@rock I agreed Raman hurting Ishita but matter is how. why should she get hurt when he hang with shagun. it's because she fall on him. if we have to under stand yhm, we have to travel from beginning. at pre marriage ishra got wrong dimensions about each other. at beginning Ishita thought Raman is love less and uncaring father. at engagement she told iyer that RanJan won't get any love from her. at marriage share thought Raman is a monster who beat his son. at Dna track she got fishy about Raman shagun relation. at shopping episode she said don't have to care Raman shagun relation but you can see slight disappointment in her expressions.at mihir engagement she stated him as friend. after speech she realised shagun haunts Raman. at picnic she expressed her trust. at amma conversation she feels bad for she is unlucky to get Raman love. she did marriage for ruhi now she got nice sasural and two nice devars still she feels some empty. she can lie herself but in heart she knows she deserves her husband's love and care. now in Raman case, Ishita got break down and hurt because Raman lies. but we forgot Raman trusted and loved blindly shagun. when she cheated him he caught break down like Ishita infact compare to Ishita he got ultimate hurt. he lost trust on women. at pre marriage Raman thought ishita as gold digger. at marriage he understood her car towards ruhi. at DNA track he treated her as ruhi maa. at Holli track he realised Ishita and ruhi also important in his life. at engagement he treated her as friend. after speech agenda he shared his problem with her as well wisher. at anniversary party he gave a place with adi and ruhi.unbelievable ishra fall in love whom they hate most. it isn't because of compromise but their goodness did it.but Raman always have his own mates like ashok, shagun, adi and param.we don't have to hate adi because adi not born as bad.he manipulated asbad by shagun and ashok.he didn't misbehave with bala.but why with ishra and ruhi.he didn't know what is pure love.for him shagun is mother not lovely and caring mother.without her he doesn't know what will happen.he knowsashok won't care him. it isn't love but selfishness. he is good at heart but it need exist. Raman clearly knows ashok and shagun play with him using adi. he didn't want adi life to suffer because of ashok shagun Raman triangle revenge. how can he explain adi his marital relation with Ishita as no intimacy but just deal for ruhi. at school track Raman impressed me with his lines. "you don't know how much I love you, I know you are annoyed with me but you can't show your anger on me to others like shravan.I always trying to explain you that I'm at no fault but you didn't understand that.I hope you will understand me one day".its true most of us blaming Raman for supporting adi but we forgot Raman is the one who opposed shagun when she gifted a car to Adi. he blamed her for gifting such a things to immature kid for seeking revenge. but now accident happened we can't change it. we can't blame only adi when main culprits are ashok and shagun. what will happen if anyone knows 11 year old kid did accident then it will become article. and adi future would spoil. he knows adidid mistake but he is good kid who badly manipulated by shagun. he doesn't save adi for blind love but for Adi not to suffer because of shagun revenge drama.I also agree Raman didn't do right but at same time we can't spoil another for someone misuse. he will surely turntables as does in school. he must make adi to realise his mistakes. it isn't time for it. Raman feels guilty only because he knows he doing wrong. if it's blind love then there is no place forguilt. he dying to tell Ishita the truth but shaguncleverly got his promise for its must keep as secret to Ishita. Ishita MU him as he loves Shagun.I really want ishra to understand he was bonded by his enemies and loves, cares, supports him to over come his problems. when adi realise Raman and ishra goodness as Ishita does then there is happy bhalla family of ishra with adi and ruhi. and most important one is big slap from Ishita to shagun for interference in her and her pati personal life.