What Raman feels about ishita on surface and subconsciously - Page 2

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Thanks nikki will reply to your post soon excellent points

i'm surprised @myself u knw...though i share a love-hate relation with Raman,yet i hv began to "understand" him...😲😆

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

i'm surprised @myself u knw...though i share a love-hate relation with Raman,yet i hv began to "understand" him...😲😆

well even I am supposed to be Raman basher and biased towards ishita but have made this post it seems winds are changing but it still does not change the fact Raman is an ass

well usually i always take hero's side in 99% of shows i watch..!! bt here kabhi am with heroine toh kabhi am with hero..totally followin the trends of the chars..😆

Vyas very good points and I get what you say but this guy has no priorities set in his life ,he changes himself according to situations which will not take him anywhere ,but might get isolated .
CV s have made this story complicated ,with adi around he cares little about ruhi but when he is not near he goes all ruhi and a dotting father.
He needs to be in middle ground and not going around

I simply can t get what they are tring to show as long as IShra are concerned

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

well usually i always take hero's side in 99% of shows i watch..!! bt here kabhi am with heroine toh kabhi am with hero..totally followin the trends of the chars..😆

Nikki I read your post and liked it but I could nt comment because I was annoyed with raman s obnoxious behavior,nothing was positive for me and I guess they ruined the dance and his words to shagun so I din t want to put up something negative in your positive post

Somewhere I feel he is slightly inclined towards adi which is unfair

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

this is wht i said in my topic too which i made last nite...!! He IS a Complicated Bhalla😆..!!

U know there IS a PROGRESS..!! Till now,he HAD TO be HIGHLY PROVOKED which made him bring his subconscious feelings to limelight lik

1)When he ws talli n blurted to ShaShok before IshRa shaadi ki how Ishu is perfect for Ruhi when Shashok were INDIRECTLY demeanin her..!!

2)When Ashok ws demeanin her while shashok came to drop Ruhi post bhallas won custody case

3)When Bala's mom ws demeanin her at anniv party

4)When Shagun ws demeanin her at holi party...

But yday's last scene with Ruhi where he supported Ishu ws totally out of NO PROVOCATION..!! It ws a normal convo b/w a father n daughter...!! And there Raman supported Ishita WITHOUT ANY PROVOCATION..And thts a GOOD THING indicating PROGRESS..!!

For Adi matter-either Adi may say dump Ishita(which Raman CERTAINLY cant do as it will affect Ruhi,so am hopeful of midway solution)or make Ishita say sorry to Adi & Shagun...!! nywz to hell with Adi...😆..!!

I want Raman's subconscious feelings to come out more n tht too majorly WITHOUT provocation lik happened in yday epi..!!

Nice post

Well he always defends her against outsiders and praises her


He needs to get to know what good he is avoiding in life

He needs to show respect to her

He needs to stop justifying marriage to ishita to adi

He needs to express what he feels to ishita before it is too late and he loses both ishita and ruhi

Originally posted by: nebuna

Nikki I read your post and liked it but I could nt comment because I was annoyed with raman s obnoxious behavior,nothing was positive for me and I guess they ruined the dance and his words to shagun so I din t want to put up something negative in your positive post

Somewhere I feel he is slightly inclined towards adi which is unfair

aww its ok Nebuna..its ok to disagree...!! i am NOT fully supportin Raman either which is clear in my post too...But i hv supported him where he should be too...!!

Also i would say the same which i just told to some1 else in my post..

to be AS HONEST i can be,i EXPECTED majorly frm Raman durin Simmi track end..!! All his probs ek taraf,the COMPULSORY situation of he sayin sorry ek taraf ..!! Aisa nahi hai ki Raman din question her char before lik durin Simmi track end..!! HE did...But all tht were before marriage..!!Post marriage his "once in a blue moon" revealation of his subconscious feelings for Ishu DID indicate he IS understanding Ishita to an extent..!! BUT all tht doesnt mean he can still heavily qn her char in the most pathetic way n almost throw her out for the mistake she never did n YET u couldn say a "sorry"?or atleast hvin a self talk of how WRONG he ws with Ishu then?? My hopes were THRASHED seein this..!! So frm tht epi i STOPPED EXPECTING anything frm Raman TEMPORARILY...!! i would put my hopes n expectations back on him ONLY when he shows STRONG SIGNALS of "controlling" his split personality behaviour...!!

This ws n will be my funda for upcoming epis..!! BUT tht doesnt mean if Raman shows something progressive,i would ignore it..!! i ws pleasantly taken aback with RuMan scene yday...!! There ws NO NEED for him to go "deep" n explain things to Ruhi...!! his one ws line enough for Ruhi to be calmed down tht Ishita loves her very very much..!! But the next line he said which shes jhelofyin his rude behavious only for ruhi-tht ws more lik he sayin to himself rather than to ruhi n thts a BIG THING...To say such SENSIBLE things without any provocation is a WELCOME CHANGE..!! And THIS is how i want to SEE the subtle changes in him..!! But for tht this adi track NEEDS to END ASAP..!!

Nywz am open to whtver hes gonna on Adi's ishaarein as hes still not reach the stage of "controlling" his split personality behaviour..!!

Nikki very true his split behavior is going to take time ,so till then I would watch as long as its tolerable and I am not going to analyze nor justify for some time till this settles down

But this adi track is getting on my nerves and I really hope they end it soon before loosing viewers

Originally posted by: nebuna

Vyas very good points and I get what you say but this guy has no priorities set in his life ,he changes himself according to situations which will not take him anywhere ,but might get isolated .
CV s have made this story complicated ,with adi around he cares little about ruhi but when he is not near he goes all ruhi and a dotting father.
He needs to be in middle ground and not going around

I simply can t get what they are tring to show as long as IShra are concerned

Thanks for commenting

Yes it clearly shows he is biased towards adi

He ignores Ruhi and does not care for her when adi is he

He has multiple personality disorder


He needs to value and trust ishita before it is too late and loses both ishita and Ruhi as both come in package

i hv an idea..for once Ruhi ALSO should bcome typcial sis of Adi to make Raman back on track...😆.. She SHOULD throw tantrums n PRESSURIZE Raman to chose b/w her n adi so tht Raman DNT dump Ishita for Adi..😆...!!

Kya Raman ko kabhi yeh nahi lagta how in epic manner hes being sandwitched b/w Adi n Ruhi??For Ruhi,he married Ishita n for Adi he wanna stay away frm Ishita..!!

My advice to RKB-first n foremost u need mental peace...go on in hibernation mode...😆