Why so much concern about Raman and Ishita Doing IT?? - Page 3

Definitely agree! What I love most about this show is how Raman and Ishita have been slowly building up their relationship since day one...not only does it make for a more realistic relationship, it makes their relationship much stronger.

Hats off for your post dear!!!!!
Totally agree!!!!

Nice post. It changes your pov. Great work

Thank you for this much needed post!

It was disappointing reading some of the posts and comments in the forum today...some of it was just gross, to be very honest.

I understand that some aspects of the show have started to irk me...this lame ass track needs to end and Raman needs to step up for sure...but this whole push for consummation is kind of ehhh lol

Theirs is a relationship that was built for one reason...one person...Ruhi. They hated each other. There was never any expectation of anything more from either of them...but there is definitley passion between them, and more importantly respect and trust (well at least until Raman's about face crappiness!). They've only just become friends amidst this high voltage famil drama all the time...rushing off to get their jollies off all of a sudden would be weird and out of character.

I want them to fall in love, bu for that to happen they need to respect and trust each other first...it's always 1 step forward and 10 leaps back for them in this regard...the cvs need to end this pattern cuz is getting annoying! Love doesn't just mean physical love...it is much deeper then that...this whole rush to get them to "just do it already" is crass...it's kind of shallow and the whole reasoning behind this push is regressive thinking at it's worst!

While I understand what u guys are trying to say. Fact of the matter a marriage is based on emotional as well as physical barriers being broken. Right now for them to call each other husband and wife for the sake if someone is truly unrealistic. They can be good friends but that doesn't amount to marriage. In the book they actually loved each other. I guess some of you are more familiar with eastern principles of arranged marriages and I guess maybe you have gone through being married for months without physical intimacy and perhaps this is normal for you. But I think to some until they get to that point she is really Just a really good ayah who loved the kid. Kind like the show the Nanny. Just my thoughts offense.

Originally posted by: sunny303

Thank you for this much needed post!

It was disappointing reading some of the posts and comments in the forum today...some of it was just gross, to be very honest.

I understand that some aspects of the show have started to irk me...this lame ass track needs to end and Raman needs to step up for sure...but this whole push for consummation is kind of ehhh lol

Theirs is a relationship that was built for one reason...one person...Ruhi. They hated each other. There was never any expectation of anything more from either of them...but there is definitley passion between them, and more importantly respect and trust (well at least until Raman's about face crappiness!). They've only just become friends amidst this high voltage famil drama all the time...rushing off to get their jollies off all of a sudden would be weird and out of character.

I want them to fall in love, bu for that to happen they need to respect and trust each other first...it's always 1 step forward and 10 leaps back for them in this regard...the cvs need to end this pattern cuz is getting annoying! Love doesn't just mean physical love...it is much deeper then that...this whole rush to get them to "just do it already" is crass...it's kind of shallow and the whole reasoning behind this push is regressive thinking at it's worst!

Great post...thanks for putting in words like this...our show is an outstanding show with an excellent story backing it and does not need to resort to just the physical relations of the leads...!!

great much needed post... thank you for conveying the maturity and realistic content of the YHM. The show will loose its charm if the consummation takes place just to appease the audience who are upset with the current track... or any other track that presents friction and difference between the 2 leads.

gud post...im too nt understanding...first let them realise thr love for eachother

Originally posted by: Tunaraj

While I understand what u guys are trying to say. Fact of the matter a marriage is based on emotional as well as physical barriers being broken. Right now for them to call each other husband and wife for the sake if someone is truly unrealistic. They can be good friends but that doesn't amount to marriage. In the book they actually loved each other. I guess some of you are more familiar with eastern principles of arranged marriages and I guess maybe you have gone through being married for months without physical intimacy and perhaps this is normal for you. But I think to some until they get to that point she is really Just a really good ayah who loved the kid. Kind like the show the Nanny. Just my thoughts offense.

Yes, marriage is (for some) ideally be based on an emotional and physical connection...it should be based on love, which I said in my post, includes love trust and passion...

But, that's the ideal (and it should be said that it's an ideal for some not all) but not all marriages fit this ideal...in the east or the west. People marry for money, for connections, for citizenship, because it's what their families want or what they think they should do...some people get married because they get pregnant...not just for love. It sucks, but it's the truth. Some people have open marriages, some get divorced and remarried..

IshRa got married so that they could gain custody of Ruhi. They understood what they were getting into, they are adults.

They got married in a religious ceremony amongst family...and not everyone was aware of the deal so to speak...they could have gotten married in court real quick but they needed to legitimize it and give it a little more heft...now it's not just a legal contract, which marriages legally are, it has been solmenized by religious ceremony and vows.

Ishita seems to be taking those vows seriously.

They have a marriage,it's unconventional sure, but it is a marriage.