Raman and Shagun as parents

Originally posted by: ..Naina..

I just really don't understand the Bhalla family, at all. Obviously, their worry, etc would make sense, but the extent to which they go with everything is a bit much. Poor Ruhi, what a mess for a little kid to get caught up in.

The Balla family have that attitude of '' my way or high way '' 🤔 And all including Raman don't think before speaking and have a loud bout. They don't even look like a caring family to Ruhi , yes they care for her but sometimes they look so irresponsible ; remember how poor ruhi was crying over tooth pain no one noticed , then letting Ruhi with Dimpy without even knowing much about her is just too much.

I just really wanted to comment on that precap though, not going to waste any words on Shagun or Ashok - heartless people. Ishita's parents - my heart completely went out to them today. Oh that poor mother's biggest wish is once again shattered before her very eyes, and tomorrow's episode is probably going to be one filled with all kinds of anguish. I just hope that Subbu's family isn't chilling there, especially his mother, to add salt on the wounds of the Iyer family. Definitely not blaming Ishita for her final decision, although she could have handled the Ruhi situation better, but I do think she's well rid of Prateik. He did seem a bit too perfect.

my heart goes to Mr and Mrs Iyer specially the mom her only dream was to see her daughter getting married I wonder how the Ballas will react when they come to know about Ishita's broken engagement and the reason behind it. Will it knock some sense in their head 😕

Awesome post, as always!

Thanks

Originally posted by: akrj01

It's heartbreaking to see Ruhi pine for her parents who are refusing to be a part of her live due to their own needs and ego.

I was really hoping that Shagun would at least go to the hospital and sign those documents but unfortunately her priorities are elsewhere.

As far as Raman is concerned, the fact that he completely ignores his daughter just because she reminds him of his wife is unacceptable. In my opinion, a parent's love should be beyond that and more.

Originally posted by: Aahaana

Raman is not a bad parent but he has a lot of emotional baggage to deal with. Once its done, he will be the better if not the best parent. He loves her and provides whatever she needs but fails to understand, he cannot be depended on his family and parents to take care of her. Sometimes love is no enough, we have to show it with our care and affection- small kids will not understand feelings or words - they needs to be shown by our acts. He is still bitter about the past and want to prove he can do better than Ashok and in the process forgot about his little girl - she is the real victim of the infidelity mess. He was betrayed but Ruhi lost her both parents somewhere in the mess.

Like savz said Raman is physically there as a parent , that too not always. Him having emotional baggage is obvious but if he has taken responsibility of Ruhi's upbringing then he needs to fulfill it. Taking her responsibility but ignoring her is not justified.

Agree with your point @ bold

Shagun left her kid for her own happiness. She was willing to leave husband and child for Ashok without compromising her basic needs but is willing to compromise to please Ashok -_-. I thought she may have a little bit of humanity inside her but nah..not even that. Money and luxury life is not everything and true happiness runs deeper than the possessions! She will miss Ruki once she sees the close bond Ishu and Ruki shares :) Her mother instincts will start to work out of jealously when its too late:)

@ bold so true . Shagun knows she is still Ruhi's mother even though she doesn't live with her But the moment she sees her place in Ruhi's life as her mother is threatened , her jalousie will start to work. And i feel the custody case will be a combination of manipulation by Ashok and Shagun's jalousie.

You are right about the manipulation, they may just want the custody to beat Raman since they lost to him in business so its his way to take revenge🥱.

Prateik is very practical in life. Its just that he is not the right match for Ishu due to their different paths in life. He never said it was favor - its all about exceptions in life. He expects her to care of his career and be there for him in the same way he has no issue with her infertility. And she expected him to be by her side when she needed him the most. He is outsider and like Raman, he is not aware of the close bond she shares with Ruki. However he is at fault for not even giving her a chance to explain.

Originally posted by: -Roshani-