Divyanka Talking About Why Ishita Brings Parmeet At Home - Video

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Jyoe

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Jyo while I understand your POV but I can so see why she did this - this is like her last resort - Simi always keep blaming her for her broken marriage and home and while she has her reasons to say that... not ONCE has any family member told her don't point your finger at Ishita... nor has anyone explicitly told Ishita its NOT her fault.

Ishita is still finding her feet in a way in this new home and family and here the daughter of the house keeps on blaming her of things she never should and while she has the support of the others... she fears the others might have that very problem in their hearts and minds, that somehow she might have to hear because of you Ishita Simi' happy marriage fell apart.

When Ishita initially came to her MIL and Simi with this problem they didnt even believe her... and now even though she has the belief of her MIL, she hasn't been made to believe no one blames her for this mess.

She wants to rip the bandaid off for once so to speak and for that sometimes desperate measures are needed. Also how can we forget - this guy is a family member till he stays married to Simi, so until and unless they get her to wake up and smell the coffee he won't be out of their lives, that he wont stay away permanently is a given since they have a child together - but unless Simi cuts him off they would have his shadow always breathing down their necks. Not to mention she is seeing how this affects Raman and how last night his sister said those words to him.

Whatever Ishita is doing is for Raman' sake as well here - she sees how his worry for his sister is tearing him apart and how hearing those words from Simi must have hurt him cos Raman may not show it in any other way than his anger but he is very emotional and gets hurt easily. The sister who has known him all his life has forgotten that truth blinded by the love of a repulsive man but the woman who has just entered his life cannot see the man who has always stood by her in any kind of pain.

Aah Aani! What do I say to you girl! 😊

Thank for giving this perspective. It just made me look at the whole thing in a different way and am glad that you shared this perspective with me. I guess I sometimes just look at the superficial things the way they are shown on the show..but you are one of the ppl who get deep into the characters and are able to understand why a character is behaving that way.. and what is the reason behind it.

Thank you..big wala! 😊 Now I am ready to sit and watch the coming up track peacefully!

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Sandysprings

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Still illogical but let's see what will happen...

Hope at least we will get to see possessive/protective Raman..

Thanks for WU..

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Aani

@EkPaheli

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Jyoe

Aah Aani! What do I say to you girl! 😊

Thank for giving this perspective. It just made me look at the whole thing in a different way and am glad that you shared this perspective with me. I guess I sometimes just look at the superficial things the way they are shown on the show..but you are one of the ppl who get deep into the characters and are able to understand why a character is behaving that way.. and what is the reason behind it.

Thank you..big wala! 😊 Now I am ready to sit and watch the coming up track peacefully!

Hey thanks Jyo actually last night' epi made me think this - when Simi goes on her blame Ishita mission again for the nth time... no one even says a word like why are you blaming her in this your filthy husband went after her, she didn't provoke him and ask him to come and molest her not even Raman... while they are protecting Ishita, defending her and all - which is a good thing - they need to make her know, no one blames her in THIS family. Her own family especially Mihika was vocal about things when Ishita was back at her Amma' that how can these people do this to you Akka... I rem I loved the gal for her feistiness there but among the Bhallas has anyone ever told her you don't need to blame yourself for Simi' ruined marriage - Pervy is a filthy guy and he would target anything that moves which has a bosom... and that is less than 40 in terms of age... the truth coming out because of what happened with you is unfortunate but NOT your fault. I guess thats what makes Ishita feel so guilty for Simi too.

As is said hear a lie often times and you start believing it and that is I think what is happening here too... Ishita while knowing she is not wrong feels if not for her Simi could have been happier even if living under an illusion.

And with the incident on Rakhi day that happened between Shagun and Tyagi, which Ishita might have learned from Raman perhaps or witnessed... she would be scared to have her SIL - Raman' sis - live in the home of such a man, if he can pimp Shagun, his namesake fiance in front of the world, Simi is the sister of the man he hates, would he even think once before doing the same with her if someone offered him a deal in lieu of her and could that husband of hers be trusted to protect his wife should such an occasion arise?

Loads to ponder here even if it may seem an act of Mahaanta or illogical at surface value.

Edited by EkPaheli - 11 years ago