the only post which made sense regarding this entire matter!..thanks for this perspective because in such a situation a person like me who is a fan of both is so clueless as to whom to support and who is right and who is wrong..At the end of the day we fans forget that actors are also people like us and like we have our not so good days,they have their oops moments and it is not easy to be right all the time or to be politically correct everytime.. Media takes things to a another level when things go against them as they have the ego and thing oh this actor think they are star we will show them media power..and then we saw how things went out of proportion for a small thing and how the entire media went against KP..their hypocrisy was highlighted when suddenly these news stopped and suddenly there was no problem with KP and the rumours stopped..there are numerous examples where such tiffs happen between media and celebrities and than they sort it out between themselves because at the end of the day both need each other..they are professionals..Than at such times media try to take advantage of the situation and try to provoke co-actors to speak something which can fuel the entire drama..Imagine if media would just have had articles against KP like previously, without comments from anyone they will only receive fans bashing...this time they succeeded in getting Divyanka's reaction which clearly was her mistake..she should have avoided it all but she was kind of nave to comment because clearly no good would have come out of her involvement..She did not think about fans reaction..there the right thing would have to clearly be quiet like KP had been during all this media drama because no matter what you speak people are sitting to judge you either way..things will be interpreted by different people differently.. Some people will like your stand, some people will bash you for taking a stand..some people would call it doing the right thing some people will find it seeking attention..So if you choose to speak at such a situation you are prone to get all kinds of reaction.. I am not proud to say this but we fans are highly prejudiced when it comes to our favourites..the best thing for stars to remain sane at this time is to ignore fans comment..Because clearly if someone is bashing you in the name of being a fan then either you keep quite and ignore or give importance to the comment and try to justify and fall into a deeper pool of analysing..Fans will judge you based on what little they know of you thinking themselves as super psychologist who have figured you all out by watching your interviews, body language and so and so..and all the psychologist fans have their own opinions which highly influence their judgement of you.. At such a stage when you react in a human way to the bashing you get than you are wrong because you clearly don't know how far this can go..Sharad's unrequired dragging of KP in a totally irrelevant topic was the stupidest thing ever until you saw Divyanka reacting to it..I mean she was so nave again to behave like that..Fans will not think what led your reaction..or we will think all different things which might or might not go in your support..Like clearly here some think she reacted to the bashing she got from KP fans and some think that she was mocking KP and his fans..all different perspectives. Her not owing anyone any explanation again took all kind of judgements..I myself was quite unsure of what to make of her tweets until I saw your post..and your post just led me to understand:-
NO MATTER WHAT YOU TRY TO DO AFTER GETTING INTO SUCH A SITUATION YOU ARE GOING TO FACE ALL KIND OF SUPPORT AND BASHING AND THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO IS CLOSE THIS CHAPTER AND MOVE ON.
EXPLAINING OF ANY KIND WILL ONLY STRETCH THIS TOPIC MORE AND MORE.
FOR FANS LIKE ME WHO ARE UNSURE OF WHAT TO MAKE AND WHAT NOT TO MAKE OUT OF THIS WHOLE FIASCO- LETS NOT WASTE OUR BRAINS AND ANALYSE THINGS ..LETS ENJOY THE THINGS WE ARE GETTING ON SCREEN AND IGNORE THE OFFSCREEN DRAMA UNTIL IT GETS SORTED OUT. AND LETS NOT GO LOW BY TRYING TO HURT ACTORS FOR BEING HUMANS AND MAKING MISTAKES..WE ALL DO..AND WE ALL SOMETIMES ARE TO CLUELESS TO KNOW IT IMMEDIATELY..LETS MOVE ON..NOBODY DIED 😊
Edited by Bul3 - 10 years ago