I agree whatever is happening in the show and location video doesn't seam to be gr8. But look at how nicely the Cvs have brought out the part of their realization. What's love - love is to care and to know each other well. Raman was caring towards Ishitha during her fracture. But he is insensitive - he needs to realize that. That's the reason why they have included this particular sequence. Lets see one by one the situation:
1. Raman when to the hospital when he got to know Ishitha was given anesthesia but took video of her sad state and left saying pagal pan ka dura kum nehi hua toh ap hi rak lene.
2. He keeps telling koi isko guma kui nehi detha.
3. Permanently gungi kui nehi kar dete
4. He doesn't accompany her to a party which is organized by her friend while she attends every party of his and tolerates Ashagun as well.
5. He went to pick her up but didn't pick her and came back just like that
6. When she saw a screen saver he said he removed all the kachada
7. He was the one who said she is a reject and will never get married before their marriage
Iam not bashing Raman. He has lot of feelings for her. That was evident in yesterday's scene. He was the first one to notice her fall, He was so concerned. The expression in his face when he saw blood in her nose. The way he carried her not even ready to put her in the stretcher and part her. He was angry with every tom dic and harry and anger is also one form of love. He is Nice man at heart but he never shows it. Love is something which has to be made to be felt by other person. But he didn't do it. They are not married to each other for years. They are not even married fo a year now and thier was a marriage of compromise which they have worked to improve it to a relationship. But these things take time. This is for him to realize or rather both of them to realize that they have been to busy in solving others problem that they never focused on their life. Its probably a reality check for both of them to start concentrating on knowing each other more. May be this whole sequence can lead to Raman taking her out, they have a heartfelt conversation. I really hope this happens.
Coming to Mani's part -
1. He was answering all the questions - see there were 2 ppl and one didn't know anything but someone had to tell the doctor for the treatment to continue.
2. He was brainwashed by Ashok so he felt Raman doesn't love Ishitha . Also he heard Romi telling that his brother doesn't treat his Bhabhi well. This made him think so
3. He convinced Ruhi - Ruhi is a kid , but she deserves to be knowing the truth and he was matured enough in handling kids. That's how he has been shown in the show. Whats the problem if he told the truth to Ruhi - and ya he did convince her to be at home , he didn't get her the night when Ishitha was unconcious.
4. He brought Ruhi to feed Ishitha. Ishitha is a deed aurath as per Raman and ya she is. And she can never refuse Ruhi. He used that card to make her eat. I don't see anything wrong in it
5. He advised Raman, he was right. Why are you thinking Mani as Ishu's friend? Often it happens the friend of your wife tries to become your friend too. So he was trying to become Raman's friend and advising him to be clam. Raman can never listen to anyone. We have always seen him not sharing his feeling with anyone apart from ishitha. But when it comes to feelings realted to ishitha he cannot share it with her. He also needs a friend and Mani is probably trying to be one. So someone had to give him that realitry check that he was getting angry which will not give him a solution. Mani was not rude to Raman but he wanted him to realize his mistake. That's what is the purpose of his role probably and he is doing justice to it. He is not coming in between husband and wife but trying to highlight the gaps that they need to fill as a good friend to both of them.
Ishitha's situation
She is in love with her Ravan kumar. But she is afraid to tell him as he has always made fun of her feelings. She is nave towards his feeling and always thinks he is still not over Shagun. Raman always backed her up and stood by her whenever Shagun tried to put her down. She can be a janshi ki Rani but she is a kachi kiladi in love. She was sick and guilty that she could run the household as her MIL used to do during Navarathri and was trying to act stupid by not eating. She did not eat when mani said , but she ate only when ruhi said. Ruhi has afirst place in her life and no one else . She will do mani jap , but that is out of a friendly nature and he loves only her ravan Kumar. No one can deny that fact.
In all we will have to pateint and look for what CVs have instore for us. I really really feel this time they don't hide their feelings into stupid nok jok and tunts and they really have a hear to hear conversation and realize their love for each other.
Sorry for a big pakavu post. This is my POV.
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