ISHRA's Relationship Progress Breakdown
[There are "Three Golden Rules" my Parents believe that every family should follow.]
1. Argue, Fight, Pull each other's hair, Hide one another's favourite sweets, etc... But at the end of the day always end up talking to each other. Either maintaining the whole 'I'm still angry wala' tone or the 'I've cooled down' tone(your choice😉) but no matter what at the end of the day, end up talking to one another. Because sometimes when people fight(couples,kids,friends etc) they can go on for days without talking to one another and my Parents find this particular behaviour supremely unhealthy regardless of whatever the relationship might be.
2. Though, I'm super mad and have literally just yelled my lungs out at you saying "I will never ever cook for you anymore, if you want food go cook yourself" because you decided to 'eat-out' despite telling me to cook dinner for you, I will still cook for you the very next day in fact I will ask you what you would like to eat and cook it for you.😆 My Parents always say that monday's fight should just end with monday, everyday is a brand new day and no fights should continue past the next day.
3. After marriage divorce is NOT an option (depends on the situations though, Example in cases such as 'Domestic Violence' this sort of things are not tolerable) if you are mad, take your ass in the other room and calm down, cause we're going to work this out. Because at the end of the day, we are going to watch a romantic movie and fall asleep on the sofa in each other arms.
& To my utter surprise😲 some of ISHRA's qualities match my parents 'Golden Rules'.
Firstly, it's quite obvious that no matter what sort of 'Amazingly Wonderful Words'🤣 they spout at each other during their fights, they always end up talking to one another the very next day like nothing happened. (AMNESIA I suppose.😆) Secondly, despite everything that has happened, they are always there for each other, by being the saving grace. There's a lot but will just state a recent event as an Example: Despite the fact of, firing Ishita with his bullet like words and was almost on the edge of throwing her out of the house, the very next minute after Parmeet explains everything, Raman very casually asks Ishita, "Why didn't she tell him about the problem?, he would have done something!" Like seriously ISHRA, one second you want to murder one another & the very next second both of you seem like, you can't live with each other.
Raman's Past
I know that some of you guys feel like Raman has to move on from his past and just forget everything but honestly it's easier said than done. It seems like Ishita has actually moved on from her past. So you guys can ask me, why can't Raman move on as well? That's because Ishita's was a love failure whereas Raman's is a LOVE BETRAYAL and there's a huge difference to it guys. I to a certain extent believe that in reality if any man had gone through what Raman had, he might not even want to live anymore. Just imagine if you were in Raman's shoes & your wife/husband did what Shagun had done, would you have moved on so easily? If my guess is right, many of you guys will not be even able imagine such a thing regardless of you either being married or single. It's like you watching your heart being stabbed continuously and that too by very person, whom your heart actually beats for. You are not worried about the pain you've to go through, you are just worried that something might happen to them since it's their soul that lives in your heart. & this exactly why Raman is not able to move on so easily. That doesn't mean that Raman still lingers his love for Shagun somewhere in his heart, NOT AT ALL! Raman DOES NOT love Shagun anymore. Raman in all these years has managed to put the pieces of his heart together but now his struggle is to make his heart beat/breathe again. & we very well know who's going to make that possible but for now his struggle will go on however this time he doesn't have to fight and deal with the wound caused by all the struggling alone & soon Raman too will realize that.
P.S. The 3 Golden Rules are not made up and it's strictly followed in my home. I know it might sound dramatic but oh well, my parents are just WEIRDLY different.LOL🤣 Even now they act as newly married couples/love birds, because they believe that Love is born again with a new day. I'm stuck with lovey dovey parents, can't help it, it's even weird when they give me love advices.🤣But I'm determined to break the Love marriage trend that followed from my grandparents & parents, thus am only going for arrange marriage,😃😉 which clearly my parents are againstLOL. & I suppose my parents are the main reason why my thoughts on Love are SO NOT ORDINARY!😆 and they are also the MAIN REASON why I BELIEVE that TRUE LOVE DOES EXIST.❤️
With Love,
Shiva.❤️
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