what is d right approach for Ishita to deal wid Raman?

Now dat Ishita has got to know d reason for Raman's behaviour..what wud hv been d right approach for Ishita to deal wid him? Wud she hv rather talked it out and got to d root of d his problem or is d approach she is gonna take now- of not clarifying anything cos her conscious is clear n giving raman his own time better?

what do u say guys? how shud Ishita hv dealt wid d issue?

In my view for Ishu..Just Love Raman..Its the best way..!😉

Lets say for arguement sake she explained. what if he didn't believe her? It would be even more humiliating for Ishita. And the demon of suspicion is one such that cannot be cleared easily. And in his current state of mind and of Ishita it wont occur to her to explain what she did for him. Even that if put in his way would be a matter of disgust that she and her new found lover were trying to keep his post safe. Just like Shagun through whom Ashok gave many favours to Raman. It is a complicated web which Raman has to disentangle. It will be his biggest struggle and he himself has to get out of it. Then and for once he has to burm that demon within himself forever and start his life. That doesn't mean Ishita has to be glorified here. Ishita did her part of damage by ignoring little bits of annoyance from Raman's side and hiding the facts from him. She has to accept that. But what she got in return is bigger. Raman is not wrong but he has to fight with himself and let love win over hatred.

For starters, tone down on Mani jaap.. then give Raman space to contemplate.. and just be around him even if not talking to him! Doing small things for him just so he knows that she cares about him.. but not overdo or act like nothing happened. Make his favorite food w/o jataofying, etc.. small small things which can bring back normalcy inch by inch.

Originally posted by: -Hima-

For starters, tone down on Mani jaap.. then give Raman space to contemplate.. and just be around him even if not talking to him! Doing small things for him just so he knows that she cares about him.. but not overdo or act like nothing happened. Make his favorite food w/o jataofying, etc.. small small things which can bring back normalcy inch by inch.

I feel the 2nd option of not explaining Raman is right.

Cos, as Madhubala said, I highly doubt Raman would believe her now in this state of his mind. And, a fact is, Ishita herself won't tell about what she did for him. She too likes to act selfless. Even if she tells it, Raman won't believe her without proof. Cos, he is now stuck in what he saw and heard some days back...he isn't gonna give her a benefit of doubt even. He should know from himself. And, it will take a few more days, which is good cos may be Ishita too will be soften up and think about Raman's pain. Good from both sides.

Originally posted by: madhubala123

Lets say for arguement sake she explained. what if he didn't believe her? It would be even more humiliating for Ishita. And the demon of suspicion is one such that cannot be cleared easily. And in his current state of mind and of Ishita it wont occur to her to explain what she did for him. Even that if put in his way would be a matter of disgust and she and her new found lover were trying to keep his post safe. Just like Shagun through whom Ashok gave many favours to Raman. It is a complicated web which Raman has to disentangle. It will be his biggest struggle and he himself has to get out of it. Then and for once he has to burm that demon within himself forever and start his life. That doesn't mean Ishita has to be glorified here. Ishita did her part of damage by ignoring little bits of annoyance from Raman's side and hiding the facts from him. She has to accept that. But what she got in return is bigger. Raman is not wrong but he has to fight with himself and let love win over hatred.

Comparing it to a filmy situation, its similar to Mission Kashmir Hritik case where his mother tells, "Neki aur badi mein, haiwaniyat aur insaaniyat mein, kehar aur Kashmir mein kya zinda rahe ... yeh tumhe tay karna hai ... sirf tumhe

Between kindness and selfishness, between inhumanity and humanity, between fear and Kashmir what will stay alive ... you have to decide ... only you"

just change a lil bit for the current situation 😳

and this one for Ishita --- Yeh sach hai ki maine tumse jhoot kaha ... par yeh bhi sach hai ki maine tumse mohabbat ki hai

if she wl nt clear n continues DATING with her mani i dnt knw hw wil tis mu clear...in normal situations talk happens n clearance of mu takes place...bt logically if nt cleared mu deepens leading to divorce prctically bt tis is ekta crap...

I think ishita shd move out and give Raman space coz he seriously need to realise d truth on his own and put two and two together. Safayee de na aur Chilane se MU clear nehi honge... Raman seriously needs to understand on his own . But I m sure of one thing : d minute dis MU clears , ishra'so relationship s gonna b stronger dan ever and even if dey may fight in future, jealousy and insecurity s never gonna b a reason for it aGain 😊