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Firstly, I haven't seen the episode and this is based on written updates.
I know Raman felt bad/guilty/awkward or all of these emotions when Mani was giving all information about Ishu which Raman didn't even know about. He was surprised at knowing about her TB.
I find my behaviour similar to Raman's most of the time. Mainly, even if I love someone, I won't express it. The only people i've said "I Love You" to, are about 6 of my friends. Not even my parents or family.So, many times I have thought that if I was in his place, maybe I wouldn't have asked about Ishu's past because it may hurt her. I wouldn't be sure whether its the right time or not. And as far as I know, I don't think Ishu too completely knows the reason why Shagun left Raman.
But now I feel that its time that they spoke about it, even though it might be difficult for them.
Since they are "friends", this is something necessary.
This is an incident that took between me and my best friend Asha. We've been friends for 8 years. We spoke today after a long time, and then this episode aired.
We had been best friends for 3 years then and were in 8th. The whole school knew of our friendship and if we ever fought, it would become a news in the school.
One day we were given a fun activity where we were given a few questions like your best friend's family favorite colour, food, song, movie,etc.
It felt like a test for me, because the only things I had answered was her name, her parents' name and her date of birth.
At that moment I realised that I had never tried to actually know her.
We loved, cared and were always there to help out each other, but just went with the flow and didn't try to understand our best friend.
She had actually written more about me.
Everyone in the class had thought that we would have written everything about the other.
The incident made me feel very much guilty about myself and that was when we both spoke and decided to know better about each other. I asked a lot of questions about her and after that day started to notice each other's likes and dislikes.
I know, with friends you just get to know each other by spending time with them, but there will be some matters which you actually have to speak about to know about it. Like IshRa's past lives.
I know that I used this word a lot of times and this was more of my story, but I don't want the writers to forget this and give atleast a small thought towards this.
Sorry for this long post, but I was so happy after speaking to her and this scene made me go through a lot of thoughts. I felt this was a very meaningful scene and was necessary.
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