Now tell me one thing

Bala accused Raman of allowing his mother to insult Ishita

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Bala accused Raman of allowing his mother to insult Ishita

how much control does he have on his much more nastier mom

Raman's mom is not that bad , quite ok and jovial on the whole

that particular day she was incensed coz the matter was only such , her daughter's marraige was on verge og breaking up , she was maybe wrong in reading things but she had an excuse to flare up

what excuse does Bala's horrible mom have

and what is Bala gonna do about it , has he been able to do anything till now ? No , nothing.

will he even find out his mom's kartoots .

bala didnt tell raman y didnt u control ur mum...its was mre like y didnt ybstand up for isjita whn ur mum was sayin this about her...bala has always supprtd ishu amd if will and has gone against his mum for ishu

my dear what does 'support' mean

Bala spoke like a concerned brother... It has nothing to do with who got Ishita out of jail etc etc...

Yup..To a certain extent, its true..But Bala has always tried his best to control his mom and has gone out of his way to help Ishita..Point is, if his mom had accused Vandu of something similar, he would have instantly blasted her and stood up for his wife..And he expected Raman to do the same..He has grown to understand Raman over the past few weeks and has certain expectations from him..Reason why he always motivated Ishita to work on her marriage even on those occasions when she was clearly disillusioned thanks to Raman's behavior..Now since Raman stood like a statue and din say a word in defense of Ishita, he felt betrayed in a way cos he had immense trust on Raman and his inherent goodness..It was just the impulsive action of a brother..In future, if Raman's sister faces a similar situation in her sasuraal and her hubby fails to defend her, Raman will blast him for sure..Now you cant ask him to shut up cos he never did anything to control his own mom right? So yeah, i do think it was just Bala's love and concern for Ishita which made him react that way..

Oh and while we as viewers know that Raman still trusts Ishita and is doing his best to prove her innocence, Bala or any other character has no freaking idea about his thought process..So i do get why they were frustrated with him..And Raman is not a silent character😆 He is highly opinionated and impulsive as hell😆 He is silent only on those occasions when he has to say thank you or sorry to Ishita😆

nice post. does parmeet instead of ishita eyed rinky n molested her n almost tried to rape rinky n if rinky tells to bhallas does toshi n raman react in d same way they did in ishita case.will toshi will say oye rinky tu chup kar don't spoil ur sis life n damki to keep mouth shut n after knowing this will raman patiently stand n listen is rinky r parmeet is right.no need to be voilent with parmeet but does all d bhallas react same way saying WAY they dealt with ishita in rinky r simmi case.for eg.. if same situation happened to simmi at her sasural n will toshi think of another family daughter's life n simmi on same pedestal n wat reactions will be of toshi,raman,romi,mr.bhalla if same thing n situation happened with rinky r simmi.