Raman is schizophrenic?

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-kri-

@-kri-

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+ 7

Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Raman is finally falling for Ishita which he doesn't want to accept... He's basically the same person in denial mode when it comes to love, be it Mihir or himself...

When Ishita was explaining everything, his face expressions changed... He understands their love but for him, marriages must always have a ulterior motive rather than love alone which will die in its time course after marriage...

Also, both of them have ego problems... How can they listen to the other person easily... Also, this is the first time someone is standing up against his decisions, especially a woman in Bhalla house, his wife... So, he's bound to have problems with the same...

Raman can't change overnight... He's unknowingly getting attracted to her which can't be helped... So, no complaints...

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vandana21

@vdna

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Yea ..the least one can expect is respect...He has no reason to disrespect Ishita ...and should at least have a sane conversation with her ..Maybe he doesn't believe in love or whatever sh*t ..but that doesn't give you the permission to lash out at people who try to express their point of view! ..

More importantly, it's not in keeping with the rest of his behavior ...SO I agree Raman has schizophrenic tendencies ...but like another user so aptly pointed out those differences we perceive are maybe because part dialogues come from KP's own character and part stem from Raman's story character!!

Raman expected Ishu to come to him with the parmeet problem and that he will listen and understand ...How can she do that when the moment she talks anything serious he lashes out at her!!! ..Mr. Raman, you need to make urself more approachable before expecting people to approach you with their problems!! ..

Hope Ishu has a fitting reply!

Originally posted by: ..AnushaGeet..

Sometimes I just don't seem to understand his character.

One minute he will be all concerned for her when she winces even a bit, he will pull her leg, be himself and behave all normal. But as soon as she tries to express her views about him getting Mihir getting engaged, he will completely lose it and all the respect is tossed out of the window.

I simply don't understand what the cvs are experimenting with his character, can't he be stable for once.? Like if he respects her even a bit, he can be courteous enough to listen to what she has to say rather than lashing out on every time she mentions Mihir. On the contrary if he doesn't respect her even a bit, then there was no point of all the scenes we got last week where he brings her back and we see them understanding each other.

It's time his character is made stable than going through an emotional make over each day. It's kinda frustrating.

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chweetu

@chweetu

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

#13

well shagun was correct 4 d bhalla clan a sane person like ishu doesnt suit there ...

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Ishrafanno1

@Ishrafanno1

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#14

Raman behaves like a boy in elementary school. They usually bully the girl they like. He is doing the same thing here.

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amrithas

@amrithas

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#15

That being said I found Ishita's plans of beating Raman at his own game irritating as hell too. As unreasonable as Raman is being about the whole thing, why cant Mihir marry MIhika whom he loves while he himself can be married to her cousin Ishita n possibly falling for her. But coming back to the point, Like Bala said why blame Raman when its Mihir's the one at fault who cant speak up for himself n his love. The whole cause is unworthy I tell u. Mihir is not an innocent gullible child who has to be rescued.

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christy

@Amitz.Gibbore

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Exactly...i too feel the same about ramans character...are cvs failing to link..no effect of previous happenings..he is abusing...all ishra scenes seems a dream:(

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Anusha

@..AnushaGeet..

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: amrithas
That being said I found Ishita's plans of beating Raman at his own game irritating as hell too. As unreasonable as Raman is being about the whole thing, why cant Mihir marry MIhika whom he loves while he himself can be married to her cousin Ishita n possibly falling for her. But coming back to the point, Like Bala said why blame Raman when its Mihir's the one at fault who cant speak up for himself n his love. The whole cause is unworthy I tell u. Mihir is not an innocent gullible child who has to be rescued.

The topic isn't about Mihir anyway. Mihir and Raman are 2 individuals who are totally different from each other. The topic is how Raman behaves with Ishu, its his habit of being rude to her when it comes to Mihir and him. Mihir is anyway not standing up for himself. but Raman who claims to care for him is oblivious to anything but his belief that Mihir is fine and will do as told.
When Ishita is trying to say something, there has to be some substance in it, the girl is not mad to always try and talk to him and end up getting insulted by tolerating his nonsense. She still doesn't give up, she puts an effort to reason with him every time.

Mihir is definitely to be blamed, but Raman is no less.He really needs to stop insulting Ishu the way he does when it comes to Mihir. As for Ishu getting back to Raman in her own way, well he deserves it. The girl is trying to make him realize something for everyone's good which he is not ready to even listen. Had I been her, I would have left them to face the consequences, but Ishu being who she is will not give up.!

In the end, I really don't think its an effort by Ishu to save Mihir, it surely has to be more than that. We know she doesnt hold a very high opinion about Mihir, so she has to be doing it for a bigger reason which I guess is making Raman realize where he is lacking.!

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Sona

@Sona_Chandini

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+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Raman is definitely bi-polar and very unpredictable. Some of the things he says and does are rude and immature.

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blck234

@blck234

Explorer

Posted: 11 years ago

#19

Schizophrenia is horrible. It's an awful illness. If you have seen how it sucks out the life of an individual, you will know how terrifying it can be, both for the patient and his/her family members. Please don't use it so randomly as an adjective. I am sorry if I am out of line, please dont take offense dear.