soup and giving her a bath
I DONT think Raman demanded she do all that to Shagun at gun point
Ishita is SUPPOSED to be angry, resentful, bitter, cynical, negative, disgruntled, irritated, upset FURIOUS with Shagun for calling Mihika a s**t, and insulting the entire Iyer clan, and almost hitting Ruhi
Ishita doesn't have to display ALL the above emotions because Shagun DUMPED Raman, cheated on Raman, abandoned her six month old child for sex and money... I know she doesn't feel much for Raman
But ATLEAST for insulting the Iyer pride I expect her to show SOME SELF PRESERVATION traits😭 she DOES NOT have to degenerate into being Shagun's maid
Its NOT part of her marriage vows to Raman. Raman DOES not expect her to spoon feed Shagun take off her shoes, de lice her hair catch her alcoholic vomit in her own hands etc
Nope, he does NOT!
I will take everything back IF Raman forces Ishita to take Shagun home and FORCES Ishita to be her maid
I promise!


very well said *standing ovation* 👏👏👏

and i totally agree with insulting the iyer clan n calling Mihika a s**t thing... any normal person would be hell angry with such a woman...but i forgot Ishita isnt a normal person...she is a goddes re-incarnation...who is the mother of all humans...wait, doesnt that make Raman her son 😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: MonalSingh


Yaar..first you decide how you wanna typecast him---angry or docile. If he becomes angry on Ishita, you will say he's rude, insensitive towards Ishita. If he takes things calmly, he's not man enough!!
Bechara jaye to kaha jaye...😕
Just like, if he pays attention to his biwi he's desperate. If otherwise,he doesn't desire her...
Wah ji wah...😆😆


You are back 😉...

How can i decide what the great Raman Kumar Bhalla is ...meri itni himmat ...he is a innocent soul who hasn't done anything wrong in his life ...he is majboor baap ...When he taunts Ishita and calls her shit it's love ...when he ignores his wife for ex wife then he is majboor ...when he decides to throw her out of his life ...then he is in love...when he dances at Shagun's wedding then that should be ignored ...apologies if i have said anything aganist a innocent person...

Dont mix up things ...I never said he is desperate ...yes i do feel he doesn't desire Ishita as much as he desired Shagun at one point of time and i have even stated why i feel so ...what was that when he stopped kissing Ishita after initiating rain dance...what should i assume when he felt uncomfortable when Ishita hugged him after that park drama ..what should i assume when he keeps saying he is not bitten by mad dog to fall in love with her ...what should one assume when he gave weird expression during the end of Manva Lage song ?

Why am i even writing all this ...😆😆...
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Posted: 10 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: anjs


yes, you are right...unfortunately, till now havent seen any video where Raman has fed Shagun soup...or have tended to a drunk Shagun...

so again unfortunately, it brings our beloved Ishita dear, in the spotlight...also i havent seen one instance where she was asked to do it...forced, is a far off thing


Feeding soup is a maid's job ...Raman will comfort her by taking her in his arms ...and by extending his support ..that might include emotional ,financial and may be physical too

Correct me if I am wrong ...during accident track who was the one who was busy serving Shagun tea in hotel room and who was the one hugging Shagun to comfort her ...was it Ishita?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjs


very well said *standing ovation* 👏👏👏

and i totally agree with insulting the iyer clan n calling Mihika a s**t thing... any normal person would be hell angry with such a woman...but i forgot Ishita isnt a normal person...she is a goddes re-incarnation...who is the mother of all humans...wait, doesnt that make Raman her son 😉


I agree Ishita is not a normal person but what about Raman ?Is he normal ?

Jagat Pita doesn't mind helping his ex wife who betrayed him , poisoned his son ...used Ruhi during custody case...faked suicide drama...used abortion papers to defame him ...bad mouthed his wife and in laws...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: IshRaForever

Well after the airport scene, she slept on the bed with raman and ruhi. She actually has been sleeping on the bed with them the past couple of times we have seen a night scene. We will just have to see if this continues, which I think it will...come on they know each others feelings, lol. But in the OLV it is shown that she lets Shagun sleep there so idk where raman and ishita will sleep...maybe snuggled on the couch in the hall (which is too much to ask lol)



actually the thing is she always sleeps on the bed if ruhi is there!! started from that ishra dream seequence episode!! its only wen ru is not there she sleeps on the couch!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy


I agree Ishita is not a normal person but what about Raman ?Is he normal ?

Jagat Pita doesn't mind helping his ex wife who betrayed him , poisoned his son ...used Ruhi during custody case...faked suicide drama...used abortion papers to defame him ...bad mouthed his wife and in laws...


well, there are a lot of things that i can mention here, which shows that Raman never went out of his way to help Shagun...whatever he did was mostly for Adi...and Adi (if u dont remember) is his own son...so there is bound to be extra emotions involved there, which only a parent will understand...

and if you seriously feel That Raman helping Adi n indirectly Shagun is so bad, when they are actually related...then why dont you see that Ishita helping Shagun is so un-natural...no way is she obliged to help Shagun...m sure if she even says once that she is not comfortable tending to Shagun...the bhalla's will be happy to let go of Shagun...but the problem is that Ishita is a very un-natural person...she doesnt mind if someone insults her n her sister, n her parents...and that person is related to her husband's bad past...she will still go all out to help her...even become a door mat for that person to wipe their feet on...

and one more thing...blaming Raman is not gonna absolve Ishita of her flaws...

i know Raman is also wrong here...he shudve put his foot down, against getting Shagun here...he cud afford a hotel or a rental apartments...which foolishly he wont arrange...

but at the same time, u cannot deny that Ishita is doing something which isnt needed of her...she doesnt need to take Shagun to her own bedroom...she doesnt need to feed her...Neelu can do that...or best Adi can...she doesnt need to de-lice her...eeewww...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjs


well, there are a lot of things that i can mention here, which shows that Raman never went out of his way to help Shagun...whatever he did was mostly for Adi...and Adi (if u dont remember) is his own son...so there is bound to be extra emotions involved there, which only a parent will understand...

and if you seriously feel That Raman helping Adi n indirectly Shagun is so bad, when they are actually related...then why dont you see that Ishita helping Shagun is so un-natural...no way is she obliged to help Shagun...m sure if she even says once that she is not comfortable tending to Shagun...the bhalla's will be happy to let go of Shagun...but the problem is that Ishita is a very un-natural person...she doesnt mind if someone insults her n her sister, n her parents...and that person is related to her husband's bad past...she will still go all out to help her...even become a door mat for that person to wipe their feet on...

and one more thing...blaming Raman is not gonna absolve Ishita of her flaws...

i know Raman is also wrong here...he shudve put his foot down, against getting Shagun here...he cud afford a hotel or a rental apartments...which foolishly he wont arrange...

but at the same time, u cannot deny that Ishita is doing something which isnt needed of her...she doesnt need to take Shagun to her own bedroom...she doesnt need to feed her...Neelu can do that...or best Adi can...she doesnt need to de-lice her...eeewww...


I partly agree with what you said about Ishita ...I wont blindly justify her actions of taking care of Shagun ..she was wrong but if Raman's actions are justified that he is doing it for his son then some of Ishita's actions can also be justified that she was doing for her step son who is close to Raman's heart...but i agree she sometimes over does things and I am not gonna deny that but Raman unknowingly expects the same from her ...he expected her to be selfless when he announced his family picnic ...he expected her to selfless when he was seen outside hotel with Shagun in his arms ...he thanked her when she saved Adi from court case ...he still meets Shagun for whatever reasons and expects her to be ok with it ...dont you think he is silently supporting her and expecting her to be selfless when it suits him...

Every action of Raman cannot be justified as Adi ke liye ...i understand he was concerned for his son but for saving his son he didnt have to agree to whatever Shagun said ...he didnt have to serve her tea in a hotel room or accept his son's unreasonable demands or silently listen to Shagun when he called Ishita barren ...Adi is important is Ruhi and Ishita not ...did he dance at the wedding for Adi ?Did Adi ask him to do it ?

Even after knowing what his son did to his wife he easily forgave him ...Ishita decided not to take the case to court ...but did Raman do anything after that to teach his son a lesson instead thanked Ishita and silently supported her selfless act?That kid and his mom insults his wife whenever they have a chance and Raman does nothing ...as a husband he cant even stand upto his wife

Twice he referred Shagun as his wife and gets effected when she talks about old memories...was that for Adi as well?

In upcoming episode he is beating his ex wife's lover ..I wont be surprised if he sympathizes with Shagun and beats Ashok for the same...

If today Shagun feels that Raman still loves her its because of Raman's action not because of Ishita ...he has given her many reasons to believe that

All I am saying is if Ishita is at fault then Raman is at fault too...
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Posted: 10 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: yyy


I partly agree with what you said about Ishita ...I wont blindly justify her actions of taking care of Shagun ..she was wrong but if Raman's actions are justified that he is doing it for his son then some of Ishita's actions can also be justified that she was doing for her step son who is close to Raman's heart...but i agree she sometimes over does things and I am not gonna deny that but Raman unknowingly expects the same from her ...he expected her to be selfless when he announced his family picnic ...he expected her to selfless when he was seen outside hotel with Shagun in his arms ...he thanked her when she saved Adi from court case ...he still meets Shagun for whatever reasons and expects her to be ok with it ...dont you think he is silently supporting her and expecting her to be selfless when it suits him...

Every action of Raman cannot be justified as Adi ke liye ...i understand he was concerned for his son but for saving his son he didnt have to agree to whatever Shagun said ...he didnt have to serve her tea in a hotel room or accept his son's unreasonable demands ...Adi is important is Ruhi and Ishita not ...did he dance at the wedding for Adi ?Did Adi ask him to do it ?

Twice he referred Shagun as his wife and gets effected when she talks about old memories...was that for Adi as well?

In upcoming episode he is beating his ex wife's lover ..I wont be surprised if he sympathizes with Shagun and beats Ashok for the same...

If today Shagun feels that Raman still loves her its because of Raman's action not because of Ishita ...he has given her many reasons to believe that

All I am saying is if Ishita is at fault then Raman is at fault too...


see, this argument is n will always be never ending...there are points u mentioned like dancing in Shagun's wedding, which was clearly indirectly connected to Ishita n Ruhi...if you know what i mean...but i dont want to go in those details...

my point here being...two wrongs does not make one right...

Raman and Ishita, wanting to help Shagun for Adi;s sake = right (humanity sake)
Raman and Ishita, getting Shagun to stay at Bhalla house = wrong (other options are available)

but overall, whether u want to blame Raman or not, that apart...the thing is Shagun's equation with Ishita is different...here is a woman who is your husband's ex...she has not left a single moment to make you realize how RAman was sooo in love with her and he married you just for Ruhi...same woman who twice tried to snatch Ruhi from you...same woman who wanted to slap Ruhi...same woman who called you and your sister a s**t, in the hotel room, and later on national tv...same woman who questioned ur upbringing, insulting your parents...same woman helped your molester (the great param) time n again...i think this equation out does the fact that she is the mother of your step son...so help her financially by all means, if thats in your blood...but dont give her your self=respect...your happines (in future, m assuming she might sacrifice ruhi n raman) and...dont give her your LIFE...she doesnt deserve it...period...

and if Raman is adamant about helping her...then clearly tell him, that listen, you help her outside my house...all my sympathies are with her, but thats about it...there is nothing more that i want to offer...Raman never asked her to become a JM...m sure he wont expect her to sacrifice her love...and if he does, then i will be the first person to verbally blast him
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Posted: 10 years ago
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practically ishitha doesn't have any hold other than ruhi????
Raman even repeated the dialogue " I will throw you out of my house" even after realization!!!!
Atleast he should have said like " if you again bring shagun then I will go out of this house "
it makes sense...
like transformation of realisation...
but the dialogue was reverse...

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