Ishita should now go for coffee dates with Mani

Raman was bang on today. Though he was guilt-tripped but he poured out the reasons of his current state, Mani and Ishita. Before Mani came into the picture, Ishita acknowledged Raman as the "most caring person", her ultimate destiny and savior ( ref. Ishita's balcony conversation). But as soon as Mani was introduced the same Raman had become rude, insensitive, careless and what not to Ishita. Yes, Mani also judged Raman, told him a failed husband on his face but Ishita's reckless repetitive remarks were the main reason for Raman's guilt-trip. Then Mani's obnoxious judgements just added the much needed fuel to the fire. When Raman said "you should go with Mani for coffee", it signaled how he bottled up his deep pain so far; the pain of suddenly being sidelined by your loved ones without any fault. Ishita made him feel that he is not worthy of her but Mani is. She happily went out for dinners, lunches, coffees with Mani but never heard her asking Raman for once except for the apologizing purpose before Mihir-Trisha's sangeet. She acted like without Mani, she couldn't function her household chores. She openly declared to everyone that only Mani could understand her, he's the only compatible match for her. Raman digested this without a word but the impact in his mind was severe. Out of the blue Ishita kept on chanting Mani as her hero, rescuer, savior though Mani only made her life complicated and painful. True to his character, Mani vanished himself masterfully after Ashok-Shagun wedding was called off. Because Mani comes for good times only. Then he screws things and vanishes himself as bad times barge in.Ishita-Mani friendship is/was an unhealthy one to say the least. It killed the essence of friendship between a man and a woman in general.That's why we heard RKB saying " Mani ke saath lunches, coffees, dinner pe jate hai par mujhe to aaj tak thik se hi-hello bhi nahi boli. Usee I love you Mani bolti hai...mujhe aaj tak thik se I like you tak nahi boli". Even today's dialogues like " Mani ke saath Coffe peene jao" or " sirf tum dono ek dusro ko jhel sakte ho" were the repercussions of Ishita's continuous ignorance towards him and Mani's repetitive naggingness.

Supporters of Mani track are thinking that the come back of Mani is for closure. Well, they thought Mani as a cupid for IshRa too.😆If it's for the much needed closure then Mani and Ishita must realize the severe damage they had done and should repent for that. I doubt that they'll do because demigod Mani and Jagatmata Ishita can never be wrong no matter what. So, it would have been better if Raman would have left for Singapore handing over the divorce paper to Ishita and giving Mani the opportunity to marry her. Then they won't have any further problems for going out for coffees or whatever. That would have been the perfect closure for the Mani track as it was depicted earlier.

Even if Raman wouldn't have sprang up divorce paper to Ishita, once Raman left there was every chance that Ishita would have busied herself going out with Mani as she did it in the past. IshMani friendship taught us a good lesson though--- Don't push your friendship to an absurd extent that your partner starts to think that you are better off with your friend.

The last line was extremely meaningful

Raman's guilt trip definitely started with mani's entry. And they shud give it a proper closure now..mani shud come n apologise for wot he said. Nobody if perfect even ishita is also not perfect...according to mani ishita was dealing with all raman's past n his probs..wot he forgot was she is also infertile n has a past...n raman accepted her just for ruhi n ishita did the same by accepting raman with his past just for ruhi...it's just raman's past is haunting them till now...but in future ishita's. Infertility will also come up then wot ...then wot will mani say to raman?

very nice post and completely agree with you

i really wish raman would have left for few days to Singapore after giving divorce papers . thoda roti to i could have accepted confession with open heart

It's in ishu's hand now to get raman out of his guilt trip
but I guess they will show ishu saying I love you to raman and his guilt will go down won't show any such deep heart to heart talk as usual which is very disappointing

Btw I still have a doubt and confusion thinking on what basis is ran divorcing ishu? He thinks ishu can stay with ruhi and be happy but the custody is ISHITA BHALLA if he divorced her she will become iyer then what about ruhi? Won't the custody case would be reopened???
and raman isn't thinking of ruhi? I mean he is her father and if he decides to stay away from his family to make ishu happy what about other members and ruhi??? Does he think of that long...a future?
Don't know if the confession is going to happen or not...hope it does and make mani out of the show forever

Nice post...agree with you.The unfinished Mani track should not end in confession. If CVs decide to end this way, this Mani track will remain as a big joke with no closure at all.

Totally agree with u!

Since two days I'm making posts that mani should apologize to raman that is must. Only then I will enjoy confession to some extent. If ishita also apologizes then even more better. But it's like expecting too much from writers. According to them ishita can never be wrong.

Mani track is worst track till date. I hated it so much that I enjoyed today's episode wen I saw ishita in pain.

Once for all mani track should be closed now. I dont want to see his face again.
And I seriously want ishita to know about raman mani hospital conversation. Hw Mani humiliated raman. The so called best friend who was no where when ishita was in troubles.
I would appreciate if cvs show ishita slapping him. Lol! But it is much required. Her marriage was on the verge of breaking becoz of mani. He deserves a slap.

Exactly even I wanted separation before confession. Wanted ishita to realise her mistake. But again its like expecting too much but I really want her to apologize raman. Itna toh dikha sakte hai cvs!!!!

I think Mani did help Ishita solve one problem and it was Ishita who hid the reason as to why she was always talking to Mani which caused the heartburn. The point is they were close friends for a no of years and perhaps still understood each other more than Raman did. Till Mani came in Raman used to keep nagging Ishita and throw insulting lines at her and kept pulling her leg till she landed in hospital. What if she wud have died then? It is only then Raman realized her true worth and Mani came along and showed him the mirror. Mani did say a lot of things which hurt him, but none of it was wrong. Maybe he took liberties, which Raman realized later that he hated Mani more for his own past insecurities than Ishita's behaviour!

Originally posted by: Angel13

It's in ishu's hand now to get raman out of his guilt trip
but I guess they will show ishu saying I love you to raman and his guilt will go down won't show any such deep heart to heart talk as usual which is very disappointing

Btw I still have a doubt and confusion thinking on what basis is ran divorcing ishu? He thinks ishu can stay with ruhi and be happy but the custody is ISHITA BHALLA if he divorced her she will become iyer then what about ruhi? Won't the custody case would be reopened???
and raman isn't thinking of ruhi? I mean he is her father and if he decides to stay away from his family to make ishu happy what about other members and ruhi??? Does he think of that long...a future?
Don't know if the confession is going to happen or not...hope it does and make mani out of the show forever

I'm not sure I understand - have you been following YHM for the past few weeks?