My questions to Raman his defenders and writers | DT note p.21 - Page 21

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Well here are my questions to Raman his defenders and writers of show so here it goes

Why doesn't he remember Ruhi birth welli know things were bitter then between him and Shagun but know he loves Ruhi so he can atleast try to remember now

Why does only adi come to his mind as good memory and not Ruhi

Was he trying to emotionally blackmail ishita with adi talk now that he realises she knows adi did the accident

What was the expression he was carrying throughout the episode and no remorse or guilt for accusing ishita of switching photos

well. in flash back before shagun left Raman, Raman praising ruhi looks as angel. but when shagun left him he can't spend moments with ruhi even he loved her so much. in adi case he is first born child,so it is first experience to him.it just became memories. in ruhi case also he might feel it.but it isn't first experience. so may he always noted adi. emotional blackmail.no. why should he blackmail her if he didn't know that Ishita knows the truth. he isn't accusing her for photo swapping, he logically said we sharing this room that's may she misplaced it without knowing what it has. his words make her broke down. when she confronts him he can't tell her the truth of saving adi. his inability and guilty became angry so he left the place with anger.

Originally posted by: suseesuez

I really want to know answer from one who accuses Raman for selfish in adi case. them answer me didn't Ishita do selfish in param case. in fact Raman feeling guilty about his actions. himself knows he did mistake then how could we accuse him. I agree he did mistake but I hope he will clear all.

Is it required to answer to this question every time?
Parmeet-Ishita case was different considering their relationship growth. They were still as ruhi's parents that time..not husband-wife. After Ishita leaves Bhalla house both started feeling for each other and after she returned back home, their relationship started as husband-wife...trust started building. Still, lemme remind you, she still wanted to share this thing with Raman, but what was our dear Raman doing? He was with Adi that time too. If he doesn't stop being selfish about Adi, he will end up losing Ishita-Ruhi both though not physically, but emotionally.
Now, when they shared a trust, husband-wife convo in the party on 20th June and when Raman promised to treat her as a well wisher of Adi, what was all this not trusting her to share this Adi accident news? Why? Shagun told..that's why? Why Shagun still gets importance to him..as Adi's mother? So, let her be in that place. Why did he have to listen to her when he knows Ishita well..his wife? He is also Adi's father. He too has the right to take a decision for Adi. How did Shagun take all decisions regarding Adi in this accident matter till last night? If he considers that he can do anything for Adi's welfare, why did he hesitate even to talk with Adi about this matter and make him understand? Answer these please.
One more thing, you asked about selfishness thing, right? Why did Ishita stop to tell that to Raman apart from her trust thing? It's because she thought about 'RAMAN's FAMILY', not her ownself, not even her own family. Raman...about whom did he think?---His himself and Adi. And, this is obviously selfishness. Well, if you don't understand what selfishness is then I can't make you understand anything else.
And, BTW, he will clear all cos CVs are always hell bent on making him hero at the end of every mistake of him. But, all say he is a real character, excuse me, I dint see such a real man who makes mistakes every time and takes the right decision at the end. Infact they learn from this mistake and refrain from it next time. But, for that time being, they can't get out of that mistake that easily at least not becoming a hero. It's an unrealistic approach in my view what Raman is being shown to do. CVs could've made some other to solve the mess..may be it could've been Bala. But, no they have to show it by the favorite hero na😆!
And, as for the questions asked by Vyas, many have answered all the questions...and they did it not blindly.

Originally posted by: suseesuez

I really want to know answer from one who accuses Raman for selfish in adi case. them answer me didn't Ishita do selfish in param case. in fact Raman feeling guilty about his actions. himself knows he did mistake then how could we accuse him. I agree he did mistake but I hope he will clear all.

you are comparing apple and oranges

Before pervert did his kand he was son in law and you can't accuse son in law of molestation

Raman was hanging around with his ex wife

And in case of adi he had promised to tell everything

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

Is it required to answer to this question every time?
Parmeet-Ishita case was different considering their relationship growth. They were still as ruhi's parents that time..not husband-wife. After Ishita leaves Bhalla house both started feeling for each other and after she returned back home, their relationship started as husband-wife...trust started building. Still, lemme remind you, she still wanted to share this thing with Raman, but what was our dear Raman doing? He was with Adi that time too. If he doesn't stop being selfish about Adi, he will end up losing Ishita-Ruhi both though not physically, but emotionally.
Now, when they shared a trust, husband-wife convo in the party on 20th June and when Raman promised to treat her as a well wisher of Adi, what was all this not trusting her to share this Adi accident news? Why? Shagun told..that's why? Why Shagun still gets importance to him..as Adi's mother? So, let her be in that place. Why did he have to listen to her when he knows Ishita well..his wife? He is also Adi's father. He too has the right to take a decision for Adi. How did Shagun take all decisions regarding Adi in this accident matter till last night? If he considers that he can do anything for Adi's welfare, why did he hesitate even to talk with Adi about this matter and make him understand? PAnswer these please.
One more thing, you asked about selfishness thing, right? Why did Ishita stop to tell that to Raman apart from her trust thing? It's because she thought about 'RAMAN's FAMILY', not her ownself, not even her own family. Raman...about whom did he think?---His himself and Adi. And, this is obviously selfishness. Well, if you don't understand what selfishness is then I can't make you understand anything else.
And, BTW, he will clear all cos CVs are always hell bent on making him hero at the end of every mistake of him. But, all say he is a real character, excuse me, I dint see such a real man who makes mistakes every time and takes the right decision at the end. Infact they learn from this mistake and refrain from it next time. But, for that time being, they can't get out of that mistake that easily at least not becoming a hero. It's an unrealistic approach in my view what Raman is being shown to do. CVs could've made some other to solve the mess..may be it could've been Bala. But, no they have to show it by the favorite hero na😆!
And, as for the questions asked by Vyas, many have answered all the questions...and they did it not blindly.

Perfect post tanni

Yeyyy one more party...kya pata isitha bhi chalijaye...LOL...jokes apart..
Perfectly said..it was more about adi and raman
@appuss

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@divz you mistook my triangle. I didn't talk about param-ishita-Raman.I talked about param - Ishita -sarika.why she didn't try to give justice for sarika. how could she think to give another chance for param.is it because he is her relative.then what about sarika. then what about justice.if she can bias then Raman too.I also remind you Raman also want to share things with Ishita.now from beginning when Raman got truth he totally shattered. obviously ourselves also can't digest it so easily. before he trying to recollect himself adi and shagun drama made him to loose his senses. before understanding shagun trap he promised shagun that he will clear all mess.now you answer me keep promise or not hurting others in both which is right and which is wrong. we can't justify because they both are right in their own way.I also agree second one is better but we can't take decision blindly. it needs time to choose the perfect path when both are right. some times things have upper hand over truth and lie. if adi is his blind love why should he confront adi for his bad behavior. Raman didn't mean to adi he will save him every time. but shagun only manipulated him to think so. if Raman only thinks about adi then why should he support amma in court. why he didn't want enjoy the party of shagun for winning this case. if it's true he didn't have to call doctor which Ishita forgot. he loves iyers but he loves adi more than that. you can't see all his nature only because of you are biased with Ishita. if Ishita is righteous she didn't have to bias. she can leave param from this case for simmi.that time she didnt think about her mother pain.she didnt get guilt.that time Raman only wanted justice.today Raman may not deliver justice but he feels ashamed.most importantly I never like to leave crimes but I believe in second Chance. most of us can't understand this fact. because they have definitions of big crime and small crime but forget small crime also crime. for every single post I'm explaining the thing Raman did it for parental careless not for blind love. if he had blind love, he don't have to feel guilty and he would support adi in his every crime.but Raman confronted adi for misbehaving with his teachers. he realised till with shagun adi can't become good. so we have to see upcoming episodes how he take JDC decision. till today he just behaved what he is. he may not followed his morals but he respects his morals he didn't change it for circumstances. until this track comes to end it's wrong to declare.@mancityfan apples and oranges are under save roof named as fruits. they both are best on their own ways. same here IshRa works on their own ways. but partiality made Ishita as mahan.

@suseesuez...that's what I said also. Ishita doesn't think about herself or for one single person before doing anything. She generally considers what's the collective effect of her decision would be. She dint want whole Bhalla family to shatter because of her giving justice to Sarika.
And, leaving Param for Simmi also has the same reason. She wanted to have justice for her mom, but Toshi jee cried before her mom telling about her family, simmi and her kid. If not for anything else, she had to think about Ananya at least. She dint want Ananya to be deprived of even her mother's love.
Now, when she knew Shagun is the culprit she dint have to think about her, cos she is no one to Bhalla family. Even Adi too is not related to her like Ruhi is. And, if Shagun gets into jail, Adi would have Ashok with him as she knows Adi likes Ashok. So, there was no one gonna be affected by fighting with Shagun, not even Raman. Why would she stop then?
You said, we are biased for Ishita, I too can say the same for you, that's why you are justifying all his mistakes. I wonder, if he murdered someone, still some people would justify him😆. I have never seen anyone such selfish like Raman in my whole life, that's why I can't understand him, this I am telling for a long time. But, I have seen Ishita around me and even in me. I'll get her POV easily. But, still as a father, his at least duty was to make Adi realize that he was wrong, he could've talked with him, he dint, he did what...he took him to picnic. And, suddenly now he has got senses and wants to punish Adi a tough one, where only a good conversation with would could make the difference long before.
Raman have principles, but not morals. Morals wouldn't let him do such mistakes always. Ishita has morals, but I don't say she doesn't mistake. She too does...but not like Raman so frequently and big. And, how she become mahaan? She is still fighting with herself whether to punish Adi or not. She is considering the future of Adi. She is hesitating to take this decision now cos now it's a matter of effect on whole Bhalla family, it's about Raman's son. Here, also she is thinking about the collective effect, not about her own mom. Her mom asked her to drop the case before too, but she dint hesitate. Now she is hesitating cos she knows her one decision will affect Bhallas. For Raman, Adi is his son. Taking decisions regarding him is easier for him than Ishita, cos he has the right. He took this after making all messes. So, what's the use. He has already encouraged Adi for future crimes. And, as per spoilers when Adi will be released he will be very happy. What does this mean...he did a show off to send Adi to JDC just to get Ishita's trust? Cos, if he really wanted punishment for Adi, he would've be happy considering he is the father, but he wouldn't have been very happy.

@divz once again read my previous post. I posted that people like you can't understand this fact. because you have definitions of big crime and small crime but forgets small crime also crimes. because you give partiality to crimes. in previous episodes per marriage she lied about Raman to balas mom for saving her mother honour. with out knowing Raman shagun relation she blamed Raman. in bala case what happened. if she is righteous she have to prove innocence not to stop accusers. in param case yourself agreed she did partiality. then why are blaming Raman only. when she did accident why she didn't the truth to Raman.I agree she did it for patient. but my question is why did she lie. that time you didn't ask any questions. because you consider this as small mistakes. when Ishita did injustice to sarika you considered it as collective effect. but when Raman did you say selfish. in previous post Raman did this for keeping his promise. don't you keep your promises. am I biased with Raman. big no. I didn't say he is at no fault. I agree he did mistakes. my question is why are you blaming Raman alone when Ishita also did mistakes. I accept them as they are. I'm trying to understand their both p.o.v. till today I didn't accuse Ishita.but it irritates me when Raman only accused. I agree he did big mistake. yeah pretty big too. but principles like" leave small ones only consider big mistake" makes me irritate. he also want adi to realise his mistakes.if he didn't want it then no need to tell truth to Ishita. he can't able to deem him ours because of he restricted to with adi. he gave adi another chance. he misused it, we have to see how he take decision. he did as Ishita does. what Raman want to show off sending Adi to JDC for Ishita. see biasing with Ishita made yourself to forget most important fact that is Raman is prosecutor not judge.