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shanry

@shanry

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Posted: 10 years ago

#91

Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Monal
My argument is if she has debilitating insecurities about being a woman, how come it NEVER hinders her in ANYTHING ELSE other than intimacy with Raman😲...

Could this be because she doesn't feel as much for anyone else as she does for her husband - with everyone else she can be herself and say whatever she feels but with her husband, the person she recognises as someone she has come to love, she is far more cautious because what he thinks of her, her actions & words, matters a lot to her.

I do agree though that she sometimes takes her NGO attributes a little too far in extending her goodwill to people like Shagun, who do not deserve it at all, and would have more marital bliss if she expanded that ill-spent energy in sussing out her husband's feeling for her and her feelings for him. Something that would also go a long way in satisfying Ishra supporters such me...😃

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Posted: 10 years ago

#92

Originally posted by: vishakha06

totally agree with u! Actually it was never shown in the show itself that ishita has some insecurities regarding intimacy..
Just to justify ishita ppl use this!
We never had any Ishita monologue on this in show! Its just ppl assumption...

The exact reason is she never had tym to think abt all this... She knows whom pammy aunty niece loves but she doesn't know abt her husbands feelings! 🥱 She understands every xyz.., n even ashok n shagun.. But totally ignorant abt raman!

Actually it was hinted many times that she had very little experience of physical intimacy and there were two or three monologues about that as well. But what baffles me is that since she hadn't experienced it, she's not trying to go for it. An educated woman in her late twenties can not act like this. You're dead right about ignoring her husband. As you aptly said, she didn't make the opportunity to think about her marriage, physical relationship and all that. I think she's not very clear about what she actually wants from her marriage. I may be bashed by some fans but I think she needs some sort of counseling regarding this, like Bala used to do in past. Or she needs a big jolt, that's why I have some hope for the next track.

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AroraTanya

@AroraTanya

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#93

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Monal

I also thought about her need of counseling as she's always dependent on Bala for advice.I guess CVs brought this track for that purpose. I know CVs are infamous for ending a track without giving a proper closure. But if they can pull it off, it would be a masterstroke; it will kill two birds (infertility and inexperience of intimacy) with one stone (new entry).

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-Vishakha-

@-Vishakha-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#94

Originally posted by: AroraTanya
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Monal

I also thought about her need of counseling as she's always dependent on Bala for advice.I guess CVs brought this track for that purpose. I know CVs are infamous for ending a track without giving a proper closure. But if they can pull it off, it would be a masterstroke; it will kill two birds (infertility and inexperience of intimacy) with one stone (new entry).

Exactly!

I would love to see that if whatever u said gonna happen!

Along with this she will also realise priorities of her life! I want mani to manipulate ruhi n to separate ishita and ruhi... So that ishita realises she trusted a wrong person like mani

Who never understood relationships mainly ishita ruhi . He thinks ruhi is raman's past baggage. His reasoning r just out of the world. 😡 he thinks raman will choose adi over ishita?!

I mean hw can he compare two different relationships.!! One side its abt son other side abt wife! Both hold equal place in ones life! Mani making such comparisons only showed that he never understood any relationship in his life!

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Madhuri

@Madhuri53

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Posted: 10 years ago

#95

Aur ek kabab me haddi ki jaroorat nahi hai...ashok-shagun hi kafi hai high-pitch-drama ke liye

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Megher_Palok

@Megher_Palok

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Posted: 10 years ago

#96

impatiently waiting for this track to unfold 😛

tfs

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Nirmala

@nimmu96

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#97

Tfs

As if they have very less trouble now, one more😡

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@-RD-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#98

Originally posted by: member

You are sooo obsessed with Raman's sorrow that you can't see a sensitive logic behind Ishita's NON-DESIRE. She can't be a mother, she herself thinks that she is a half woman. So, isn't it a bit obvious that she will think others also consider her as a half woman, though not in words, but thoughts. And, Raman had the most intimate relationship with Shagun. Can't she think that Raman can't feel for her PHYSICAL way as he also said this some months before? She doesn't think like that ...in fact she hides her feelings cos of this reason. I hope, CVs show such thing in the show, so that some of my friends can understand the problem of Ishita.

Can personal targeting like this be avoided ,dont agree with an opinion fine but that doesnt mean you abuse and target the person for holding a different view

YHM DT

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Raveena

@Loveforlife

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Posted: 10 years ago

#99

Originally posted by: crazy_bholi

I am seeing a He 🤣🤣🤣

Ishita ka brain fix karte karte poor girl lost her tresses... but inside se its a girl only re... 😆

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Nisha0604

@Nisha0604

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#100

Originally posted by: vishakha06
totally agree with u! Actually it was never shown in the show itself that ishita has some insecurities regarding intimacy..
Just to justify ishita ppl use this!
We never had any Ishita monologue on this in show! Its just ppl assumption...

The exact reason is she never had tym to think abt all this... She knows whom pammy aunty niece loves but she doesn't know abt her husbands feelings! 🥱 She understands every xyz.., n even ashok n shagun.. But totally ignorant abt raman!

Monal,

THANKS

Weve never had ANY Ishita monologue PERIOD.

There may have been one or two max... that too to justify whatever path she is about to undertake

Not those sensitive, heart wrenching, emotional ones like Raman has

Thats is a major scripting flaw and screen play flaw

There obviously wont be ANY empathy for Ishita, well in fact the reason Forum favors Raman is because Ishita has been written so poorly.

She comes across as this brittle, preachy, unemotional person the one...who USED to care for Ruhi

I think fans who admire her character end up giving one excuse or the other for her antics.

Even if her insecurities are selective,....I would think they would surface seriously in front of Shagun. Raman used to love her, desire her, fathered her children... kids who he cant seem to live without... Ishita on the other hand is unable to bear children, does not know if her husband desires her... the man that desired her dumped her mercilessly...

We dont see a particle of the insecurity from Ishita.

In fact she sounds over confident, arrogant and all knowing... including with Raman

I think the day Mrs Bhalla scolded her over the phone from London, was the only day in the last year she has admitted she went wrong

Edited by Nisha0604 - 10 years ago