Ishita not wanting to break her fast.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Discussion in going on Mani interference in IshRa's life and on Raman's emotions but I wanted to make a post on Ishita.


When Raman told Ishita (quite abruptly) to eat, she refused. At this point I thought she had the right to do so because why not. But in fact i was mostly thinking about Raman's anger : when i get shouted at, you can be sure i'll do the opposite of what i'm asked. That's why i didn't see anything wrong with ishita's refusal.

But then i thought of all this staff that was on strike but when back on working for HER only.

I also thought of all the people who doesn't get medical care and here she was, getting all the attention they could give to her but she was refusing to do her part of the healing process, she was refusing to eat.

She mentioned that she couldn't break her fast because she promised it to Toshi. I think that she has misconception of what Toshi expect of her. We all know that toshi is quick to anger and to take the opposite side of Ishita, but didn't she show her mother side too? I have a hard time believing that Toshi would put that promise over her bahu's health, over her son's wife's health, over her grand daugher's mother's health.

She also said "jaan ki baat kahan se agayi ?i'm fine, i'm not that weak". Well Ishu, i'm pretty sure that if they hadn't brought you to the hospital and put a glucose drip in your veins, you would be in a coma right now.

When she said "I won't eat for Raman, or for Mani or for my own health." I was literally angry at her. What is that ? An invitation to death? Is fasting more important that one's own health? Wasn't she being too stubborn right here? I was quite shocked by her words.

Also on a practical thought : i don't know much about fasting but i know a bit about the muslim fast : when a person is sick, they are allowed to break the fast. And when a person gets unconscious like she did, the fast is automatically considered as broken because one does not feel the fast when they are unconscious. What I mean is that fasting are never a way for God to break us down, God and divinities understand human's majbooryaa just like Ruhi perfectly explained it ! So why was Ishita still so stuck on her fast? If she has been fasting since childhood, doesn't she now that type of rules?

I've had a hard time watching the scene with Ruhi because to see her crying breaks my heart so i skipped the scene twice before finally coming around to it. When i watched it, it broke my heart because of Ruhi's crying, but also because it reminded me of something that happened to me. When i was younger, my mother got hospitalized for an heart attack. And i when i went to visit, she started crying because she couldn't bear to know that her children were waiting for her at home and that she wasn't there for them. How could Ishita, as a mother, forget that she had Ruhi waiting for her, alone, at home. Yes there were other persons with her, but IshRU bond is special and Ruhi can't even sleep without her mother; so as long as Ishita is not by her side, she is "alone" in someway.

Basically i understand devotion and piety but i really had a problem with ishita's attitude today.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dont get angry dear 🤗 firstly Ishita too is sometimes unreasonable , ya she illogical in arguing with Raman, but i guess she loves to irritate him too 😛 kabhi kabhi u play with the people whom u love too try to act illogical or stubborn for heck of it.

Concentrate on what she says in precap 😉 she loves her Ravan 😳

Logically speaking Ishita shud not have been stubborn n had food at least for Ruhi coz even if no one in the world needs her Ruhi needs her. But I guess makers were just trying to show the above that I mentioned.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I dont think she was trying to get on Raman's nerves. I think that adamant behaviors is a prerqeuisite for the 7:30 bahus, its the first requirement of being sansakaari bahu is to "fast until death"
I dont watch any other shows at this time so cant say for sure who the CVs are making Ishita compete with...😉

My guess is since they botched up the Karwa Chauth track by blending it with Varalakshmi, they wont have a Karwa Chauth on YHM, but other shows will for sure
Breaking the fast seeing the moon etc are romantic rituals those were done using body doubles on varalakshmi day
Fasting and fainting could have been a romantic Segway
But she has already fainted for Navratri so...

May be a few other bahus are planning to go lay in the hospital, and YHM CVs are prempting those moves by taking Ishita to the hospital for NAVARATRI itself👏
Edited by Nisha0604 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnr123

Dont get angry dear 🤗 firstly Ishita too is sometimes unreasonable , ya she illogical in arguing with Raman, but i guess she loves to irritate him too 😛 kabhi kabhi u play with the people whom u love too try to act illogical or stubborn for heck of it.

Concentrate on what she says in precap 😉 she loves her Ravan 😳

Logically speaking Ishita shud not have been stubborn n had food at least for Ruhi coz even if no one in the world needs her Ruhi needs her. But I guess makers were just trying to show the above that I mentioned.


hahaha, sorry i sounded angry, i was just a bit annoyed ! 🤗

Hehe, must admit, the precap was nice ! 😳😉 and precap for 10th oct is even nicer !!

Yeah, sometimes i forget that cvs have a purpose and i gets surprised at the illogical things 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nisha0604

I dont think she was trying to get on Raman's nerves. I think that adamant behaviors is a prerqeuisite for the 7:30 bahus, its the first requirement of being sansakaari bahu is to "fast until death"

I dont watch any other shows at this time so cant say for sure who the CVs are making Ishita compete with...😉

My guess is since they botched up the Karwa Chauth track by blending it with Varalakshmi, they wont have a Karwa Chauth on YHM, but other shows will for sure
Breaking the fast seeing the moon etc are romantic rituals those were done using body doubles on varalakshmi day
Fasting and fainting could have been a romantic Segway
But she has already fainted for Navratri so...

May be a few other bahus are planning to go lay in the hospital, and YHM CVs are prempting those moves by taking Ishita to the hospital for NAVARATRI itself👏


hahaha exactly, the sanskaari side of her almost killed her !!

Definitely, there is competition between the bahu. or maybe they trying to compete with the girl in the Big boss mansion ?🤣

didn't notice the body doubles... can't believe they used body double for such important scenes!!!😡

hahahahaha they are trying to be the first to get their bahu at the hospital so she can lay a claim on the track "weakness -> hospitalized" !
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Great Post.

I can understand your dilemma in trying to come to terms with Ishita and her NOT breaking her fast.

I too felt that her stubbornness far exceeded her common sense in finding herself in the hospital and still refusing food and putting all those who care for her to this much stress to keep a promise to her M I L.

And forgetting that there is a little girl Ruhi that needs a healthy mother to look after her.

Ishita needs to remember her priorities as a mother ahead of other things.

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