is raman doing all this intentionally??

I feel raman's attitude with ruhi these days...dunno why it seems intentional from his side
does he want ruhi to hate him?
till today ruhi nvr said she hates her papa but today ruhi explicitly mentioned she doesnt like raman specially the way he treated her.so is it some plan of raman?
else its highly unexpected out of him , the guy who helped one old man and lifted his weight on his shoulders
raman is the guy who gave shelter to mihir whose supposedly shagun's brother
raman took mihir's side even though ruhi's custody was at stake
he made a point to apologise to mr iyer during police case
he specially offered to sponsor ishu's wedding
when ishu's was hand was hurt n shagun gv a damn abt it he was the one to bandage it
he even helped his lawyer's family who treats him as a brother
raman was the one who slapped romi bcoz he cudnt maintain the dignity of a woman

so a guy whose so good...who even keeps a track of li'l things like helping someone in need...how can he push a li'l kid?

one thing i noticed even though raman pushed ruhi but she wasnt hurt...neither that day nor today.
and had raman pushed ruhi out of anger today he wud hv atleast checked to see if ruhi is alright...but tht wasnt the case .

somewhere i feel raman is doing this so tht ruhi hates him...n if that will happen it will be easy for her to adjust with ashok n shagun...to accept ashok as her father...n that is happening as well...ruhi has begun to hate raman

if thats the case i feel rly bad for him coz honestly i cant beleive tht a person like him can push a lil kid...hes depressed but surely not such a heartless person

Hw I wish wht u r saying turns out to be truth but doesnt seem like. I guess ashok's ghost is more impactful thn lil girls innocence

no way raman is in hell shock knowing ruhi is not his blood .

Originally posted by: rittika

Hw I wish wht u r saying turns out to be truth but doesnt seem like. I guess ashok's ghost is more impactful thn lil girls innocence

yeah mst probably wot u r saying is true
but seriously i cant accept tht hes being so rude n violent
bcoz even ashok is not like that to ruhi
its against raman's characterization

awww i really hope wat u said is correct!

might be possible...but then another question arise...is raman so good??? he made ruhi to hate him so that she can accept Ashok (his enemy) as her father...

Originally posted by: rockstar29

no way raman is in hell shock knowing ruhi is not his blood .

he loves ruhi to death but the words haunt him .

he is disturbed so his minds are playing game.

that is what it seems but i wish he doesnt turn out to be so week n all this hating ruhi n all is ajust a natak...hes making it difficult for me to appreciate him...n m not liking it

It is not intentional but result of his internal turmoil and emotional wreck

Originally posted by: mrym_rauf

awww i really hope wat u said is correct!

i also thought that he cant pust her like that, he just cant be so heartless, but when u r angry u just cant see anything n thats wat happened with Raman, he pushed her n didnt wait to see whether Ruhi is hurt or not, he was just gone from there, cz he was angry with himself, Ashok makes Raman hates himself more, i think,

yup thats a point as of now he is not in a mnetal state to figure out wats right and wrong
but for me it will be a bit difficult to forgive him if he cries for ruhi n his behaviour towards her once he knows the truth
then he is also proved to be like those ppl who beleive that blood is thicker than water
bcoz even if a kid is of ur enemies' pushing him/her is against the dignity of a gentleman
n i dont want raman to fall from that place

i don't think he is doing all this intentionally. He is too hurt and confused to think sensibly ATM