Ishita may seem stupid, but............

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Raman has never given her the reason to be secured in their marriage...everytime taunting her for her profession, for the way she dresses...for the amount she talks, for the way she tries to make everything better...he did show his gratitude a couple of times...but most of the times its taunting n scolding...

what did he say when she got shagun to their house, he literally kicked her out of his house (HIS being the key word), if she wants to do any samaj-seva in future...

he does acknowledge that she cares of everyone in his family, but thats behind her back, not infront of her...he did accept her as his wife during the license track, but even that was infront of mihir, not her...

most of the time, he always says that she is horrible, ugly, useless person, who is forced upon him...though she ignores his jibe all the time, but telling a person things like this, does make that person insecure in his/her heart...no matter how successful that person is, in the outside world...

What was Mihir's reaction when his sister objected to his court marriage. Instead of explaining things to Mihika, he stormed off. And later when Ishita requested him to share with Mihika's aged mom, who was getting tensed, he got angry, saying that if Mihika has a problem then he will cancel the marriage.

Is this behaviour normal, when two families are getting united in matrimony ??

and when Ishita asked Raman, he also instead of talking calmly, fired Ishita, that she made Mihir upset...what was her fault, if she wanted to know bt Mihir's past... she doesnt know how hurtful his past is...

Maybe Mihir is scared that Mihika will judge him, after knowing his past. But isnt it better to get it clarified beforehand...she is making a lifelong commitment to him, n his sister raised an objection to her official entry into his life. the least he can do, is tell her the identity of the said sister...

Raman and Mihir, both know that they are surrounded by evil people like Ashok, Shagun n Parmeet, who never leave a single moment to hurt them n their loved ones...so why dont they confide in the loved ones, n ensure that the loved ones are safe from these evil people...

Everyone knows that Ishita is a mature woman, who would never judge Mihir, so why can't Raman confide in her... Had he done that, then the question of Ishita trusting Sanjana wouldn't have arised, no ??

Though i still maintain the fact, that Raman isnt to be blamed in the case of Sanjana, cause clearly she is lying and we cant expect Raman to share a truth which doesnt exist...but then Raman hasnt given enough reason to Ishita to trust him...

having said so, i dont understand why Ishita is fully trusting Sanjana, despite seeing her with Parmeet, not once but twice... why didnt she smell a rat, there ??


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_Divya_ thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well i hv a rule in my life..

buraai muh pe & tareef peeh piche! 😊

n Raman does d same with HIS JKR.. 👍🏼
so for me.. Raman's taunting n all r not dat important.. dats their relation.. 😛 n even ishu bhi iss sabko frndly manner mei leti hai 😉 Raman ser toh wo sava ser 😆

n as i always say.. sabse jyada gussa, chillana n all u do wid the person u love d most.. n jisko aap apna mante ho! 😊 n Raman Ishu ko apna manta hai.. DIL se 😊 haan usko nhi dikhata.. but bhot care karta hai uski,,, n even his JKR is aware of this fact 😛 uspe chillata hai coz uspe apna haq jatata hai

n about mihir ki sister ka issue.. m sure usko hide karne ke piche bhi koi solid reason hoga

n regarding dat last line.. ki y trusting Sanjana? coz nw after KKHH moment.. Ishu ko kuch hua Raman ka naam kisi aur se judne pe.. isilie usne trust kia usko
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Posted: 11 years ago
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if Raman didn't give secure one their marriage, then there would be no reason to she become jealous. he did more secure than she did expect. that's the reason his past her. don't forget when Raman buying modern clothes for her, she found shagun voice also. suddenly she companied herself. what is her problem if he roams with shagun. why didn't she try to say same thing now. she recalls l that she is ruhi ishimaa only when Raman roams with shagun or any other woman. otherwise she didn't compromise herself as mother. she is hurt because she lost trust in her husband. she didn't try to get truth because she is in love. yes Ishita is stupid but love is blind.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi agree that Ishita seems stupid... Coz she knows Raman to be a very loyal person, she knows Param to be a jerk and totally untrustworthy... She barely knows this Sanjana character ... Yet she is believing her instead of her husband!
Cvs u are destroying the character! Yuk
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Posted: 11 years ago
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its natural cz raman is hiding this sister KAUN drama from her. and for me at the begining even i felt that she is behaving like a fool!! but she tried to console herself by giving many BAHANAS but again that was useless. sometime from some direction may be she is reacting like a fool but actually she is hurt. Cause may be now situation has changed and she is closer to raman but still they have no unity. And raman always made sure that he has no feelings for her so right now its one sided love for her.
And we know how far a person could go when he/she is in love which is totally ONE SIDED !!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yeah...thats what m saying...like to people she may seem stupid, but there are reasons behind it...
ofcourse even i love their nok-jhok, but as she said in her monologue, most of the past related things are hidden from her...everytime she has to ask...so one find day, she is bound to feel bad...earlier their relation was limited to only Ruhi, but now it has progressed, he did so much for her n her parents...she cares so much for him n his family...so naturally she wud expect for him to come n tell her bt his past...and since he is hiding things with relation to mihir's family, when Sanjana said that she was dating Raman, then its natural for Ishita to think that maybe its true n Raman have hidden this truth also from her...

cause when someone hides one thing from me, then i cannot be sure how many more things he/she has hidden, so obviously somewhere even if i was trusting that person earlier, now i wont be sure whether i shud trust him or not...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjs


cause when someone hides one thing from me, then i cannot be sure how many more things he/she has hidden, so obviously somewhere even if i was trusting that person earlier, now i wont be sure whether i shud trust him or not...



exactly...after all we are human beings so its natural😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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After reading this I just remember the famous dialogue from Tare Zameen Par

Ram Shankar Nikumbh- "On the Solomon Islands, when the tribes need to clear the jungle to make way for fields, they don't cut down the trees. They simply gather and collect around it and hurl abuses at the trees. They curse it. slowly but surely, after some days, the trees begin to wither. It dies on its own."

😭😭

If you care...you have to show
If you love...you have show

Achcha lagta hai
anjs thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: loveyhmnew

After reading this I just remember the famous dialogue from Tare Zameen Par

Ram Shankar Nikumbh- "On the Solomon Islands, when the tribes need to clear the jungle to make way for fields, they don't cut down the trees. They simply gather and collect around it and hurl abuses at the trees. They curse it. slowly but surely, after some days, the trees begin to wither. It dies on its own."

😭😭

If you care...you have to show
If you love...you have show

Achcha lagta hai


exactly my point...nok-jhok is cute...but sometimes it does go overboard...hopefully now Ishita will stick to her point of not talking to him...

even yesterday when Raman got to know that she is upset, his first reaction was Madrasan pagal ho gayee hai...then when he sees her, he says, kya hua bhagwan, iski batti gul ho gayee, also called her a nakli doctor...

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