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Simmi's family is keeping her away from my pati, pervert Param. Unthinkable!😛 She's a grown woman with a little girl. She is no in love with her pati Param-A-Swear that the idea of living with him since his return from Dubai hadn't crossed her mind until he flashed the divorce papers. She has been selective to fit what serves her. When Param was thrown out of the house and Raman refused to let her go with him she stayed put. She opted instead for meeting Param in secret, spying on her own family for him, stole files from Raman and forged Raman's signatures for Param's SIM Card ...got to say she is one devoted dharmapatni. Her loyalties are misplaced and she is yet to learn her lesson. As the saying goes "you can wake someone who's sleeping, not someone who's pretending to sleep".🤓

With Ashok's blessings, Param has given her an ultimatum to move in with him (never mind it didn't bother Simmi that he took his sweet time asking her to join him)😕 or meet him in divorce court so she is turning on the Bhallas like they are her enemies and even disowned Raman as her brother just after tying the rakhi on his wrist. Raman sees right through Param's plot but Simmi prefers to wear a blindfold and turn deaf ears to the truth.

The idea of divorce may scare her silly, but it's time for Bhallas to cut Simmi loose, she's an adult after all. Let her live her life on her terms and face the consequences of her choices like any mature adult. It's time for her to grow up and stop using her family and turning on them when they don't get on the bandwagon with her choices. She's not under any threat from Garam Param🤪, not when he still has roving eyes only for Ishu and Sarika, the two women in relationships with the Bhalla men. Simmi should consider how Ananya's life will be affected by Param's presence in her life.🤔

If Simmi was so determined to live with her husband why didn't she pack up and leave the Bhalla house earlier? She didn't think twice when she forged Raman's signature which happened before Param was exposed by Sarika and Ishu.Btw, is Simmi a graduate, did she have an arranged marriage or did she pick Pervert Param as her charming partner for life?

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Param's timing with his chaal was pre-meditated. He had Ashok's commitment to back him up and unleashed his threat of divorce. He has Simmi prepped for this moment for months. He knew Raman's would be totally against Simmi moving in with him. After Suraj's arrest and Tyagi's humiliation Ashok is on the warpath to attack Raman on all fronts. He's manipulating Shagun. He's got Param going after Simmi and maybe even Raman's business. Ishu exposed Suraj's criminal activities. It's more than just a matter of Simmi's divorce. Raman figured out the objective behind Param's plot👍🏼👏. Simmi doesn't want to see hear or see anything that paints Param in a poor light. After all she has been playing for the opposing team while freeloading of her brother for months now.

Param took the first step, made things easier for Bhallas to move forward. Instead Simmi decided to disown Raman and wants to rush into the arms of Param. Only a shock will snap Simmi out of her misplaced trust in Param. She is the same woman who turned blind eyes when Param asked Ishu to touch his feet at Ananya's naamkaran and Romi overruled it. Param is playing a con-game with Simmi and as long as she just wants to tell the world she too has a husband even if in name only she won't mind creating chaos in the Bhalla family.

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It's Christmas time in Shagun's world😛. Just weeks ago her fianc Ashok gave into her ultimatum and slipped a 5ct bling ring on her finger and now paid with a bling bracelet for presenting her to Tyagi😕. Will she see past the sparkling stones into Ashok's recent behavior since the arrival of chota lambu🤔? At least, if the situation arises, it will help pay for a roof over her head when Ashok gives her the boot out of the kaminey headquarters. When Shagun eyed the bling bracelet like a dog would do a bone😕, she confirmed what Suraj had been filling Ashok's ears since he arrived...that Shagun was using Ashok for her lavish lifestyle and turning to Raman for her protection. Suraj is a misogynist, ready to sink Ashok's relationship with Shagun. What kind of relationship did Lucha Lambu and Lafanga Lambu have with their mother, that they see women as usable and disposable?

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Why was the Bhalla clan all shocked that Param dropped the divorce bomb😲? It's not like they had plans to treat Param's perverted creepiness at some medical facility and reunite Simmi with him later. Raman with a cool head made it clear "he'd never let his sister live with a man who didn't respect women" so the option for Simmi to ever live with Param in the future as far as the Bhallas were concerned was out of the question🤓. Raman saw Simmi's divorce from Param as the only option from all 360 degree angles.😛

Mr. Bhalla had specifically ordered everyone to go to their respective corners before they woke up the entire neighborhood so late at night with their tamasha. He, as the head of the family had declared that a decision regarding Param/Simmi situation would be taken on the following day👍🏼. It was a given that only option the family was ever going to consider was to get Param out of Simmi's life by unmasking him before Simmi.

Ishu decided to take matters into her hands disrespecting Mr. Bhalla's directive to everyone to call it a night and overriding Raman's decision😕. Why did Ishu rush out to meet Param after both lying to her Amma, then to Toshiji about an emergency and without informing Raman of her plans? Why choose to lie, act unilaterally and make a solo exit at night? Ishu could have talked to them first about her plans. Simmi's parents are still around as elders in the family to take action in Simmi's best interests. Ishu has not been Simmi's favorite person, she has resented Ishu ever since she pointed a finger at pervy Param. Why the urgency to act immediately before the sun came up😲? Param had only just given Simmi a choice hours ago for goodness sake! It's not like divorce courts in Delhi are open 24/7 like chapels in Las Vegas are for quickie weddings. 😛

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How troubling was it that Simmi threw such a tantrum without concern that two young children were in the house👎🏼...Ruhi who was visibly disturbed by all the drama and baby Ananya was treated like a teddy pair that Toshiji and Simmi fought over to take possession🤔. Simmi and Shagun are addicted to being the center of attention, their children take the backseat,just an afterthought, very sad!😔😒

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I've never understood Ishu's need to seek Simmi's approval🤔. Every time she blames Ishu for the breakup of her marriage, Ishu seems to want to make it right for Simmi? Simmi doesn't want to believe Param is capable of straying so blames Ishu. Isn't it enough for Ishu that the rest of the Bhallas sing her praises? Does she believe she is responsible for Simmi's separation from Param on some level that she takes matters into her own hands and acts impulsively?😕

How ironic that the same day Ishu gives Mihir a word of advice that Mihika has a right to know about his family, she decides to secretly slip out of the house in the name of emergency case keeping Raman in the dark. Has she forgotten that the last time she hid that she was helping Param from the Bhallas her character was questioned and the loafer took it to mean her interest in him. She snuck out late at night again after exchanging texts with Param.

Raman and his parents are stewing over Simmi's stubborness to get back together with Param. Sometimes it's best to let people do what they are hell bent on doing, crash and burn and learn a lesson the hard way before they come to their senses. Simmi could be one of them. She blames Ishu at the drop of a hat bec' she dared to point an accusatory finger at her husband. Not once has she considered if Param could indeed a creep when every member of her family was saying that about him😲?

Sarika who is now in Romi's radar was Param's first victim. Simmi simply dismissed Sarika's allegations and targeted her rage at Ishu for daring to expose her creepy Param. What does that say about Simmi's self-esteem and what she sees herself as being worthy of🤓? With a daughter to raise, would she really want a creep like Param anywhere near her daughter now or even in a few years? She's been separated from Param for months now, she's been living like a divorcee anyways. Maybe she doesn't see Param the way her family does bec' she's also stooped to do underhanded/criminal stuff like Param that too against the brother she has lived off of for months.

Just two days ago, Raman berated Ishu for going after Suraj even knowing he was a dangerous dude. When she went undercover she teamed up with Sarika and Romi was there to protect her. Now she's meeting Param solo. Is Ishu sure that she can fend off any guy let alone Param if she was physically overpowered? Maybe, if she has a black belt in martial arts?

Unless things have drastically changed in India am I right in assuming that even today a woman is often suspected of wrong doing and blamed if she ventures out alone at night without the family's knowledge. CVs must be responsible when sending a social message to impressionable young women who might see Ishu's actions as the way to go in real life.🤓

Your thoughts?😃

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Posted: 11 years ago
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great observation, I love your posts ❤️
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved ur take on Simmi unfortunately there r ppl like her who believe in their husbands blindly even if they know the real truth. its really interesting to know how human psychology for different people works differently 😆
Dunno what exactly is ishu trying to do with meeting param or getting him in house but she shud surely learn a few things
A. Never meddle in anyone elses life unless they want u to.
B. Never hide important things issues from ur spouse same applies to raman too.
C. Leopard will never change its spots (for Param) 😆

Having said all of above whatever Ishu is doing I feel its neither weakness, mahantaa or anything its just being human.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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you are so on the mark with all your thoughts. on the one hand i believe that had ishitha informed raman about her plans he would have been royally pissed. but she still should have respected mr bhallas ceasefire for the night. even simmi who was determined to leave went back to her room.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnr123

Loved ur take on Simmi unfortunately there r ppl like her who believe in their husbands blindly even if they know the real truth. its really interesting to know how human psychology for different people works differently 😆
Dunno what exactly is ishu trying to do with meeting param or getting him in house but she shud surely learn a few things
A. Never meddle in anyone elses life unless they want u to.
B. Never hide important things issues from ur spouse same applies to raman too.
C. Leopard will never change its spots (for Param) 😆

Having said all of above whatever Ishu is doing I feel its neither weakness, mahantaa or anything its just being human.


I won't call it mahaanta either. I have been wondering if Ishu has ever acted on something after Mr. Bhalla had specifically told the family they'd handle the matter in the morning (with a clear head).

As far as Ishu wanting to help Simmi. she definitely needs to learn a big lesson in life...never offer advice unless requested and mind your own business unless a person is in mortal danger in the moment, which wasn't the case this time.

Ishu was upset with Raman when he hid Adi's accident and when he resigned his president ship and got her license. This is another lesson she defintely needs to learn. She has to play the game by the same rules she wants Raman to. Raman handled the situation with a clear head.👏 but Simmi was freaking out to listen to anything anyone had to say.😕

Is Param a leopard? Raman called him tattu and kutha🤔. Is he the guy with the most nicknames or what?😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MERARAI



I won't call it mahaanta either. I have been wondering if Ishu has ever acted on something after Mr. Bhalla had specifically told the family they'd handle the matter in the morning (with a clear head).

As far as Ishu wanting to help Simmi. she definitely needs to learn a big lesson in life...never offer advice unless requested and mind your own business unless a person is in mortal danger in the moment, which wasn't the case this time.

Ishu was upset with Raman when he hid Adi's accident and when he resigned his president ship and got her license. This is another lesson she defintely needs to learn. She has to play the game by the same rules she wants Raman to. Raman handled the situation with a clear head.👏but Simmi was freaking out to listen to anything anyone had to say.😕

Is Param a leopard? Raman called him tattu and kutha🤔. Is he the guy with the most nicknames or what?😆


ya she shudnt have taken matters in her hands 😆 it might b ploy by Ishra dunno to teach simmi a lesson 😕 but if she is involved alone then she shudnt have done it.
N i didnt call pervy leopard (poor leopard) it was just a way of telling dear 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mnr123


ya she shudnt have taken matters in her hands 😆 it might b ploy by Ishra dunno to teach simmi a lesson 😕 but if she is involved alone then she shudnt have done it.
N i didnt call pervy leopard (poor leopard) it was just a way of telling dear 😆

That's true!😆 The way he ogles women and the background music when he or Ashok show up on screen is creepy.

Romi could have told Simmi about Param hitting on Sarika at the golgappa stand but then maybe he didn't want anyone to know he was courting Sarikaji yet.😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i totally agree to every word of ur post..simmi esp is one very confused/dheela character..she just cannot seem to decide her loyalties..her family, who inspite of "separating her from her husband" have been taking care of her day in and out and she seems to take it all for granted..lady,move out and see the world, how expensive and unsafe it is..she dsnt realise tht the very husband who she blindly and dumbly worships wud sell her off to the highest bidder ala ashok.. and i also am tired, to be frank, of her constant abuse towards ishita..get over it..ur entire family believes ur hubby is a scumbag..
shagun is another very wierd creature..actually felt bad for her the other day but she takes one look at a shiny thing and is all forgiving towards being bartered off for a deal..must say, new lambu is actually 3 degrees worse than old lambu..dint think tht was possible..but he does have shagun pegged down perfectly.. and she behaves in exactly the same way as he predicts..a gold-digger and trophy-girlfriend..
coming to ishita, apparently the karamchand ka bhoot which exists in all soap leads has entered her as well..and she goes out in the middle of the night, after lying to the very family which supports her whole-heartedly, to meet her molester, to invite him to live with them...am i the only one seeing the million flaws in this plan? not only can she get herself in deep trouble with her family, but it was so fricking stupidly unsafe..moreover she forgot it was a stupid text message which got her in trouble last time..and not to mention, if simmi saw this message, it wud just confirm her belief of ishita enticing param (dnt ask me WHY, but apparently simmi thinks he is sum Indian version of Brad Pitt tht no woman can resist)

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anu rulz

i totally agree to every word of ur post..simmi esp is one very confused/dheela character..she just cannot seem to decide her loyalties..her family, who inspite of "separating her from her husband" have been taking care of her day in and out and she seems to take it all for granted..lady,move out and see the world, how expensive and unsafe it is..she dsnt realise tht the very husband who she blindly and dumbly worships wud sell her off to the highest bidder ala ashok.. and i also am tired, to be frank, of her constant abuse towards ishita..get over it..ur entire family believes ur hubby is a scumbag..

shagun is another very wierd creature..actually felt bad for her the other day but she takes one look at a shiny thing and is all forgiving towards being bartered off for a deal..must say, new lambu is actually 3 degrees worse than old lambu..dint think tht was possible..but he does have shagun pegged down perfectly.. and she behaves in exactly the same way as he predicts..a gold-digger and trophy-girlfriend..
coming to ishita, apparently the karamchand ka bhoot which exists in all soap leads has entered her as well..and she goes out in the middle of the night, after lying to the very family which supports her whole-heartedly, to meet her molester, to invite him to live with them...am i the only one seeing the million flaws in this plan? not only can she get herself in deep trouble with her family, but it was so fricking stupidly unsafe..moreover she forgot it was a stupid text message which got her in trouble last time..and not to mention, if simmi saw this message, it wud just confirm her belief of ishita enticing param (dnt ask me WHY, but apparently simmi thinks he is sum Indian version of Brad Pitt tht no woman can resist)


Ishu's plan to me looks like swiss cheese.😛 She sees herself like superwoman or what...Param is taller and bigger than Raman...she isn't a martial arts expert (at least we don't know that she is) to fend him off so easily. What is galling is the urgency she saw in rushing out before she gave everyone their share of haldi doodh. I'd expect Shagun to rush out but even after Mrs. Iyer told her to be careful she lied to both her mothers and went to meet her molester who still makes passes at her without telling Raman. How come she doesn't follow the rules she expects of Raman?

Hope CVs are not messing with Ishu's character beyond repair.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with everything you have to say ... For me the biggest shocker is .. Ishita is a sensible educated woman with her brain in right places (errr ... am not sure after her actions ...), then why does she need to bypass the protocol and take matters in her hand?

Mr. Bhalla is the head of the house and if he has instructed everyone to sleep over it then she does not need to do things haphazardly. Even if she wants to meet Param, there is no way in the world, that Param will get divorce from Simmi in the middle of the night.

Ok ... she needs to take action .. I am ready to gulp that ... she has the guilt (guilt that a man tried to raped her ... Bruuaaahhh 😡... sounds alien to my ears) so she wants to fix the matters, but why not wait till the morning, meet him in a public place lets say in the middle of the day, where he will think 100 times before making a move. Ever heard of a secret sense of women dear? I mean we women have the knack to sense danger and recognize looks from so far off ...

Not to mention, it gives a wrong message ... I watched Mardaani this weekend ... while that movie is all about women power, at the same time, the biggest USP of the movie is the fact that the protagonist is logical, rational and takes calculated risk. She is a sensible woman who is completely aware of her strength and weaknesses and utilizes them in the best possible manner.

Imagine my agony ... It was simply not acceptable for me .. even if they show Ishita has mahaan later in the track, or may be she is able to uncover Param later on, in no way whatsoever, her actions can be justified.
To conclude, it is utterly stupid, foolish and brainless move.


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