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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hey guys :) Hope all of you are having a great weekend. There have been many posts on this forum regarding how some members are not happy with the way Raman treats Ishita or how he uses her for his benefit and then always ends up hurting her. And I totally respect that pov too as we all are entitled to our opinions and each opinion is significant for the betterment of the show whether its to or fro.

But I honestly feel we shud give the cvs a chance to show what they want to. We all have felt that YHM is not a typical K brand show. Its more developed and cooked both in terms of content and characters. Also none of the kekta shows deteriorates before the couple has completed its love story and trps start falling.Its that stage only when Ekta starts ruining it with her useless twists and for YHM, that stage is still far.

And we have always known that Raman and Ishita are two flawed characters.From the very first epi we have understood that these two are bound to commit mistakes. Didnt Ishu do a huge mistake when she handed over Ruhi to Shagun? When she interfered into Raman's personal family matters w/o knowing the truth of his past? Or when may be she slapped him. Then why disappoint urself and spoil ur mood when Raman is being foolish and committing mistakes. Now the only difference in IshRa story is that Ishu has become very soft towards him. For her he is her husband now and that naturally makes her stand by him and his family, both consciously and sub-consciously. The fact that IshRa has always been equally bad with each other makes this one-sided ruthlessness of raman appear weird to us.And this is a good sign.Because Raman CANNOT be so bad and rude alone...there's a limit of hurting someone in void and that limit is very quickly reached when the person u r hurting no longer retorts back. Ishita no longer hurts him.She no longer insults him or replies back. And that is visibly disturbing him.First the simi secret...then the apology to adi and now she helping him in bidding fraud.Her goodness is creating a chaos within him and soon he would be forced to be considerate for her.

So I feel we shud let the cvs do with ishra what they want to because at the end this will only help them to come closer. There cannot be a separation before a union.There cannot be problems before happiness.So atleast UNTIL IshRa dont fall in love all the problems will only bring them closer and at the end its we who will rejoice it. So lets all take a chill pill and enjoy the show.Ofcourse the forum shud be kept alive with constructive criticism but why be upset with each other for a show.

At the end we all have one motive - A better YHM and a better Ishra :D :)

Thnks for bearing with my random ramblings...sorry if I bore u 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Malika, babe, you've done it again! :)
This is a very sensible, much needed and nicely written post, and, it honestly, speaks my heart out 😳 Just the feelings and thoughts that i have. I completely agree with it, Ive said it time and again, i DON'T want the CVs to take any action because of the useless demands of viewers, i really dont want them to do anything because of the audiences' pressure. I really pity the CVs and makers when they have to take certain decisions just because of some fans going bonkers with not liking something, for once, let them do what they want and lets just sit back, enjoy and see the outcome. They are way more experienced in the field and every way than we are, so we CAN NOT teach them how to run a show, however confident you are of yourself, you still can't!
I really like some of the lines you've written, with regards to IshRa...

" For her he is her husband now and that naturally makes her stand by him and his family, both consciously and sub-consciously. " < exactly! Very true. She has accepted it before Raman, but this doesn't mean shes in love, but she has accepted the marriage and his family as hers for sure, and im really really proud of Ishita for that :')

" Her goodness is creating a chaos within him and soon he would be forced to be considerate for her " < WOW! Very true. It very much IS IT. She no longer retorts or does stuff to annoy him (literal annoyance, not mazaak wali :P) and when you keep poking a person, and the person doesn't retort, trust me, its NO FUN. & thats exactly what will happen. Im very very positive, that we WILL see a change in Raman towards Ishita after the bidding fiasco. for sure, like we've already seen a change in Raman for Ruhi & Family... it will happen for Ishita too, let the CVs and IshRa take their sweet time... it will definitely be worth it! 😳

Lovely post again, Malika!
Edited by serendipity. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great Post Malika
Completely agree with you that we should give the CVs an opportunity to show what they want to. They have a bigger picture in mind that we are not privy to. So far they have given us content rich episodes, characters with depth, a fabulous cast, great acting, great dialogues and the story itself has a lot of possibility. The CVs are also testing the boundaries with this story and the 11pm slot. Lets allow ourselves to look at the show freshly. I am in for the long-haul and for now as a serial, it has not got to the intolerable or bored stage.

And yes, as you say we are dealing with flawed characters, thats why they pull at our heartstrings so.

The one example, you gave that i really liked is when Ishita handed Ruhi over to Shagun. Taken from a myopic view of that situation, I thought Ishu was interfering big time. And we can say, well the good thing that came out of it is we got IshRa and Ruhi got a good mother and Ishu got to be mother despite society. Yes it all was. But the way way bigger value of that action is that it served as a big wake-up call for Raman to start coming out of his morass and to rectify his behaviour with Ruhi.

Your point that also caught my attention is,

"...there's a limit of hurting someone in void and that limit is very quickly reached when the person u r hurting no longer retorts back. Ishita no longer hurts him.She no longer insults him or replies back. And that is visibly disturbing him.First the simi secret...then the apology to adi and now she helping him in bidding fraud.Her goodness is creating a chaos within him and soon he would be forced to be considerate for her. "

Many have posted, that there needs to a be separation for Raman to realize Ishu's value. I had initially thought that too. But by no longer retorting to Raman she is forcing him to turn inward...she is effectively disengaging in the power struggle; Isn't that also a separation, subtly, and as effective as a separation, if not more?

So i for one, am taking your advice. CHILLIN...😊


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Posted: 11 years ago
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love your passion serendipity.

Agree,
"i DON'T want the CVs to take any action because of the useless demands of viewers, i really dont want them to do anything because of the audiences' pressure."

Edited by eternalasha - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: serendipity.

Malika, babe, you've done it again! :)
This is a very sensible, much needed and nicely written post, and, it honestly, speaks my heart out 😳 Just the feelings and thoughts that i have. I completely agree with it, Ive said it time and again, i DON'T want the CVs to take any action because of the useless demands of viewers, i really dont want them to do anything because of the audiences' pressure. I really pity the CVs and makers when they have to take certain decisions just because of some fans going bonkers with not liking something, for once, let them do what they want and lets just sit back, enjoy and see the outcome. They are way more experienced in the field and every way than we are, so we CAN NOT teach them how to run a show, however confident you are of yourself, you still can't!
I really like some of the lines you've written, with regards to IshRa...

" For her he is her husband now and that naturally makes her stand by him and his family, both consciously and sub-consciously. " < exactly! Very true. She has accepted it before Raman, but this doesn't mean shes in love, but she has accepted the marriage and his family as hers for sure, and im really really proud of Ishita for that :')

" Her goodness is creating a chaos within him and soon he would be forced to be considerate for her " < WOW! Very true. It very much IS IT. She no longer retorts or does stuff to annoy him (literal annoyance, not mazaak wali :P) and when you keep poking a person, and the person doesn't retort, trust me, its NO FUN. & thats exactly what will happen. Im very very positive, that we WILL see a change in Raman towards Ishita after the bidding fiasco. for sure, like we've already seen a change in Raman for Ruhi & Family... it will happen for Ishita too, let the CVs and IshRa take their sweet time... it will definitely be worth it! 😳

Lovely post again, Malika!

beautifully said dear👏
@ malika well said too dear 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good post
I am fine with the progress into their relationship and i just worry too much audience pressure will make a mockery of what the cvs intend the story to lead to. we just need to have patience and let them tel the story, however I'd like to believe they do realise when we make a valid point for the betterment of the show.
Edited by momb24 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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awesome post Malika 👍🏼
agree with everything u said
as for the cvs ..this is an Ekta show so they are least likely to succumb to what a handful say or think 😆😉
Edited by ...RamonaG.... - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: serendipity.

Malika, babe, you've done it again! :)
This is a very sensible, much needed and nicely written post, and, it honestly, speaks my heart out 😳 Just the feelings and thoughts that i have. I completely agree with it, Ive said it time and again, i DON'T want the CVs to take any action because of the useless demands of viewers, i really dont want them to do anything because of the audiences' pressure. I really pity the CVs and makers when they have to take certain decisions just because of some fans going bonkers with not liking something, for once, let them do what they want and lets just sit back, enjoy and see the outcome. They are way more experienced in the field and every way than we are, so we CAN NOT teach them how to run a show, however confident you are of yourself, you still can't!
I really like some of the lines you've written, with regards to IshRa...

" For her he is her husband now and that naturally makes her stand by him and his family, both consciously and sub-consciously. " < exactly! Very true. She has accepted it before Raman, but this doesn't mean shes in love, but she has accepted the marriage and his family as hers for sure, and im really really proud of Ishita for that :')

" Her goodness is creating a chaos within him and soon he would be forced to be considerate for her " < WOW! Very true. It very much IS IT. She no longer retorts or does stuff to annoy him (literal annoyance, not mazaak wali :P) and when you keep poking a person, and the person doesn't retort, trust me, its NO FUN. & thats exactly what will happen. Im very very positive, that we WILL see a change in Raman towards Ishita after the bidding fiasco. for sure, like we've already seen a change in Raman for Ruhi & Family... it will happen for Ishita too, let the CVs and IshRa take their sweet time... it will definitely be worth it! 😳

Lovely post again, Malika!



useless is the word 😆😉

and if the love track was moving fast they'd be the first ones saying why are things going at jet speed etc etc 😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree with u

first Ekta show that shows child put first over lovey dovey relationship , all her shows show parents discarding kids for love

it is refreshing that its different and love will be shown after both work on it . The first steps have begun so patience and enjoy and do give CVs a chance .


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well see everyone comes here to forum and spends lots of time here not because they like to bash a fictional character but because they like the show so other ppl should stop telling ppl who give negative feedback that they are irrational bashing without reason and are biased which is unnecessary as not everyone would like everything so ppl would criticise what they don't like but for ppl to make posts basically mocking and ridiculing such members is terrible as you must remember feedback is both good and bad and If someone post negative feedback it means they have ulterior motives as believe me ppl take time out of their busy schedule to post here and if they give negative feedback they genuinely must not have liked it and instead of mocking if ppl could give proper retort to post in civil way it would be nice

And let me make it clear I would criticise If I don't like it and not praise as this is not FC and in forum dissent should be tolerated

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