My questions to Raman his defenders and writers | DT note p.21 - Page 11

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--



I never take it personally

Was just putting my point across


I meant to say that if anyone is feeling bad seeing comments against one of the characters and taking it to the heart. That's why😳.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

vyas just lik u feel when ppl lik me say precap ws abt Raman-the father sharing memories of his 1st child durin the initial preg stages dont make sense to u..SAME goes for me when ppl say raman ws "usin"/taunting/emotionally blackmailin ishita-DONT MAKE sense to me..!!

IMO he ws just sharin his memories n also y blackmail when he still donno as per yday epi tht he still thinks ishu DONT knw adi's truth?



But why should saying blackmail or taunting be classified as stooping low

That was out of natural progression of way he was behaving yesterday

There was distinct change in attitude from his majboori wala behaviour

So you never know

And mostly it would be Raman getting overexcited like always

But that does not mean you can say about a possibility

Considering in name of saving adi he has pushed all sort of barriers

Long before he accused ishita of stealing photos

I said that 2 days earlier and ppl were saying he won't go that low

When he actually did that same ppl said he did that out of majboori and stress

Anyway
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Posted: 11 years ago
vyas if u say i am sayin possibility..then wh u r doin?scene is not evn on air yet...atleast wait till it comes...i am sure neither ur pov gonna change neither mine's evn aftr epi on airs 😆 bt the best thing rite nw is atleast let epi come n then ppl sayin diff stuffs-i can try to understand wht made u or nyone say things lik tht..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni


I meant to say that if anyone is feeling bad seeing comments against one of the characters and taking it to the heart. That's why😳.

ohk
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Posted: 11 years ago
i can see v r headin nowhere...

so i will say v can agree to disagree...

whtevr i wanted to say i hv told-n i STILL STICK to it...if tht makes anyone here feels i am bein biased/defending him ya what not..let it be...i am NOT here to please anyone...!! lik ppl said here things against track,chars..i said things IN FAVOUR for the track n chars as i hv more than enough reasons to prove it WHY...😊
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

i can see v r headin nowhere...

so i will say v can agree to disagree...

whtevr i wanted to say i hv told-n i STILL STICK to it...if tht makes anyone here feels i am bein biased/defending him ya what not..let it be...i am NOT here to please anyone...!! lik ppl said here things against track,chars..i said things IN FAVOUR for the track n chars as i hv more than enough reasons to prove it WHY...😊


Same goes for me
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Posted: 11 years ago
i agree with TM abt ruhi not being given priority for a lot of instances..i understand tht adi is his first born and his reason to become a father for the first time, etc etc..but with every memory he shares abt adi, is it not possible fr the writers to atleast MENTION one tiny sentence abt ruhi..seriously, the way raman becomes bipolar arnd ruhi, makes me think ruhi has only one parent, tht is ishita..come on CVs, even after the heart-wrenching scene of ruhi being the only one in the bhalla household to sit with him and feed him when he was alone, can raman not come up with a single sentence in memory of how ruhi's birth made him feel? its not impossible, but very one-sided writing on the part of the makers to shove adi-raman pyar down our throats..
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: anu rulz

i agree with TM abt ruhi not being given priority for a lot of instances..i understand tht adi is his first born and his reason to become a father for the first time, etc etc..but with every memory he shares abt adi, is it not possible fr the writers to atleast MENTION one tiny sentence abt ruhi..seriously, the way raman becomes bipolar arnd ruhi, makes me think ruhi has only one parent, tht is ishita..come on CVs, even after the heart-wrenching scene of ruhi being the only one in the bhalla household to sit with him and feed him when he was alone, can raman not come up with a single sentence in memory of how ruhi's birth made him feel? its not impossible, but very one-sided writing on the part of the makers to shove adi-raman pyar down our throats..

thanks

He could atleast remember a tiny detail Ruhi
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Posted: 11 years ago

Not a Raman defender as you accuse 😛 but a genuine folower of the serial.
Still I'm tryin to answer u so that I can convince myself. 😆

Why doesn't he remember Ruhi birth welli know things were bitter then between him and Shagun but know he loves Ruhi so he can atleast try to remember now

Why does only adi come to his mind as good memory and not Ruhi

People generally don't talk about the times when they are stained even if they have their happy moments then. I am the second kid of my family and I hv noticed my dad enthusiastically talkin abt my big sis's childhood more than mine. And finally I asked my mom don't u remember my days? She told me that by the time I ws growing up, things were a bit tensed coz my dad was partially paralysed on one leg for almost a year and then we had an accident. In all these somehow they don't have much fond memories to share. Doesn't mean they don't love me. But that time brings back those painful memories. So they never recalled and somehow there was not much to share.

Was he trying to emotionally blackmail ishita with adi talk now that he realises she knows adi did the accident


Don't knw coz its just a precap. Raman won't do that bcoz we knw he is goin to tke Adi to detention room. Too much of spoilers is the main reason for our disappointment otherwise we would have been relieved by yeserday'ss epi.

What was the expression he was carrying throughout the episode and no remorse or guilt for accusing ishita of switching photos

Ok, now this is a much valid question. Too much of anything will push a man to the saturation point. Ishita's goodness and his repeated misjudgement has pushed him to a level that he can't face that remorse or guilt. Its like we knw we are wrong and we can't do anything abt it. So lets just not think abt it and focus on the things that have to be done first. May be it is this remorse and the sense of responsibility towards his son, he would complaint against Adi. He defended Ishu in front of Shagun coz she is his wife. If he doubts her or not is between them. No third person is required. And somewhere he has been hurt of being accused of loving Shagun. The thoguth repulses him that Ishu thinks so low of him. But if he dwelled on that the truth would be out. Hence the rough exterior and plane expression, another instance of good acting by KP.

Thnx for the post. I have convinced myself. 😳


Edited by madhubala123 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
Bang On! never thought about these things but after reading it looks as if Ruhi is getting overlooked in Raman's memories!

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