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Posted: 11 years ago
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Poor bala,why should he tutor adi? Raman again falling into trap by taking action before thinking things through. i really hoping he refuses.
Biggest question is why raman involved in finding a tutor for him 😕
Edited by momb24 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Sorry I missed your post.
It would have been more clear more true if ever the parents were called...Both children of Raman need a teacher at home(their dad is CEO😉)
I think instead of sending Bala, why Raman did not take him to the office at least till he finds a new job if Bala wanted...
Sorry to say this Aditya is a completely spoilt brat, but sometimes it is shown as it is his nature, he's like Shagun he likes everything which shines in his eyes and wants to have a lavish life.
So how one can change him?? if a boy does not respect his own father, how can one expect him to respect his professor...no way.

One more thing when he gave his statement in the court that Raman beat him, he was grown up enough to know that he was clearly lying.So already he forgot NO NO!!!


Children are easily influenced by parents at a very young age. Shagun has poisoned Adi's mind about Raman. He is too young to understand that there are two sides to every story. He's also angry that his father remarried. Yet he doesn't question his mother living with Ashok. He's blinded by the lifestyle he's living. Maybe over time he'll start to see he's been conned by his mother and Ashok.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rockstar29

Adi doesn't need bala as teacher he needs a good acting guru


Am I the only one who sees Aditya's portrayal as acceptable... his behavior is apt given his life's story. There is always room for imrpovement in his acting skills.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34
really scared for bala now and ishra will be in trouble for sure .
bala thing might lead to clue that adi hit iyer and panouti helped him using sim with help of simmi .
why i strongly feel this accident will lead to adi entering bhallas house forcefully i mean shagun carelessness might be a browny point for raman to get the custody and now that ishra have strong feelings will rift apart i mean raman might send ishu back to iyers or forced to leave her for adi sake and khamosiya promo will turn to truth .
ishra will be in love but physically apart .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think Raman asked Bala to go tutor Adi on his own. He requested him to do so after he found out that Bala had been offered a job to tutor Adi. After all, he is his father and wants someone in his son's life who can guide him as he knows Shagun and Ashok will not.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Raman touched me as a father .

He knows he has no custody , no influence on Shagun who is taking Adi on wrong path .

He can do nothing for Adi but helplessly watch him .

So when circumstances fall within his reach that gives him a little leeway to manipulate things for Adi , legally right or wrong , he does it , the parent in him that never says die or allows him to give up does it .

Its not for helping Bala's pride , Raman could have got him tutions elsewhere and not let his name be known . Its purely for Adi . Staying out of the picture he wants to ensure Adi is in good hands . Thats the way i read it .

Going to any extent for his son ...irrespective of how he treats him , placating Bala and Ishita shows what Ishita said is true ...Adi is in his heart .

Legally correct father or no , Raman is a father out and out .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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As a father Raman will find it very difficult to stay way from adi's life because he loves him unconditionally and secondly he realises that its shaguns influence that has seeded this hatred in Adis heart for him, the fact that bala is going into his own pitfall i agree but look at the positives that'll come out of this: Balas calming and kind influence will give adi the real father figure he's never had and may help in erasing the animosity towards raman, also Bala has exclusive access to that house so just as param has access to ramans house via simmi so does Raman now against Ashok/Parmet and it could help identify the hit and run IF anyone from that house is involved in it and alos could help in finally getting the blindfolds of Simmi over the true face of Param, Im sure our CEO of the year kept all this in mind when pushing Bala to accept the job😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Raman touched me as a father .


He knows he has no custody , no influence on Shagun who is taking Adi on wrong path .

He can do nothing for Adi but helplessly watch him .

So when circumstances fall within his reach that gives him a little leeway to manipulate things for Adi , legally right or wrong , he does it , the parent in him that never says die or allows him to give up does it .

Its not for helping Bala's pride , Raman could have got him tutions elsewhere and not let his name be known . Its purely for Adi . Staying out of the picture he wants to ensure Adi is in good hands . Thats the way i read it .

Going to any extent for his son ...irrespective of how he treats him , placating Bala and Ishita shows what Ishita said is true ...Adi is in his heart .

Legally correct father or no , Raman is a father out and out .


Raman is legally correct here. He didn't contact Bakshi, Shagun, Adi or Bala about tutoring. Bakshi was contacted independently by Bala looking for a job and Shagun looking for a tutor. As a loving father concerned about his son's well being and education Raman is appealing to Bala a daddy himself and trying to influence his decision. Bala however, is bothered about tutoring Adi bec' of Ishu, but she's made it clear she's okay with it. 👍🏼

Will Bala get the young Bhalla boy to start thinking for himself instead of just accepting what he hears and reads/learns? For learning to think for oneself instead of blind acceptance is the purpose of education.

Whether Adi comes to live with the Bhallas willingly or not will determine whether it affects Raman and Ishita's marriage.

Bala could easily come upon evidence about Amma's accident...the blue thingy in the white car, Simmi meeting Param in secret and even shed light on the real Raman to Adi. Hopefully Adi will open up to Bala about his life. Bala believes children need to play and have fun too, so he may draw out Adi to be the child he still is.
Edited by MERARAI - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Will Bala get the young Bhalla boy to start thinking for himself instead of just accepting what he hears and reads/learns? For learning to think for oneself instead of blind acceptance is the purpose of education.

Actually i cannot wait for the Bala Adi track .

When Raman remembered fondly how Adi wanted to be a pilot or scientist it touched me coz this is the way parents ALWAYS remember their kids . With their innocent dreams in their best years that come true or not later in life due to fate .

Yes , he is not legally wrong .

What he should ideally be doing , allowing the parent who has custody to take decisions is one thing , being perpetually involved with the kid emotionally is so real .

Wanting the best for the kid is again so real . This is where YHM turns real .

What Ishita said , about keeping the kid out of this mess , so educated .

An educated view was presented .

What is a parent with a pre teen out of control , whose custody he has lost .

Desperate , broken , emotionally vulnerable , egoless . He does not care if the kid loves him back , he goes straight to the bottomline . The one all parents see when they r dying prematurely ...that the kid must not have bad habits , a good education and use independence wisely . Thats what Raman sees .


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't know if Raman is wrong to ask Bala, but i definitely know one thing that age jaa ke all this will get complicated and will cause problems which could be avoided right from now, by not selecting Bala to tutor Aditiya. It'll just save a lot of heart ache...only if Raman thought about that. As a CEO maybe it should have crossed his mind.

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